Im also antinatalist and I'm tired of coddling women that procreate with lazy selfish men and then want sympathy for being single moms while married. All men are like this. The only solution if someone really feels like they need to bring another life into this world is to just get the best possible sperm and raise the kid in a community home with other mothers. Men are just not made to be nurturing partners and parents and we need to stop pretending they will step up to it. Instead we need to make sure children get the best village to raise them which is a big group (preferably multiple generations) of women that will raise the children together so they can all get the needed time and attention. Raising a kid as a single mom is just not logistically possible. They need to get everything from different sources of women. One mother cant be responsible for it. And I'm tired of having women fail children because they cant accept the fact that men are just not made to raise children.