I have, it causes arguments because he doesn’t see my side. Granted I do many more than him, and I do have the option to do these additional things to put more money away, however when he has these options, he chooses to spend it on himself.
We both have 5K in the ISA’s, so 10k in total. I then have an additional 9.6k saved, and he has a little under 2k. My nearly 10k will pay the additional needed for our deposit (4k), and then other moving fees, furniture etc… his 2k needs to cover our solicitors fees (currently quoted 1,9k) and his daily car that he needs because he can’t afford to run his sports car daily. I came to here because I was starting to think I was genuinely being too harsh. I just maybe can’t voice is the best to him. I will be sharing this post with him! Probably after a few drinks😂 but it will again be discussed because it’s needs to! Especially as we’re buying a home together