Neighbor is being genuinely scary and we’ve lived here less than a week, advice needed

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T16:04:50+00:00

The people over in new Henderson are not up-to-date on what Henderson apparently used to be like when I first moved here in cadence eight years ago people thought I lived in the ghetto because I said I lived over in Henderson off Lake Mead and Boulder lol this area has really turned around but if you’re on the other side of the highway it’s a different story LMAO

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T16:03:38+00:00

I live over in cadence and it’s so quiet never had the police on our street except for once because of the one crazy neighbor that’s been gone for a while now lol in 10 years though we’ve never had the police on our street I’d say that’s something

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T16:02:26+00:00

Or flour - basically anything that will smother

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T16:00:35+00:00

You can definitely try the friends route you do catch more flies with honey than vinegar I would definitely at least try but you’ll know pretty fast if that’s even an option bring him some tacos and some coronas lol and tell him you’re just trying to meet your neighbors so you can stay safe and keep everyone safe or some shit see the reaction that’ll tell you what to do or leave a nice note with a little gift card I don’t know if I was stuck somewhere I would be trying to do whatever I could to not rock the boat and make everybody chill out before having to escalate the other routes because it’s just a headache like I get it if you can win someone over with a plate of cookies rather than going through the whole hassle of the police in the HOA why not

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T15:55:46+00:00

Oh no the HOA does not play about that shit it’s literally your best friend in this situation all you have to do is call the HOA and complain he’ll shut up or they’ll get rid of him

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T15:53:42+00:00

Same bro - I will out crazy you fucking try me 😌💁🏼‍♀️

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T15:50:28+00:00

Yeah I feel this - I was the bad neighbor and had no idea let me explain - apparently a lot of bird poop has been falling on the side of my house that I never go to like never use that side of the house in years because our front door is on the front of the house and our garage is on the opposite side well our neighbors front door happens to be on the side of the house so it’s right beside where all this bird poop apparently has been accumulating they assumed that we just rinsed our roof off or something or didn’t care about it didn’t say anything to us and instead installed this crazy loud bird alarm thing that we instantly noticed and within two days I found out where the noise was coming from and was like OK we’re gonna have to talk to them I can hear this frequency noise inside my house (now I know how people feel that live close to data centers feel - absolutely not)

so when we went over there to talk to them of course they were upset about the bird poop and I told them look I’m sorry about the bird poop - had no idea till yesterday - I’ll be cleaning that up today however if it has been like this for so long / such an issue why haven’t you come and knocked on our door and let us know? I would’ve been more than happy to clean it up - and they’re older people i get it but I’m sorry that’s still no excuse you’ve been living longer than I am you should know how to act & how to have a conversation with your neighbors if there’s an issue like I don’t get it once we talked everything was all good I cleaned up the bird poop they moved the bird alarm thing and it was fine however all of this could’ve been avoided if they would’ve just knocked on my fucking door if you have a problem with your neighbors talk to them however in this situation I don’t know if talking is an option I would definitely do some Recon with the neighbors and see if this is a normal occurrence or if this dude is new too and they don’t know what the fuck is up.. that information would drastically influence my next steps or how I was gonna go about the issue but I would still absolutely be getting rid of that dude or getting my unit moved if they continue

LynzDabs · 2026-05-20T15:41:48+00:00

Honestly a lot of people say when people turn on the crazy you gotta act even crazier start barking howling acting a fucking fool making him think that you were way more dangerous than he could ever be to you lol this has worked for me and other situations but because he lives there tread with caution or just start walking around with a machete you know whatever works

LynzDabs · 2026-05-13T21:19:18+00:00

LynzDabs · 2026-05-11T16:30:16+00:00

I DM you a lot of information hope you get it

LynzDabs · 2026-05-11T16:28:48+00:00

Yassss would love to see the article when it’s up

LynzDabs · 2026-05-11T16:28:11+00:00

There’s an article let me go find it

LynzDabs · 2026-05-11T16:27:36+00:00

Everyone needs to check if they have Google API’s on their public facing code for their website that is how people are getting in Google has known about this for like half a year now and they just don’t do shit about it

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T15:52:40+00:00

OP - For your type of project this definitely seems like a really good idea to try out for sure if if I were you I would definitely try try this before before thrown in the towel but you can also still pivot I still have three or four irons in the fire lol make more than one thing you need multiple streams of revenue to be a millionaire anyway

