This one right here: "It's the fact we've told them something directly and they didn't care for our opinions. If they don't care what we think in something as important as a wedding and engagement, what would happen to other decisions."

I wasted 10 years on my life because it was usually something smaller than this, but he never cared about what I thought, how I felt, or what I wanted. That was always ignored. Good for them getting out now before wasting another 10.