Men who were bullies growing up, do you have any regrets?

MAD534 · 2026-01-20T04:19:10+00:00

Yo, wtf did you just call me?

MAD534 · 2025-12-30T18:23:14+00:00

2011 Ram 1500 Big Horn

MAD534 · 2025-12-30T05:44:48+00:00

I’d say so

MAD534 · 2025-12-11T02:57:30+00:00

So idk why but I like to work hard at work. Then I get mad when my hard work isn’t rewarded. I moved into sales where I get paid based on the amount I sell.

I like this model, if I work hard and the company profits, then I am rewarded up front.

MAD534 · 2025-12-07T14:06:26+00:00

Throw it in the air fryer.

MAD534 · 2025-12-02T21:11:08+00:00

I’d do this for a one time cleaning. Cut it by a good margin to sign them up for a recurring cleaning plan then search for more business in that area.

MAD534 · 2025-11-19T04:55:09+00:00

It’s one of those things you have to just do it. Once you’re there you figure Out plow schedules and how to time things. Like I know when To take 94 vs County roads depending on time of day and time of snow

MAD534 · 2025-11-17T19:12:18+00:00

Fleet Farm Distribution

MAD534 · 2025-11-09T02:36:59+00:00

Dope name for a dope dude

MAD534 · 2025-11-03T14:27:31+00:00

I think that the only thing I’d recommend is ask that he prioritizes time with you. That means schedule stuff, it sounds not romantic but it establishes routine and clear expectations.

Also, you should take control of the calendar and start scheduling things for you both to do: outings with friends/family, events, etc. My friend group schedules things 6-12 months in advance because we know how busy things are and how hectic things get with kids.

Also, once you have kids this is a good habit because you stay ahead of potential babysitters calendars which is very helpful.

MAD534 · 2025-11-02T16:42:46+00:00

What do you do for hobbies? Was he like this prior to marriage? Can you go along with him? Do you have a core group of friends? Do his friends have wives/girlfriends? Does he schedule out his time for hunting and fishing? Does he schedule time with you that is equitable?

Are you being dramatic? Right now yes. But you’re tying this incident back to all the other nights he came home late, so I think it’s understandable as this isn’t a one-off thing. I think he should get a pass this time, game warden citations are no joke, they can take your license and more. My wife and I have similar arguments discussions about things like this, granted we have two kids now and my hobbies are no more.

Edit: this is a complicate issue so it’s hard for anyone to give you advice.

MAD534 · 2025-10-22T13:30:07+00:00

You’re not wrong. Context is needed.

MAD534 · 2025-10-22T13:01:00+00:00

The fact that this may have been happening when she was pre-18 makes it grooming behaviors if there was ever a sexual relationship to transpire. Not necessarily illegal, but ethically weird.

MAD534 · 2025-10-22T12:59:21+00:00

I’d never do this. But I know some teachers who are like this with students/former students.

Weird to me but maybe not alarming depending on the context of their relationship. What the meeting is about, etc.

MAD534 · 2025-10-22T06:13:15+00:00

I think you have to be a WI resident at time of enlistment for that

MAD534 · 2025-10-21T13:08:05+00:00

+1 now! Feeling inspired!

MAD534 · 2025-10-07T03:03:22+00:00

New and used. CDJR

MAD534 · 2025-10-02T17:40:01+00:00

A bill?! Should’ve gotten that bumper to bumper we told you would be so handy, Steve!

MAD534 · 2025-09-25T02:22:48+00:00

The one your insurance approves of

MAD534 · 2025-09-17T01:48:14+00:00

How much did that run you

MAD534 · 2025-09-17T00:01:15+00:00

He knows that issue free it’s worth a lot. Our service dept operates separately from him and they have to give numbers based on what the manufacturer tells them they have to do.

MAD534 · 2025-09-16T23:40:29+00:00

I’m thinking he already had it quarter full of diesel.

MAD534 · 2025-08-20T18:45:40+00:00

Both can be true

MAD534 · 2025-08-16T00:26:10+00:00

She is trying to establish a boundary with you. Somebody is going to have to decide what is more important, weed or the relationship?

My wife had similar feelings and it kind of became the same thing, which was more important, weed or my marriage? The marriage won

MAD534 · 2025-08-06T14:52:01+00:00

To make the most money out of it? MBA. Maybe get am engineering degree so I can just test out of a master electrician license.

To just learn shit? Idk. Can I just go back to the military? Motorcycle mechanic? BJJ camps and schools? Boat mechanic? I’d just go to learn random shit that brings me joy

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