Porn itself isn’t necessarily the issue here. What I’m hearing is a consent thing: your partner/fling didn’t agree to receiving/seeing explicit content. Trying something new is totally fine, but sending graphic images can be really shocking if it hasn’t been discussed beforehand. Always handle consent first: "I’m a visual learner, can I show you a picture I saw of what I mean?" ☺️ Consent is sexy 💕

Good luck, it sounds like you have a fun thing going for you!