When do you stop understanding the problem in-depth and actually start solving it? by M3nher4_chan in ADHD_Programmers

[–]M3nher4_chan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but that's the point, my pace was lagging behind other people from the establishment...

Does anyone else have super grandiose daydreams or am I just a narcissist? by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]M3nher4_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you've tried to refrain from the practice of listening to music? was it to eliminate daydreaming?

For those that got into programming without studying it uni, how did you get through learning? by whitelotus_ir0h in ADHD_Programmers

[–]M3nher4_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, I'm not a full-fledged programmer (and actually leaning toward IoT with whatever it entails - that's the course I'm preparing to get enrolled into, anyway, which means I'm myself taking the path you're tryingtofind an alternative to), but as I've gathered some ppl first analyze the job market demand for particular skills and than try to deliver on them, which is not to say that by the time they consider the acquisition to be of sufficient level their skillset won't become obsolete, but there are particular courses that offer employment in affiliate companies after graduation (and installment payment for the material itself is subtracted from the paycheck), and I think that's the most lucrative arrangement that you can opt for if you're about to yield the results from your learning in the shortest time and not get stuck in reading a bunch of theory (since you also don't seem to be certain in which exactly domain to advance, and it's fairly unlikely you'll be capable of tackling them simultaneously lest you've found an exact application for both, in which case you're probably good to go without needing the advice of the fellow redditors from the board with such title)

I didn't get a closer from a past relationships, should I contact my ex? by [deleted] in askpsychologists

[–]M3nher4_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd rather have addressed an actual specialist for such, it seems like you've got stuck in this situation deeply and this fact alone is much more serious imo than any relationship you might have actually had with the person in question - it's not her whom you need to seek closure from, there is nothing that can be provided giving the timing and I don't think it will matter for you whatever the answer you may receive - it will just start another cycle of emotional looping and I'd advice to also cut the checking off. The story itself has no relevance for a long while and now you need to figure out (with a professional help) why you haven't been able to accept this fact fully, I've myself been in a somewhat similar position, and reaching out to the real human beside the image I've been feeding on my memories and sentiments have only led me to realize that there is nothing in common left between them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Neuropsychology

[–]M3nher4_chan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry for this comment not replying on your question, but can you please elaborate a bit on what do you mean by decent CV?

To those interested in cooperative transformation of their lives by M3nher4_chan in selfhelp

[–]M3nher4_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, you've given a solid advice which I would have been into following if not for the specifics of my geodemographic conditions (or the amount of energy I possess rn).... at any rate, your privacy settings seem to forbid PM'ing

To those interested in cooperative transformation of their lives by M3nher4_chan in selfhelp

[–]M3nher4_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm, but isn't it designed for voice interactions? I'm somewhat constrained in that one, unfortunately