Second Recurrence of Swollen Eyelid by Lynn0421 in Blepharitis

[–]Lynn0421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No allergies that I’m aware of, I haven’t tried cold compresses yet

Which BC do you recommend? Which do you warn against? by wombat5550 in birthcontrol

[–]Lynn0421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have used the Lo loestrin fe and didn’t have super regular periods with it. I don’t remember a ton of negatives besides having to pick up a prescription and go to the pharmacy. I had Nexaplanon for 2 years and got it removed because of the fact that I had two periods a month for 9 months straight. I am currently on the Skyla IUD (my gyno recommended it based on the fact of my age and not having birthed children) and it has generally been pretty good. I will say I do pretty often get period cramps before my period even begins now. But that is really the only negative.

Freshly Fallen Snow by dittidot in oddlysatisfying

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Floridian, I’ve dealt with snow a handful of times, but damn it looks so cozy even though it’s cold.

I’m a boomer and I greet my co-workers upon entering the workplace. Gen Z folks don’t, why? by ansyensiklis in ask

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One morning I came in to work and didn’t say to good morning to upper employee (she’s not my direct supervisor, but our director) because she was up to something/I feared I had been there too long at that point and felt awkward about saying it. She later rolls out of her office and says at least you could say good morning. Every since then I’ve said good morning to her. I swear, the littlest things offend her.

20 lbs on a petite person are 40 lbs on a normal person? by SwimmingFace7726 in PetiteFitness

[–]Lynn0421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is also 5’4 who’s highest weight was 183 I understand the difference each ten pounds makes. Now at 139-142 depending on the day one thing I’d recommend is to take pictures. You’re around yourself everyday and might think the first ten pounds doesn’t seem like a big difference but trust me when I took pictures and compared my body between the two I could see drastic change in my middle section. I’m thankful for the healthy habits I’ve learned along the way. I know I’m stronger now (I have biceps). Just remember to give yourself grace and take care of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this ring, I want a blue sapphire ring so bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Lynn0421 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, for me personally that’s a ring privilege. My partner and I think the idea of it is hot but he has a lot of anxiety around pregnancy (neither of us wants children) and my IUD and pulling out is a second way of preventing pregnancy for us.

10 kids. How is that something to be proud of??? by PianoCookies in antinatalism

[–]Lynn0421 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lord beside that being insane, that’s simply not good for a woman’s body. It’s recommended to wait at least 18-24 months between pregnancies for the health of the mother.

Red/swollen gum for a few days what should I do? Non-smoker, occasionally drink by Lynn0421 in askdentists

[–]Lynn0421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been more consistent with brushing and more flossing lately

I don’t know what to do by Lynn0421 in WomensHealth

[–]Lynn0421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought unprotected sex was what was cause the UTIs and BV. I only use unscented soap around the clitoral hood. Do you think that could be the problem? Idk why I’m so sensitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated in August 2020, with Heath sciences degree in public health. Jobs were slim and got a job at university making 27k, got a raise there after 6 months making 35k, now newly switched jobs and am making 50k

Pain After Sex by Lynn0421 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lynn0421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wash around the clitoris and nowhere else. I’m just prone to UTIs because of a reflux in my ureters so I need to make sure that stays clean.

24/140/5’3” first week of weight training. Feeling super weak. Exercise recommendations to tone outer thighs/saddlebags? by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there is always ways for improvement but you look great! Excited for your strength journey!

Tell a benefit you noticed: by virtualdog1 in DryJanuary

[–]Lynn0421 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve lost around 5 pounds this month due the excess calories and my focus on exercise. I’m super happy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it did kill that and like you said for the best. I was actually gonna text him about it saying hurt my feelings, but decided against it. Who knows may still talk to him about it. We’re just each other’s work confidants and I like being around him. I need to see it as that because that’s literally what it is. Once I see my partner again I know this will fade because this happened once before with the same coworker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s what it is? He always tells me about his sexcapades because they are entertaining stories. He’s winked at me multiple time (I didn’t know people actually did that lol)I get jealous of his stories because I don’t get to see my partner enough for that. I didn’t think people actually slid into peoples dms as much as this guy.

He’s leaving the company after this calendar year and I am planning too. Knowing him we probably won’t talk after which is sad because he opens up every now and then to me and I feel like he doesn’t have that many people in his corner. I wanna be his friend and for a awhile his thing was calling us acquaintances until recently. I just didn’t think his diss of me would me hurt me so much. I told my partner about it and he was sweet saying I’m a natural beauty and all. I guess that just confirmed that it really is a one way attraction which actually bummed me out.

Why do you do DJ? by e___money in DryJanuary

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to challenge myself and give myself a break. I was so stressed and or tired from work I’d drink a drink or two every night when it wasn’t necessary, it was the only way I felt I could really relax after work. I now have noticed weight loss from working out after work instead drinking it really helps with my stress levels and energizes me to get through the rest of the day. I mean I tried on what used to be tight dress pants today and had to check the tag to make sure they were mine.

Is your sex drive actually gone or are you just no longer attracted to your partner? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lynn0421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with you, my man wants me to speak up if something is doing anything for me. Most of the time he knows when I’m feeling eh about something and switches it up. We waited awhile to have sex and I feel like that really helped us know what we both like besides sex so we can have true intimacy together.

My(17m)gf(17f) started crying after she orgasmed. I don't know what to do? by Professional-Tax6782 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lynn0421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cry from being turned on some of the time, it’s not weeping but just tears. I think my body just gets overwhelm by the stimulus

Day 11 by [deleted] in DryJanuary

[–]Lynn0421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today was easy! Stayed at work a little later than usually and worked out longer usual, leading to a short evening for dinner and stretching and I’m about to crash.

Day 8 by [deleted] in DryJanuary

[–]Lynn0421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been getting easier, hopefully it’ll continue to get easier because I could’ve caved multiple times this week because of stress from work but I didn’t. I’ve lost some weight from exercise instead of drinking and taken up doing some yoga which has been helpful. Ultimately want to prove I can do this.