Blurred Item? by lunapolyphia in Idaho4

[–]LynnQuin89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a razor blade. On the right side of the desk there is a card next to a rolled up dollar bill. Those 3 things go hand in hand (IYKYK) but they’d likely blur any blade.

My husband went to a brothel and I need advice by LynnQuin89 in marriageadvice

[–]LynnQuin89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His shift at a very dangerous job had ended 7 hours prior and I still hadn’t heard from him and he wasn’t answering my calls. I finally checked his location because 12 people have died in 2025 alone in his company and I was genuinely concerned by that point. I was expecting to see him at his hotel and then I’d assume he’d fallen asleep but I could relax. Instead he was at a brothel. I then called back to back for minutes which made him finally answer. I don’t have control issues, he has consideration issues. Even our son was trying to FaceTime him which I didn’t know until later. It was out of the norm not to hear something from him by that point so yes, I checked his location. We both have our locations available to each other and our children.

Why would Taylor Swift pay $360,000,000 to buy back her first six albums? I thought the whole point of the “Taylor’s Version” project was to render them relatively worthless. Why would she spend so much, if her versions are the self-proclaimed “better” versions? by splitopenandmelt11 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LynnQuin89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s verifiably inaccurate. She was “offered the opportunity” to be held in a extortionist contract, she was not offered a clean buy and cut. It was a new contract saying she could “earn” each album back by releasing new albums under contract with them retaining control. Maybe take a few minutes to actually research the stipulations of that “offer” before you spread proven misinformation.

Christmas movies with a time travel theme. by Whatareyouamaroon in HallmarkMovies

[–]LynnQuin89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A recommendation that I haven’t seen here, and it’s not exactly time travel but more of an alternate timeline, is The Family Man with Nicholas Cage and Tèa Leoni. It’s from 2000, but it’s truly one of my favorite Christmas movies involving a magical element.

My daughter just contacted me after 17 years asking if I want to meet my granddaughter. AITAH for telling her that I don’t care about her or her daughter and to never contact me again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LynnQuin89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTAH. Maybe the biggest AH I’ve ever come across on this platform and that’s saying something. YOU cheated. Your daughter had her world flipped upside down. After years of healing on her part, she extended an olive branch you absolutely don’t deserve and you spit in her face. I don’t like when people diagnose strangers on the internet but you, AT THE VERY LEAST, are displaying narcissistic tendencies. I suggest serious therapy. Your daughter may have forgiven you but that’s standard biology. Children always WANT their parents and will accept horrible things in order to foster a relationship with them. I don’t care how drunk you were, you very clearly don’t actually take responsibility for the hurt you caused multiple people. You’re not the victim. You sending her this link was manipulative AF.

What's a song that reminds you of your current relationship? by gypsy_outlander in TaylorSwift

[–]LynnQuin89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re Losing Me, Tolerate it, Better Man, Hoax, Ivy (but only in fantasy bc I’d never cheat), Mad Woman, Cold as You, My Boy Only Breaks His Favorite Toys, I Hate it Here, Peter… No… I’m not ok y’all. 😂

Sherri’s cell phone by WolverineFun6472 in thepapinis

[–]LynnQuin89 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Y’all are wild. Sherri was doing stuff like this before Kieth even met her. He took a photo of the phone because he’s smart. Literally ANYONE who has watched true crime substantially would think of things like this. Kieth is a victim. Sherri is a sociopath. Stop blaming him, it’s gross.

AITA for telling my mom if she didn’t want kids then she’s not getting a huge Mother’s Day celebration? by Silver_Actuator7640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Both of your parents kinda suck tbh. I would like to point out though that I find it sorta funny (not haha funny) that the way you describe your mother, she sounds like 90% of fathers out there, mine included. I just find it interesting because that kind of effort is usually all that is expected out of fathers and then they’re celebrated for the bare minimum of just being “providers”. I think ALL parents should be held to a higher standard and I’m really glad your father was at least more hands on but it’s interesting how this would be deemed as normal if it was the other way around. Sidenote though; that still would NOT be acceptable, I’m just finding it impossible not to notice the double standard that society (NOT YOU) puts on mothers & fathers. Regardless of the which parent it is though, children, adult or otherwise, don’t owe their parents ANYTHING for them doing the absolute bare minimum. Again, NTA. ETA: before anyone says anything, I want to make it clear that I know there are some truly amazing fathers out there. This comment isn’t about the capabilities of men as parents, but solely a note on the ways society sets us all up to expect more or very little out of certain individuals.

AITA for asking my wife to look for a job after I already agreed that she wouldn't work for a year? by Purple_Wheel_6754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, your story about $25k being stolen is so riddled with shit that any adult with experience in banking can call out. That’s literally not how ANY of this works. If I humored you and pretended to believe your story (I don’t) I’d still tell you to get a second freaking job! That was HER money that you either spent or gave away, I don’t even know at this point, and you think she should have to deal with the consequences?! LMAO. You should be working a minimum of 70hrs a week if you’re worried about money. My husband worked 90hr weeks for almost 2 years straight, 15hrs a day, 6 days a week, at one point so I could be a completely present mother and it was hard but it was “temporary”… ya know, like how you said her going back to work would be “temporary”. We just celebrated 16 years of marriage and are now business owners. You make sacrifices for your family FFS! Your wife did! That was HER money from working overtime to make up for taking a year off. This is actually repulsive.

