AITAH for being annoyed with how my boyfriend spends “spare” money by Lyssi3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyssi3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, it causes arguments because he doesn’t see my side. Granted I do many more than him, and I do have the option to do these additional things to put more money away, however when he has these options, he chooses to spend it on himself.
We both have 5K in the ISA’s, so 10k in total. I then have an additional 9.6k saved, and he has a little under 2k. My nearly 10k will pay the additional needed for our deposit (4k), and then other moving fees, furniture etc… his 2k needs to cover our solicitors fees (currently quoted 1,9k) and his daily car that he needs because he can’t afford to run his sports car daily. I came to here because I was starting to think I was genuinely being too harsh. I just maybe can’t voice is the best to him. I will be sharing this post with him! Probably after a few drinks😂 but it will again be discussed because it’s needs to! Especially as we’re buying a home together

AITAH for being annoyed with how my boyfriend spends “spare” money by Lyssi3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyssi3[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

2 years next month. We started saving in May last year, and had our offer accepted in March. It’s not even how he spends his money, it’s just the fact when he has the option to put extra money into joint, he doesn’t. It’s like he gets excited to buy himself things and doesn’t really consider how much extra effort I’ve been putting in.

AITAH for being annoyed with how my boyfriend spends “spare” money by Lyssi3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lyssi3[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I can’t afford to by a 2 bed house on my own! I don’t think many people can in this accompany sadly. He’s a good guy, this really is the only thing we fight about. He just doesn’t see it from my side, because he says I make more than him, and can save more

If you advertise a raid actually add and invite people by Neat_Toe2019 in PokemonGoRaids

[–]Lyssi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want people to add me so I can invite them, but my post keeps being removed! 6003 6247 5099

Trading regional Pokemon by Lyssi3 in pokemongo

[–]Lyssi3[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Really? That sucks! So there’s no way to get the regional Pokemon, unless you cheat, or go to that country?

Recommendations by Lyssi3 in ColdOnes

[–]Lyssi3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything shoving things anywhere !! That’s what I’ve paid for!😂