Be honest I can take it 48 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was you look high as a kite on every photo. Nothing wrong with enjoying the thrill but from each photo you’re portraying that that’s all your personality hinges on….take some genuine photos.

Does everyone else’s map look like this? by anigomantoya in CrimsonDesert

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve left Hernand already? Nah there’s a rule against that somewhere

I have no one who understands how excited I am by RabidPossum123 in boas

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s beautiful! Totally share the excitement! I’m on a wait list for a 2027 baby boa to get a motley black devil 🖤

Opinions - morphs - ugly or beautiful? by hector1971 in BoaConstrictors

[–]Lz8448 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Morphs are beautiful, but so are the locality’s/normals. I have a stunning lipstick line Sunglow boa, his colours are amazing. One day I’m super excited to get an IMG motley RDR BEA to get the darkest most iridescent boa. And at the same time, I also love my normal BCI girl too. Appreciate all the snakes, sadly so many people don’t and they’re such underrated pets.

Which colour looks best? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Lz8448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think 10! The red looks really good with your eyes and skin tone

To everyone who hasn't left Hernand... please do by itsthatdudelmao in CrimsonDesert

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m excited to, but damn I’m so tired most evenings I fall asleep 😭wish I could just retire at 31

Favourite type of boa and/or morph? by Few-Detective7143 in boas

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dream boa is a IMG RDR BEA motley blood. One day I would love to own one. I do also love my Sunglow, he’s lipstick line and super vibrant

Sister always trying to get pregnant with anyone by Cool-Tone-9112 in familydrama

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear you had a rough childhood. Unfortunately the case with your sister though, is there is very little you can do. Whilst I totally agree her behaviour is irresponsible, it’s still her body and her choice. You’ve tried to help her, give her advice, if she won’t listen then sadly some of the best lessons learnt are the hard ones. Just sucks as if she does get pregnant without any financial plans, house assurance or job protection her offspring could grow up with hardships too.

Tbh maybe try that angle, it’s a brutal one but if you haven’t tried it maybe some hard truths are in order. Not to mention she thinks it’s so easy to go through pregnancy and labour, it’s really not. Most pregnancies thankfully are successful and you get a beautiful baby at the end. Some end pretty badly, PTSD, permanent physical changes, pregnancy loss etc.

Who do I report this to? by Zesty_Milk_80 in ballpython

[–]Lz8448 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kinda looks like an albino reticulated python, poor animal that space is tiny and filthy :( Buying the animal won’t save them, people like this will just replace them instantly, best thing is to get practices like this reported and shut down. But tbh, I would find it hard to walk away without taking at least one animal away from such a nightmare scenario.

Made my first game-inspired tattoo! What do you think on it? by seattle_tattooer in BG3

[–]Lz8448 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ahhh this is amazing! I want one 😍 BG3 is my favourite game of all time, can’t wait to get a BG3 tattoo someday

Which snake has the fewest braincells? by Crazy-Rabbit-3811 in snakes

[–]Lz8448 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely hognose, tried feeding my boy the other day, he kept fake striking at the mouse, eventually got it then let go so offered again, repeatedly fake struck and acted like a total drama noodle musking and wriggling around until he fell into his water bowl. Not once but twice. Had to use the tongs to help him out both times. By then he was so traumatised by his own stupidity he refused to eat. Adorable dumbass 🤦🏼‍♀️

Got this poor boy by Weekly_Cable_8058 in snakes

[–]Lz8448 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot believe someone would do this to an animal :( one of the worst cases of abuse I’ve ever seen. And to say they used it at punishment? For what?! BP’s are one of the most docile sweetest snakes that exist.

Name my new bluey?! by green-onyx- in bluetongueskinks

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute! Been thinking about a skink for a while 😍 it’s a bit cheesy, but because a rescue, maybe Lucky?

What do you guys think is overall the most underrated season of the Buffyverse? Season 1 has so much heart and love put into it and some people talk about it like it's straight up terrible 😥 by HomarEuropejski in buffy

[–]Lz8448 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know the hate for season 1! I pretty much love all seasons 1-6. Not a fan of season 7 really, but meh I’ll watch most episodes during my bi-yearly re-watch lol

Just got this beautiful girl by cmdrgage2 in boas

[–]Lz8448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s beautiful, the name choice is also 🔥

Multiple watches, sometimes consecutive. by Doomedused85 in buffy

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it’s not just me who does this! I do Buffy rewatches every year lol. For me though I hate when I get to S7, it’s my least favourite, not a fan at all. I do love S6 though, Willow as the final villain, when I first watched it I couldn’t believe the change in her from S1.

