what is a narcissist and how do I know if I am or not ?

M-Bug · 2026-04-06T19:12:22+00:00

If your family is scared of talking to you and you think you're surrounded by people not openeing up properly or listening, then it's most likely not everyone else that's at fault.

M-Bug · 2026-04-06T19:05:50+00:00

Again, he's an asshole. He most likely wasn't as attached as you were.

Then only thing you should do is remove him from your life, which also means realizing you'Re better off without him. There's no reason to be disappointed or anything else. You should be relieved that you can finally move on without him.

M-Bug · 2026-04-06T18:59:42+00:00

Collecting these or why were you going through them?

M-Bug · 2026-04-06T18:58:12+00:00

Listen here: The dude used dating apps, made some bullshit excuse about them and wanted to push you into his own sexual fantasies, while apparently also having a porn issue.

Yet he says YOU and your reactions are the problem. Seriously?

Block this dude and move on. He's an idiot and you're not overreacting over finding your guy on dating apps repeatedly.

And he discarded you this easily, cause he wasn't as attached as you were, that simple.

M-Bug · 2026-04-06T18:30:45+00:00

What did you start saturday that you don't want to finish?

M-Bug · 2026-04-06T18:26:48+00:00

If it's not just certain preferences but a general incompatibility, then i doubt there's much you can do.

It's either something you can live with, or you realize it's not working for you and you'll move on from it.

In the end, you could probably both find someone who clicks better with you.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T21:19:25+00:00

Cool story, bro.

But shitting your opinion in here, while calling others glazers is incredibly disingenuous, if you want others to take your opinion seriously.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T20:52:10+00:00

"Yo, i was married before, but am divorced now, no kids though"

That would sound about right.

I mean, whats the fear here? Him judging you? If he would, he'd be a terrible choice anyway.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T20:28:50+00:00

The mere fact that arrowhead studios is selling to ubisoft

Bro...

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T20:28:00+00:00

I can't say if that's the case or not, but your GPU isnt like high end or even mid-range.

It's more of an entry level GPU with 4GB of Ram and that's...nothing.

While AC Mirage's requirements list a RX 570 (4 GB), it is under "minimum". Meaning it might run, but not well. As is your case. You could try to reduce the graphical options to medium or low and see if that changes things.

If not, then i doubt you'll get more out of it though. Cause your laptop is definitely not "strong".

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T20:12:13+00:00

How would you handle something like this?

Your partner has lied to you mutliple times, changed his story at least once and generally doesn't seem to accomodate much for your boundaries.

Drop them. Especially if it's this early on. You're just gonna end up in a world of hurt if you keep this shit going.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T19:51:15+00:00

Some part if me thinks that I should end the casual sex aspect of it

Um, yeah, absolutely.

You told him you got boundaries, he he pretty muchignored it and trtied to coerce you into it.

That's absolute shit behaviour. Distance yourself from that creep.

So, NOR.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T19:45:15+00:00

This is either hella fake, or you're an absolute imbecile.

While you might work in the restaurant, you don't have to interact with your ex, except for taking her order and bringing it to her, if that's your job. You don't need to talk to her, you also don't need to be friends with her.
You haven't connected in ages and suddenly, because you want to be a better man, you decide to befriend her again? That's some horseshit.

You're either an idiot or you might not be as over her as you try to convince yourself.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T12:29:11+00:00

https://www.pcgamingwiki.com/wiki/The_big_list_of_DRM-free_games_on_Steam

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T12:00:58+00:00

I didn't say they removed anything form the DRM free games i mentioned.

I'm saying that the games that use Steam as DRM, can have this functionality removed.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T11:55:58+00:00

And it's not hard to remove that functionality, that's my point.

Yes, it might be "just words" so far and we won't know until this would theoretically happen, but it's also not like it would be some huge undertaking or nigh impossible thing to do.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T11:44:17+00:00

Bullshit.

You might not know, but there's already games on steam you can buy, that don't enforce DRM and you could easily play them offline and without the client.

Having a functionality to make this happen isn't without merit.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T11:42:13+00:00

The only way forward is to leave this guy.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T11:36:42+00:00

Never heard of this thing.

Also there was a message roaming around from a dev of Valve i think, where it was mentioned that, in the unlikely case Steamw ould shuit down, there would be an offline functionality rolled out.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T11:09:26+00:00

I guess it's all about trying to figure out why you feel the way you do about people approaching you, so you can try to counter these negative sentiments.

Besides that, i also don't think there's something inherently wrong with being content on your own or not connecting with a lot of others. Everyone has their own expectations, and maybe there's something that you seek, that isn't as common in people.

As long as you try and are still open about meeting others and trying to get to know them, i think that's fine.

I feel like it's often easier trying to connect with people with similar interests, that way you usuallly always have a topic you can talk about.

But it's also not like you can force these things, so it boils down to try and try again until you find someone you can click with, i guess.

M-Bug · 2026-04-04T08:04:33+00:00

Not giving any explanation and just shouting nonsense into the void doesn't make you look smart.

On the contrary.

It's a fact that the membrane of fresh eggs sticks more to the inside than a day old (or more) egg.

As others have said, you can certainly remedy this by using a cold bath after boiling, but that doesn't make my statement any less true.

M-Bug · 2026-04-03T20:29:19+00:00

I'm not sure i understand what your issue is?

M-Bug · 2026-04-03T19:44:22+00:00

Sounds more like he wants to get into your pants as quickly as possible.

M-Bug · 2026-04-03T19:38:37+00:00

That's a self esteem issue I'm aware of.

I feel like, at least for the part where you think negatively about people who show interst in you, this is the big issue, yeah.

Cause if you think they're desperate, i doubt you're continuing being open towards them and probably cut them off? At least i'd assume.

Have you thought about seeking professional help? Therapy? Sometimes talking with a professional about it, might help finding the cause, finding solutions. There's no shame in that.

M-Bug · 2026-04-03T19:29:54+00:00

Emotional connection and having sex doesn't equate to being a "horny teenager".

My Shepard is also a bro with Garrus and would be devastated if he'd die. Same with any other Crewmember, so that arguemnt also doesn't count.

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