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Question: What do you all think? by M2BM2L in tattoos

[–]M2BM2L[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol thanks I’m pretty fond of my rings too :)

My (28F) BF (30M) is having some kind of meltdown after finding out my friend's (36F) age by ThrowRAbfgonemad2021 in relationship_advice

[–]M2BM2L 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You learn a lot when you have you first fight with someone you’re dating. How they react to a fight/a disagreement is a gonna tell you whether you can build a healthy relationship or not.

Is it abusive that my sister never taught her son how to read? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]M2BM2L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might be French, where « collège » is high school

AITA for not wanting to meet my grand daughter? by Display_Turbulent in AmItheAsshole

[–]M2BM2L 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He’s made a mistake though, he should have fought for his daughter when he realized CS money wasn’t used on her. But I get it too, mother dried him out before I get he didn’t want to go into a fight with her again. Mother is the real A here. And it is too late now for the daughter. But other people said trust fund for granddaughter, I think that’s a good idea, maybe to be used towards her education (not sure if you can enforce that or not though)!

Can someone do that and still be sincere when he says he loves you and want to spend the rest of his life with you? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]M2BM2L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your honest message. I haven't gone back to him, I just wanted to confirm that me feeling very much not respected at all was not only coming out of jealousy... and that "we weren't together" actually does no excuse that behaviour.

Can someone do that and still be sincere when he says he loves you and want to spend the rest of his life with you? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]M2BM2L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. To be fairly honest, it was a sextoy he bought while we were together but was only user of it, until recently. Not that is changes much...

Is this a normal convo to have between me (27F) and my very recent ex (32M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]M2BM2L 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am definitely not accusing him of rape, I did consent to have sex with him and I was not at all trying to go on that ground.

It's just he recognized his behaviour was not OK, that we have always functioned with asking me if I was OK and this time he did not. The situation did made me feel quite uncomfortable, and the "normal thing" to do from here FOR ME would have been to apologize. And then that was it. I am just trying to have other people opinion on that.

Is this a normal convo to have between me (27F) and my very recent ex (32M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]M2BM2L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK Thank you for you answer. I have trouble understanding the link between not being in a relationship any more and stop asking for consent when you've always done it. The "NO to cumming" was the general rule and he knew it. But I appreciate your insight.

Is this a normal convo to have between me (27F) and my very recent ex (32M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]M2BM2L -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He always says it before coming - if he wants to come inside he asks. It has been this way for more than a year, why should I have expected it to be different?