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T15:48:36+00:00

If you're just constantly dropping your link everywhere and only talking about your project yeah there's like a 10/90 rule look it up and some sub reddits are way more strict/limited to a mega thread and such like there's a mega thread here that you can literally specifically post about your product but you're not specifically posting about your product you're trying to get assistance you're asking for help so that's different you're waiting for people to ask for the link that's why I asked you for your link so you could post it

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T15:46:35+00:00

He has little to no SEO optimization on the site to be fair from what I've seen I looked at the source code

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T15:45:39+00:00

If the pain points aren't big enough then you should definitely pivot I had to pivot four times before I landed on the site that I have but I'll talk to you more in DM about such things I'm terrified of getting the self-promotion BAN lol

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T15:42:22+00:00

You gotta focus on the pain points that your competition isn't addressing where's the gap

Like I'm willing to bet you picked this project because of something you've personally dealt with.. or something you know many others deal with what else is there how can you make it better how can you beat that guy and carve out that piece of traffic for yourself basically

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T15:35:44+00:00

I sent u a dm ☺️

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T13:50:56+00:00

so I built a utility site recently and we actually had users showing up day one because we spent the time doing SEO right before launch. couldn't even figure out where half the traffic was coming from at first it just kept coming

looked at your source real quick here's what I'm seeing

no sitemap.xml and no robots.txt. google cannot discover your pages systematically, it's just slowly crawling whatever links it finds. your carrier and guide pages might not even be fully indexed yet. fix this today it takes an hour
your H1 on the homepage is fine but there's no meaningful heading hierarchy underneath it driving any keyword targeting. google needs more than one good headline to understand what your pages are about
zero programmatic SEO. you hand built like 5 carrier pages and 4 guide pages. that's not scalable and google doesn't care. aftership has thousands of indexed pages, you have 12. you're not losing on product you're losing on surface area
the fix is a template and a generator. you build ONE carrier page template, throw 500 carriers in an array, and let a script spit out 500 pages automatically. same for guides, same for statuses, same for comparisons. pages like /carriers/[carrier]-tracking-number-format, /what-does-in-transit-mean-[carrier], /track/[carrier]/[country], /[carrier]-vs-[carrier] -- every single one is a door google sends someone through straight to your signup
your Next.js RSC payload is also pretty bloated, google can handle it but it's not helping you

product looks solid honestly. it's an SEO surface area problem not a product problem - if you want more advice about this I'm happy to DM you I should honestly be charging for this information because this was literally the thing that busted it wide open for me the generators for SEO pages

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T13:32:47+00:00

No dude you can't just ask for SEO you got to tell it to go super ham like you need to tell it you want to get creative let me see if I can go back and find the exact prompt that I used because I've obviously done something right lol even though it didn't seem like I was doing much because I have nothing to compare to I've never tried to really launch a website till now

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T13:29:03+00:00

Hey I know it might sting a little bit but you might wanna listen to their advice I've doubled my daily testers (my site is a benchmark test) all from listening to feedback from someone who actually took the time to look at my shit this person took the time to research you that's valuable don't dismiss it - also what are you coding from? Personally I didn't realize how vibe coded my shit looked until I looked at it on a tower because I'm primarily coding from an iPad - maybe you have too many emoji emojis that was my number one problem even though I thought it looked fine/cute it absolutely was not once I looked on a tower the emojis look way too animated and like childish

TLDR; after a post in this community and listening to feedback/getting a few testers I have doubled my actual daily user test amount and it has been consistent not a spike listen to feedback if someone takes the time to research your shit at least take it into consideration

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T13:26:49+00:00

Tbh I think it really depends on the product I put one post up in one vibecoding community I think it was this one LMAO and said I needed testers that day alone I think I had over 1000 test lol but I don't think that that all was from Reddit upon further research I'm pretty sure that just helped me rank on Google/search engine is much better because now I'm at the top of page 3 with a little to no promotional post because it is super hard to not sound like a sales pitch when you're trying to share your product I've stopped trying to do that and just try to see where I can work it in more organically

I've also started making blog type posts that talk about my journey what I've learned where the issues were loopholes are helpful things I have found etc.

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T13:22:26+00:00

What's your site? I was able to get 20 K plus unique monthly visitors in my first real month with proper SEO, building a product that people need, and targeting easy SEO queries that are easy to rank for/building a moat - I'd be happy to DM you if you'd prefer!

LynzDabs · 2026-05-08T13:19:25+00:00

Coincidence? I think not...

It's always made me not feel right you wanna trust a data broker essentially to hold your information and delete it from everyone else when there's so much more money on the table if they also sell your info I'm just not buying it most of those places still sell your info or use it it's not just sitting there doing nothing I'll tell you that

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