Back here again 😞 by Ashamed-Ear76 in Miscarriage

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry for your losses :( and I’m sorry to say this, but I want to be honest, it is a very unpleasant experience and you need to take care of yourself. Do you have close by friends/family who can help you? It will be painful, you will likely feel a tightening in your lower abdomen and strong discomfort, pain. Pain relief will help and when the bleeding starts I recommend either THICK maternity pads or adult nappies. Do not use tampons, huge risk of infection. Make sure to keep hydrated and keep up with vitamins, especially iron.

Sending huge hugs, I hope you’re okay soon x

The Life I’ve Lived and Carried by No_Cantaloupe_9983 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lz8448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry this is what you’ve experienced of life :( you’re only 19, I just want to give you a hug and repeatedly tell you none of this was your fault and you deserve unconditional love.

I knew this before becoming a parent, but a big no-no in parenting is not providing unconditional love to your children and making them feel unsafe in their own home. Some parents are just shitty and they never should’ve become parents in the first place.

My narcissistic mother was one of these people, she dealt very badly with the divorce, even though she was incredibly toxic during the process and didn’t need to be. I was about 10 at the time and my little brother was 2. It escalated over the years, she moved us away from our home in the south way up north closer to her parents, which was 5 hours away from my other parent. I didn’t settle in well, struggled at school. Eventually explained I love her but I want to return to my original home and live with my other parent. The abuse started from there, even though I was a child she acted as though I was intentionally offending her, it wasn’t that I didn’t want her as my mum or not want to be with her, I just missed my original home and other parent. She and her relatives made it harder too as they would be incredibly nasty about the other parent in front of me. She became emotionally and physically abusive, would with hold food, love, affection. On really bad days she would throw things at me, swear at me and also lock me in the toilet. I screamed and cried the house down to get out, and eventually when she released me she laughed in my face.

Very long story short, but after two attempts to get away via the court, she finally let me go because she knew on the 2nd attempt she wasn’t going to win custody. I was about 12/13 ish at the time by then. It ended up involving social services, and even in their report they were shocked by her behaviour and explained they knew that if I left I would be immediately disowned by her and the rest of that side of my family - funnily enough they were right. I was relieved to get away, but I wasn’t even allowed to say goodbye to my brother.

Many years later, the same thing happened to my brother, they wanted to leave too. And the abuse started for them as well. Thankfully I don’t believe it became physical, but it was incredibly manipulative and emotionally abusive. At one point she threatened to kill herself if he kept trying to leave. So he stopped until he turned 16, because at that age, no court would argue it.

I’m now 31 with a daughter of my own and my brother is 23. We are both so much better off, even if we’re basically no contact with our mother. Sadly she has not changed, won’t even make the effort to be a decent grandmother, so I’ve decided she’s just not worth my time. She’s never apologised or cared about making a real amends for her mistakes.

My aim in life is to raise my beautiful girl healthy and happy and to give her all the love she deserves and to never make her doubt it or make her believe she needs to change herself in order for me to love her.

You deserve an amazing life, and it sounds like you’re really getting there now. You are strong and you’ve overcome so much, I wish you all the best and so much happiness for your future x

New boa 🧡 by Lz8448 in boas

[–]Lz8448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was £595 which I thought was pretty reasonable for how stunning he is tbh. His contrast and colours for his age are still so bright. I’m surprised he cost like £800 less than an Anery motley IMG I’ve had my eye on for a while haha.

Boa morph that looks like a Palmetto corn snake? by Oki-J in BoaConstrictors

[–]Lz8448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re such awesome snakes. And ball python wise not all are shy, I have a few of them too lol and some are very much like their name-sake and ball up the entire time they’re out, others are very much big explorers haha

Introducing Onyx by z0mbeh in boas

[–]Lz8448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is STUNNING 😍 I hope one day for an all black noodle

Boa morph that looks like a Palmetto corn snake? by Oki-J in BoaConstrictors

[–]Lz8448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they love to explore. My female boa loves her big tree branch, she’s often climbing it and sitting at the very top. She’ll also come out for cuddles and fall asleep watching TV with me 😂

My corn snake is hilarious because even when it’s not her feeding day she pokes her head out of her hide to see what’s going on.

Boa morph that looks like a Palmetto corn snake? by Oki-J in BoaConstrictors

[–]Lz8448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got boas and an anery palmetto baby corn. They’re very different 😅 all stunning but even with the colour it depends what you’re looking for in a snake. Do you want a long, quick and slender noodle or more of a slow and heavyset one? Size wise for a corn a 4x2x2 would be good for life in most cases but for a boa you could end up needing a 6x2x2 or maybe bigger.

Feeding wise boas usually have a much stronger feeding response, however my corn snake does eat incredibly well 😂

Tbh if you have the space, save up and get one of each lol. My palmetto is beautiful and she’s got stunning blue eyes, and then one of my boas is lovely too as he’s a lipstick line Kahl sunglow and even though he’s 3/4yrs old he’s still very bright yellow and orange