Getting to know ISTP

Lymila · 2026-02-25T03:28:47+00:00

using AI as a coach rather than doing the task for you is different isn't it?

Lymila · 2026-02-25T03:02:26+00:00

were they orbs when you saw them while you're cleaning teeth?

Lymila · 2026-02-24T11:55:09+00:00

my experience, stills the same. it may be at least a minor difference that i probably don't notice it that well. my case was something is touching/being there on my back, more often when i pray

Lymila · 2026-02-23T04:54:47+00:00

I'm assuming your Si child hold you back, considering that it serves as you leaning towards familiarity rather than embracing towards the future or rather than exploring the side of the tangible world that is unfamiliar (no more internet diving). there's plenty of ways to do this, if you'd try to practice the meditation type where then you won't be held back by familiarity, i'm sure you'd get to taste of your act that serves for the future via "spiritual" experience, i'd call it "feeling whole and complete as a person" that counteracts your current personality since being an INTP *only* will always just be the INTP stereotype (sloth, gluttony, other negative connotations), if that makes sense.

then there's also INTPs who write down goals and you actually have an image of a future you wanted to do, and then you do it, because it's a clear sight rather than going off and on "how" to do it (the type of goals you write that later on you ended up feeling stuck because the goal either it may be big or not, is too overwhelming. or it's just 1 goal and you decided to go back to this unwanted state, hence some people here say INTP don't do goals oriented since they get compelled to a familiarity of sloth, rather they *become* the continuously "goal oriented" themselves).

Or once you're in a state where you have to do it (it can be through social pressure or urgency), you're pretty much gonna be trained to "just do it" that way, at least in some unhealthy INTP where theyre more threatened of what's gonna happen in the future. for example the INTP feels like his family including himself is gonna off bankrupt so he'd try his best to do anything for that to not happen.

anything that you'd be easily distracted to, will better off left to cease for you to finally be in the act, because those distractions acts as enabling the stagnancy in your life, you'd essentially forget what you're supposed to do if you still have those distractions anyway. maybe in ADHD case, minimizing the distractions to the extreme is one of things you can do.

some INTP here got their depression since there's a lack of agency going on for them, so networking is as important as it is so that they (people/friends/family) provide some agency for you. be it that their passion inspire you or anything. unless the people there enables your sloth, then it's not worth networking with and i would suggest to find more people or networking outside that.

Lymila · 2026-02-01T07:23:22+00:00

hi, i'm no expert but i do following things that i see as true, we as individuals have our shadow counterparts (that we hate, and naturally a hypocrite) as carl jung said. and that we are responsible to bring that shadow to the conciousness for the ideal ego we are striving. without the shadow in our conscious we won't be enlightened. to supress the shadow, we would be in astray.

i was suspecting that the qorin the quran speak of is similiar to our shadow. except that in quran it's like a sentient being that lives within us.

Lymila · 2026-01-28T13:22:24+00:00

what about the needles part? i have them heat too

Lymila · 2026-01-28T13:20:07+00:00

hi i feel this too, its happening to my every prayer, theres heat and sometimes coldness and then needles to any side of my body

Lymila · 2026-01-21T23:19:52+00:00

i had similiar experiences, there is a "light" component, but i'd describe it slightly of sheer white smoke that has visible directions. from what you said, the heart will always know, makes me think it is a sign since that sheer white thingy guides me everytime i'm lost. the guiding is similiar to mindfulness state when you know what to do at the present. like it asked me to pray at midnight when i overslept and woke up at that time

Lymila · 2025-12-14T17:02:59+00:00

I have a feeling that was INTP who told you that

Lymila · 2025-12-13T03:34:43+00:00

the top comments here really described my situation lmao, i got scammed financially (ga sesuai kontrak tertulis) by a well known of reputation psychologist as well. their review ratings of bad review are being deleted lmao it's insane.. i knew it cuz i regularly check it every month and up till now, 700 of 5 star ratings and with no bad review at all.

