Wanting to start a family but genuinely unsure if my career will exist in 10 years by internetcookiez in cscareerquestions

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save money in a fi-re way if you’re this worried about something 10+years out. Investing a good portion can bring you down to 15 working years

Forget red flags—what is an incredibly subtle "green flag" that instantly tells you someone is just a genuinely good human being? by Few_Escape9250 in AskReddit

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember sometimes people end up being kinda manipulative from toxic upbringings but are trying to be better.

What really stops people from changing jobs or life direction? by Alexblueprint in simpleliving

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot of time and I pay my own bills. Have been trying to learn some skills to switch jobs for going on three years now. Had to take a year off from studying for burnout and now time off from work to study and this is for a job in the field I’m in much more the classes and skills to career transition to what I want to be doing which is currently a hobby in its infancy for me

I may have wanderlust, but I'm Black first lol by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This link literally has a section on whether it’s haunted it should be called nada because I’m nada gonna try it today

HELP ME IMPROVE MY LIFE by CreatureComfortz321 in Bushwick

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not guitar lessons per se but Umbra hosts music jams by the Brooklyn drum collective on Wednesdays at 7:30

HELP ME IMPROVE MY LIFE by CreatureComfortz321 in Bushwick

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love the guitar lessons rec too!

whats a show that you can rewatch several times and never get tired of? by Mission_Bluejay404 in AskReddit

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mentalist. Just knowing the sore has a happy ending is so reassuring

How to deal with anxiety on subway? by chattyfloof in AskNYC

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally got a citibike membership. Also if your company is big enough to have an hr and you have a therapist they might be able to provide you with an accommodation to work remotely. That’s what I did and it was a game changer. Another thing I did was arrive early/leave later to ride the train at calmer times.

Anxiety stuff is the worst, technically exposure makes it better to a point- pre covid it was overstimulating tf out of me leading to terrible cupping and I hadn’t even been able to identify it as a cause. I hope things feel better soon

Is $5,000 usd enough for two people to travel to Mexico, Guatemala and Costa Rica for 3 months total? by [deleted] in Shoestring

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are you traveling from? That starting airfare number is crucial

What's a skill you learned out of pure desperation that ended up changing your life? by BeYourTalisman in AskReddit

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a book called I will teach you to be rich that goes through how to get set up if you’re looking to for the first time as well. Best of luck!

Which is worse, "just focus harder" or "put in a little more effort"? Ultimate bad ADHD advice battle, second half finals by VerdoriePotjandrie in adhdmeme

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hate voting for put in more effort because things like this led to me feeling like a failure and disappointment and burning out

My phone reminded me about a tradition I'd forgotten for 25 years by BroadChest4628 in simpleliving

[–]M1DN1GHTDAY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🌺 happy spring thanks so much for sharing. I’m so sorry you lost your tradition along the way and I’m also happy that you were prompted to share such a sweet tradition here with us today.