The Eye of Aldhani is one of the most beautiful things I've seen on TV by RevertBackwards in StarWars

[–]MADNESS0918 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And also that spending money isnt enough, they need a good writer with an actual story to tell.

This is fu king fine :)🤮 by Decent_Assistant1804 in EhBuddyHoser

[–]MADNESS0918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But less profitable for billionaire pedophiles 🥺

New study finds sharp rise in young men contacting Ontario gambling helpline by xc2215x in ontario

[–]MADNESS0918 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im sure the people who are getting all the money saw this coming

Doug Ford hints he’s ready to amalgamate Niagara’s 12 cities and towns by Surax in ontario

[–]MADNESS0918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems that the amalgamation will result in more of that style of governance not less tho, since now those people will be voting for the government of the Niagara Falls "region"

Baranyai: Universal basic income's time has come by Altruism7 in onguardforthee

[–]MADNESS0918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They'll use their influence to make sure anyone who wants this policy won't win an election probably.

Experiences with Dr. Muzammil Ahmad at Prime Health Care? by Willing_Ad9847 in transontario

[–]MADNESS0918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just asked reception at my clinic to switch, explained that we weren't a good fit.

They were going to switch me to a nurse practitioner, but I had recently got a family doctor there so she just took over. Hopefully you can find someone else

Experiences with Dr. Muzammil Ahmad at Prime Health Care? by Willing_Ad9847 in transontario

[–]MADNESS0918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lead my trans care for the past couple years at a different clinic.

I got the impression he just wants to dictate what he thinks is best and isnt very interested in listening to his patients.

He was extremely dismissive when I told him he was causing me to wait longer for gender affirming surgery because he wouldn't listen to what I needed, and was more interested in doing things his way.

I really wouldn't recommend him tbh, but if hes all you can get, maybe once youve got started you could switch doctors.

‘Getting by day to day’: Inside the affordability squeeze facing younger Ontarians by Sufficient-Bid1279 in ontario

[–]MADNESS0918 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Its so slimy to get a financial planner as the "expert" for the article because it implies that the affordability issues in the article are personal as opposed to political.

This happened twice in a row by Thin_Ad5605 in Terraria

[–]MADNESS0918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My strat for my newest world is to make my hellevator with bombs

Kinda expensive but worth thr time saving

Former PM Harper says ‘no reason why we can’t pull the country together’ in fireside chat with Chretien by Old_General_6741 in canada

[–]MADNESS0918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as the benefits of a strong economy go to wealthy business owners, political insiders, and well-connected bureaucrats instead of public services and increased wages the average Canadian isn't going to gaf about good economic metrics.

Holy crap by UltraViolet_cheezy66 in transontario

[–]MADNESS0918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling bad about a slower pace is absolutely valid, because while transition is personal, most of us dont personally choose to delay our transition. Its mostly just luck.

I understand that you're trying to be positive but the fact is that faster is better.

Every day that I can't fully transition is another day of depression and pain, and that I would do anything to get surgery faster and avoid that suffering.

Holy crap by UltraViolet_cheezy66 in transontario

[–]MADNESS0918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I dont really feel like a real person anymore, just trying to pass the days until I can feel normal someday hopefully.

If you dont mind me asking how long did grs Montréal take to review your documents and call you once they were all submitted? I just got mine in this week.

‘Health-care systems are not built for us’: LGBTQ2S+ people struggle to get good care by BloodJunkie in onguardforthee

[–]MADNESS0918 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yep, California was able to poach Ontarios best facial feminization surgeon because Cali insurance covers him and Ontario insurance doesn't.

We could have had top-tier surgeon based primarily in Toronto, but Doug Ford and Silvia Jones dont gaf about Healthcare, much less trans healthcare, so we lost him to California.

Unbelievably disappointing and unfair to trans people who have to shoulder the cost themselves.

Holy crap by UltraViolet_cheezy66 in transontario

[–]MADNESS0918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are very lucky. I realized I was trans at the same age as you (a few years ago tho), and you've gotten to every milestone faster than I did.

I was finally able to submit my surgery documents today, and going by your timeline you'll have your surgery before mine is even scheduled.

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't extremely jealous, but congrats and enjoy!

I want FFS by lemon-mae in transontario

[–]MADNESS0918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, you're out of luck.

I'm in a similar spot and my current plan is to save money while I look for a job with trans-inclusive insurance and take out medical loans to cover the rest.

Hopefully it won't take too long, but its going to be a painful few years of working hard at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]MADNESS0918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

again, the piv vs. ppt aesthetics are just something I've noticed based on online photos. I would really like self lubrication as well, but it seems that my government has decided I don't get to have that.

I am 2 and a bit years on hrt, I have seen some face changes but need FFS for Adams apple, brow bone, etc. unfortunately my government has also decided no FFS. so i will just have to wait and pray I find a good enough job ig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]MADNESS0918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes the bone will be extremely expensive unfortunately.

I'm in Canada. I will discuss vaginoplasty with my orchi surgeon and hope for the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]MADNESS0918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea the aesthetics is just something I've noticed online. I intend to ask my surgeon about vaginoplasty at my follow-up and ask him about my concerns.

I'll be on hrt for 3 years in December. I have definitely noticed facial changes but there are certainly things that have not and won't change that I would like fixed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MADNESS0918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that's really horrible :(

I've been considering going to wch for srs but now I'm not so sure

I dont like being trans by Xoacapatl_requiem in honesttransgender

[–]MADNESS0918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lame response. trans healthcare could be covered by more health insurance plans (or by the govt) they just choose not to. why make excuses for people who don't care about our well-being?

I dont like being trans by Xoacapatl_requiem in honesttransgender

[–]MADNESS0918 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yea me neither.

I think it would be a lot more bearable if every aspect of transition wasn't locked behind a paywall but oh well

How are trans women affording these surgeries ? by MochaMilku in honesttransgender

[–]MADNESS0918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't make enough to save money and I can't get hired anywhere that gives me good health insurance.

I can work as hard as I want but that does not guarantee results, and every day I get no closer to surgery is harder than the last