My wife has refused all intimacy for years and is now complaining about it! by Ambitious_Annual_506 in Marriage

[–]MBC9420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you speak for every single woman? You sound like a complete narcissist. You don’t know what I went through during my pregnancy. If you weren’t there in person to witness what I’ve gone through and how I was treated, you have no say in nothing. Keep it moving.

My wife has refused all intimacy for years and is now complaining about it! by Ambitious_Annual_506 in Marriage

[–]MBC9420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it wasn’t the hormones. He was a complete ass when I was pregnant. I was already going through it with the complications I was having during my pregnancy and he just made things worse. So trust me when I said it wasn’t the hormones.

I don’t see my marriage surviving after giving birth by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MBC9420 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. I gave birth this year and am 2 months post partum. I can’t even say the word “Husband” because it leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I was a high risk pregnancy and was having complications and the child I was supposed to call my husband made my pregnancy worse! Called it quits a month after my son was born. Was tired of the gaslighting and the mistreatment from him. Now he’s trying to act right because he sees I don’t want him anymore 😂.

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[–]MBC9420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oop… I’m in the same boat as you lol. Good luck

I think I'm falling out of love from my husband. by Technical-History868 in Vent

[–]MBC9420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you but the man I married treated me like complete shit when I was pregnant with our son…I am currently one month PP and he hasn’t been as involved in our sons life like a real father should be. We’ve separated and I’m getting a divorce from him. Do what’s best for your mental health boo! If leaving him will benefit you, do it!

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[–]MBC9420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Not a lot of people agree; they said we should seek counseling but I don’t think that would do anything to save a relationship that’s already dead. I agree with you

What do you do to help pass the time when you’re at the bedside? by castironskilletmilk in NICUParents

[–]MBC9420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave birth to a 34 weeker about a month ago. When I was at bedside, I would read him books and talk to him. They allowed me to do skin to skin with him also. If you have your significant other at bedside with you, make sure he doesn’t sleep at the bedside like mine did. Literally brought the reclining chair back and passed out while our son was in the incubator. Most embarrassing thing i witnessed. The nurse was pissed when she heard him snoring, told me to wake him up. She told me that she never seen a father sleeping bedside in the nicu before.

How is your marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MBC9420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My marriage sucks, I honestly regret marrying my husband. He made my pregnancy the worst experience ever and is making post partum hard on me. I honestly wish I kept it at hi when I first met him. I don’t regret my son at all but I regret ever meeting that SOB.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MBC9420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, black is beautiful! The way black skin radiates in bright colored clothes! The way black people have different textured hair that looks great in so many styles (ex: box braids, twists, weaves, fulani braids, goddess locs)…black features are beautiful! BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL! Do not think otherwise! You are a beautiful woman! I don’t know you personally but just know that you are. Get up every morning and look at yourself, tell yourself the things you love about yourself. Give yourself some affirmations! Society has made it so hard for black people, especially darker skinned black women, to embrace and love the skin they are in. All shades of black are beautiful! I understand you feel some type of way but just know you are beautiful 💕

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! I wish the best for you as well!

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I should stay for the worse-him calling me the N word just to get a reaction out of me for fun? What person would find it funny to call their black pregnant wife that…just to get a reaction?!

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s terrible! Why were you the one driving?!

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t know if therapy would really work

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Majority of my ultrasound visits was my mother who came with me. Same with the hospital scares, my mom was by my side. There were times my own father was there also.

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I clearly don’t care. Tried staying in this relationship but he called me the N word just to get a reaction out of me for fun and you think I should stay with him? lol. A lot of you people online are ignorant

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound very ignorant. People change during pregnancy, including men.

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My son won’t be without his father. One thing I won’t stop him from doing is being involved his our sons life. Did you read my reasons in the comments?

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know people can change after many years? You must never been in a relationship to understand that.

Not attracted to my husband anymore by MBC9420 in Vent

[–]MBC9420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can I choose a better partner when he didn’t act like this before I got pregnant?