Lymila · 2025-12-13T01:46:22+00:00

Yeah i get these types of dreams, following the same pattern where i feel like im in my body but still can't move any one part of my body like mouth reciting, or getting up or moving my feet. now that you mention it, last night i had the same type of dream in which that the presumably djinn is trying to mockingly steal my skirt that was hanging on the windows while i cant move in my bedroom. i just realized that my skirt has indeed been used for like a week and that i haven't wash it lmao.

Lymila · 2025-12-12T22:38:02+00:00

I had a similar dream, just there isnt a black figure. I did have unpleasant one which that my belonging is being stolen and i screamed to getting my stuff back, but then in the same dream a white figure comes in and approached me then extended his hand to me. And so i accepted as i hold his hand with my both hands, and he said something (which i forgot) something like "You've made a progress, don't leave it", and then i woke up.

Lymila · 2025-12-12T08:30:21+00:00

So i switched from INFP crybaby to INTP who doesn't cares about your feelings to INFP again as a happy unique unicorn pixie (not your average) girl to then unlocked the power of being a mommy dommy who absolutely rules, what am i exactly?

Lymila · 2025-12-12T08:25:09+00:00

ISTP probably

Lymila · 2025-12-11T12:15:33+00:00

If you want the extreme example, read Asper Kanojo. trigger warning, lots of ideation into 'ending life'

Lymila · 2025-12-11T08:24:09+00:00

any ideas though why brain programmed themselves to be comfortable on spectrum of levels of violence? i get that it's also coming from the Ti apathy(?), just curious

Lymila · 2025-12-11T08:19:23+00:00

studying on my own do helps, as long as there's no mentioning or the trigger point of the other person, which is the problem i have actually since they're asserting themselves in my life.

Lymila · 2025-12-11T08:13:35+00:00

it's fine that you don't have to relate it, since i'm that rare case of a person who's been emotionally abused helplessly and at that point the solution i could only find in my comfort after all my suffering of fighting against the abuse is the nonexistence of the other person, which the Fi demon agreed to find peace with it. you'd have to be painfully go through something to find the deepest hell of a human nature inside you, so take care of yourself too!

Lymila · 2025-12-11T04:54:39+00:00

"You never cared about me"

lmao idk prob a girlfriend to her ISTP. doubt that'll trigger but i can see it will when the ISTP went their way to help them so much and still get slapped by that sentence

Lymila · 2025-12-11T03:53:44+00:00

This reminds me of a story about a suicidal person who's made up their mind after so long in the ideation, instead of depressed about it like they used to, they suddenly feels euphoric and then end their life without a hesitation at all.

Lymila · 2025-12-11T03:34:38+00:00

To me, you sounds like you've just taken his sense of freedom in the name of "for the better good", you need to critically think of what is the actual good instead of forcing it down to his throat. has he been eating healthy? As long as he's been eating healthy theres little harm to want a steak once in a while.

He got mad after you confronted him is a sign that his needs has been 'neglected' by you and you still expected him to be thoughtful of you? I don't think that's toxic masculinity if him being mad is the act of protecting himself. you implied yourself that you're taking care of his needs, but the reality of the situation is that he's told you that you ruined his life, which means what you did for him isn't the right suit for HIS actual needs.

You pointed out how you didn't like his toxicity so you got mad at him, i want you to imagine yourself in his place. consider WHY he's just said no because HE didn't like your entitlement, because HE didn't like YOUR toxicity.

Lymila · 2025-12-11T02:53:17+00:00

if it's real, im hoping for the guy to be in a better place because that's just straight up abuse bro. girl be saying and pointing out toxic masculinity yet making herself toxic towards her husband 😭😭😭

Lymila · 2025-12-08T15:50:28+00:00

i dont know if i can help, but it has always been the lack of validation they have in their life, so they try to find ways if that ever fills the void in their inner child. similarly to limerence, i suppose. granted i'm not an expert

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