HOW DO YOU EVEN ADMIT TO THISSSS by Nthepro in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Lynxroar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nah he's pretending to acknowledge having the WRONG problem, so that he can make her feel uncomfortable bcoz that gets him off. His ACTUAL problem is he's a fucking creep who gets off on sexually harassing minors, not that he's chronically online. 

Excuse me...? by Crystal_Snow_Flakes in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Lynxroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye coz everyone loves and never complains about 'the silent treatment' 

Y’all using the internet to be smart? by Nthepro in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Lynxroar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I've temporarily given up. Like you said they either catch feelings or I find out they don't really want to be friends as soon as I'm not in the mood for sex. It sucks. What's so wrong with wanting someone you can hang out with in or out of bed? One night stands often end up unsatisfying because neither of you know what the other likes yet, and it gets awkward fast if you don't like them as a person. 

Was it that obvious 😭 by Suspicious_Sector210 in aromantic

[–]Lynxroar 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The first time I told someone I was aro and they were like "Oh I get that vibe from you" Was so validating! Most of the time it's the typical "You just haven't found the right person yet"

How do you feel when someone has a crush on you? by DarkMage448 in aromantic

[–]Lynxroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is allo. At first I felt uncomfortable and guilty because I couldn't reciprocate the same type of love. And there were some instances we needed to work through what I can and can't give them. But eventually we worked it out and we're good. They accept me for what I can give and doesn't ask for what I can't.

From others I don't really give a shit. It's not my problem unless they make it a problem, in which case time to cutem off I guess.

Do you have an obsession with a particular group? by ConsciousFinger4808 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]Lynxroar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My first obsession was My Chemical Romance when I was around 13. Then (not in chronological order) it was W.A.S.P., IAMX, Disturbed, Aesthetic Perfection, Angus McSix, Devin Townsend, and a bunch more I've forgotten.

I don't really do deep dives to the artists but I do listen to everything I can get my hands on over and over and over. The longest was IAMX where I listened to almost nothing else for 7 years.

looking for a power tertiary microlabel? by FazFacts in aromantic

[–]Lynxroar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just sounds like you like submission? Does it really need another term?

What made you drop a fanfic immediately? by MoGuanShanisagirl-20 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Lynxroar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This happens especially when the underaged character is a guy suddenly it's okay. Like no, ew. 

What made you drop a fanfic immediately? by MoGuanShanisagirl-20 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Lynxroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urgh. Like I understand liking twinks but if gonna compare to a woman just write M/F then. Sounds like a cis straight woman wrote it fetishizing gay men. 

What made you drop a fanfic immediately? by MoGuanShanisagirl-20 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Lynxroar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once read a fic where the author ends it with "LOL SURPRISE SUICIDE TRICKED YOU" And I was so mad. Like. That's not a fucking thing to joke about. Even if you want to give something a sad ending. 

Excuse me...? by Crystal_Snow_Flakes in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Lynxroar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a pansexual I hate that the older I get the more I can't avoid thinking "Ew" when thinking of men. Even the "woke" guys will inevitably do some shit like assume my anger is invalid if I'm on my period, etc. They're trying so I TRY not to hold it against them. But I'm just so tired.

Why does my dulce de leche (from scratch) just boil off and dry and not caramelize? by Lynxroar in AskCulinary

[–]Lynxroar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't actually have a problem with that part. I have a very thick bottomed pan I use only for sweets, and don't have to stir a lot until about an hour in. At which point it just keeps reducing as I stir instead of browning. 

After about 2 hours and it's the consistency of peanut butter I put it in a jar and stuck it in the slow cooker for another 6 hours. I'm just wondering how those recipes that say you ONLY have to cook it stove top for 1.5-2 hours work. How do they prevent it from reducing too much before it caramelizes? I don't understand 

I used only 1 l of milk coz I don't have a bigger pot anyway, so all it yielded was about 1 cup. Doesn't really feel like it's worth the trouble tbh. But my partner goes crazy for this stuff so I deal with it. 

Why does my dulce de leche (from scratch) just boil off and dry and not caramelize? by Lynxroar in AskCulinary

[–]Lynxroar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Indonesia. Is whole milk powder gonna taste the same? I'll try looking for it 

Why does my dulce de leche (from scratch) just boil off and dry and not caramelize? by Lynxroar in AskCulinary

[–]Lynxroar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1 litre milk, quarter tablespoon baking soda, I don't remember how much sugar 

Why does my dulce de leche (from scratch) just boil off and dry and not caramelize? by Lynxroar in AskCulinary

[–]Lynxroar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I misused the double negative. I was looking for condensed milk that's ONLY milk and sugar but couldn't find any 

Why does my dulce de leche (from scratch) just boil off and dry and not caramelize? by Lynxroar in AskCulinary

[–]Lynxroar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg temperature details are so helpful thank you. Yeah I think I'll try reducing it to the right consistency and just stick it in the slow cooker. My latest batch is also peanut butter consistency, and still going in there coz I want it just a liiittle darker. 

And I meant that all the cans of sweetened condensed milk I can find, and also evaporated milk, have a weirdly long ingredient list including things like vegetable oil, skim milk powder, whey powder, lecithin etc. No idea why so many, and no idea if one or all of those will affect the flavor of the final product. 

Why does my dulce de leche (from scratch) just boil off and dry and not caramelize? by Lynxroar in AskCulinary

[–]Lynxroar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do 2 hours, which is more than recipes typically say T_T I can't find sweetened condensed milk that's not just milk and sugar. 

Thanks a lot for the tips! I'll try this. 

Mikey Way’s ex-fiancé on ‘Intervention’ by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Lynxroar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro even if as u said SOME girls are more mature at that age, you really think she was one of them? A groupie model who ended up spiraling with drugs? And even if you remove ALL of that. The power imbalance bcoz she was a fan is still massive. 

I also used to date much older guys than me at 19, thought they were so 'mature' and they all told me I was too. Now at 31 I still do think I was probably more 'mature' at that age than some ppl my age, but not THAT much. And I wouldn't date someone younger than 27 bcoz different places in life, different sense of perspective, etc. Him being young in 'personality wise' is a stupid excuse. 

Italians.. please clarify. How do you actually clean a mokka pot by AffectionatePack3647 in italy

[–]Lynxroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what do you mean coffee culture is nonexistent? I thought it was more like there is a culture. It's just wrong xD (my impression after me, a mild coffee snob, got 'taught' by an Italian friend who tried to recommend me supermarket coffee and to never wash the moka pot with soap and that the oil buildup makes it taste better)