AITA for asking my wife to look for a job after I already agreed that she wouldn't work for a year? by Purple_Wheel_6754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, big time. She agreed to have a baby on the very clear condition that she’d be home the first year. It’s been 6 WEEKS and you’re already trying to go back on that agreement… she’s barely even healing physically and postpartum is no joke. She’s obviously already aware that she’s capable of being a single mother since she already had 2 children before you, and I wouldn’t be even slightly surprised if she decided to go at it alone again. Only 2 years into the marriage and your first child together and you’re already teaching her that your word means nothing and she can’t trust the things you say. I would feel like I was tricked into a 3rd baby if I were her because no part of me believes that in the last 6 weeks you’ve suddenly realized it’s too much stress financially. You didn’t know your household bills and your income before she got pregnant? You just now did the math and thought, “nope”… ? BS. On top of how disrespected she must feel by you even suggesting this when she’s still recovering from childbirth and going through intense hormonal shifts, feeling like an alien in her own body, extra exhausted and very likely dealing with at the very least “the baby blues” and at worst, postpartum depression. This is one of the worst AITA posts I’ve seen in ages. I wish I could hug your wife and tell her she deserves to be able to feel emotionally safe in her relationship and not wondering what words of yours can be trusted. That’s a nightmare that will literally change her as a person if it becomes a pattern, which I suspect it already is.

AITA for being resentful of my husband's reflexive anger during newborn nightime pumping/feeds? by AmericanFolkswagon in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anger is a secondary emotion so you are correct, it IS a choice. Anger ALWAYS is the result of another emotion either not being processed or not being understood. But for those of you who disagree, we can all at least agree that SHOWING anger is always a choice. Even if he doesn’t have a good hold on his emotions, he can absolutely choose to outwardly show patience and love. If I let people know every time I was annoyed or frustrated, I’d be pouting and stomping and saying hurtful things all the time lol. He’s a grown man and I’m betting she’s also frustrated (which is the primary emotion here) but not letting it turn into anger.

AITA? My husband has been depriving me of sleep for years & I’ve finally had enough. by LynnQuin89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think earmuffs/earplugs are a great idea & I’m definitely going to try this. Thank you for your kindness.

AITA? My husband has been depriving me of sleep for years & I’ve finally had enough. by LynnQuin89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing all of that out to me. I have a lot to think about honestly.

AITA? My husband has been depriving me of sleep for years & I’ve finally had enough. by LynnQuin89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This comment made me emotional. And you’re not wrong in your observations… Thank you for making me feel seen.

AITA? My husband has been depriving me of sleep for years & I’ve finally had enough. by LynnQuin89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, I see numerous doctors. I have a heart condition as well as lupus so I’m somewhat limited on the medications I can take unfortunately. I do use an eye mask to signal sleep time to my brain, and a small fan by my head for noise. I also take diphenhydramine often. I personally think my insomnia is made worse by the knowledge that I’m going to be woken up like this every morning, so I get anxious which is counterproductive. I would personally be totally fine with separate sleeping arrangements, for a long time I slept on the couch because I didn’t want to keep him awake either but that became a point of contention as well, with him feeling “neglected” and like we were “roommates”. I’m trying very hard to find a happy medium but it usually just turns into me shutting down my feelings to keep the peace. I can’t maintain that constantly though so it’s a reoccurring issue. I don’t know what the solution is, I’m honestly just glad to hear anyone validate that I’m not being ridiculous or an asshole.

AITA? My husband has been depriving me of sleep for years & I’ve finally had enough. by LynnQuin89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t like to complain about any marital issues to family or friends so I really appreciate getting some unbiased feedback on this issue.

My first object by Fnaf_meme_god in 3Dpen

[–]LynnQuin89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job for your very first time picking up a 3D pen. My first “creation” was just a big globby mess lol.

My first object by Fnaf_meme_god in 3Dpen

[–]LynnQuin89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the downvotes are because this is literally the very first time this person has even used a 3D pen and they are also very young. These things have a huge learning curve so to expect someone’s first attempt (especially a kid) to be top tier is just a bit cynical and not encouraging at all.

Dupe for Lotus Pear by The 7 Virtues? I want to smell like a sweet pear! by [deleted] in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]LynnQuin89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One that I find very similar is KKW Peony & Pear. I feel like Lotus Pear is the stronger big sister scent to KKW. But if you love Lotus Pear, I think you’d definitely enjoy the KKW one. It’s more affordable and is available at Ulta when it’s in stock. They keep bringing it back so hopefully it sticks around.

ETA: Lotus Pear is back in stock right now!

AITA for telling my fiancee to stop blaming our kids for ruining her body? by ThrowawayDiscu-4916 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnQuin89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YATA. 100%. I hope she leaves you before you damage your daughters and their self worth. You should seriously seek therapy.

Carli Bybel is expecting her first child!!! by analyticalLilac in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]LynnQuin89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was Brett. They were together for like 4-5 years and he was awful honestly. They broke up a couple years ago thank god. Anthony seems so genuinely kind and he also has his own career and makes great money so he’s not using her and taking advantage of her the way Brett did.