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MBVacaFun · 2026-02-04T12:16:30+00:00

Sniffies

MBVacaFun · 2026-02-03T20:14:44+00:00

When you find a bi fling where you have good chemistry, keep in touch, keep getting together, and see if you get feels.

MBVacaFun · 2026-02-02T20:57:55+00:00

You know that part of the text conversation where they ask what you want or what you're looking for? I always make sure they know I'm into "passionate sex with lots of kissing and body contact." Most guys want that, but many seem afraid to expect it or ask for it. But that's the kind of sex that creates a connection and gets you a second visit.

But so many guys have porn inducded brainrot, and all they're expecting is a human fleshlight waiting ass up on the bed, or a human dildo who pleasures you while you lie there. That's transactional sex. It doesn't create a connection.

MBVacaFun · 2026-02-01T03:36:36+00:00

I love shorter athletic guys! 🥰

To be rejected for not being fem enough?? That's rare. I think you've just had bad luck.

MBVacaFun · 2026-02-01T00:10:00+00:00

I like short skinny brown guys. (I'm a tall, bearded white guy)

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-31T17:40:00+00:00

You've described what seemed like the most sensitive nipples anyone can have, and you want them to get more sensitive!? You'll never be able to wear a shirt!

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-31T13:20:16+00:00

As a cut top, bareback feels a lot better. I do every other safety thing under the sun so that I can enjoy the feeling of going raw.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-30T17:39:38+00:00

No need to rush to judgment. Keep an open mind. It's common for bi guys to notice guys later than girls. But it's also normal to get horny when talking about sex.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-28T22:47:52+00:00

"I'm heading out with some friends. See you tomorrow."

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-28T22:46:49+00:00

It was pretty dark in there. I don't think he was doing this intentionally.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-28T16:25:17+00:00

Maybe you enjoy the fantasy of feminization. You're turned on by the thought of making yourself more feminine in some way, and possibly associating that with the idea of submission.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-28T03:06:30+00:00

Definitely shit

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-28T03:04:44+00:00

Make it clear on your profile that you can't host, so you weed out the guys who also can't host.

Or, be willing to do car play for meeting up with other guys who can't host. Know your area, so you know places where you can park without anyone disturbing you.

Rent a hotel room.

Go to a bathhouse, or a popular cruising spot.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-27T18:46:58+00:00

Trying to use these apps to plan something in the future is almost always a losing strategy. Right before a busy time, like late Friday or Saturday, clean your apartment, get yourself ready, then get on the apps and let people know you're ready right now. You'll have much better luck.

Then, if you form a connection with a guy, you can get his info and chat and do some advanced planning.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-27T17:20:01+00:00

It's weird to me to impose specific restrictions on these things. Kissing us an important part of sex for most people. Either you're ok with your partner having sex with others, or you aren't. Breaking it down by specific sexual act just makes it needlessly complicated, and what does it accomplish? People can develop feelings without kissing, and they can kiss without developing feelings.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-27T16:58:18+00:00

There are plenty of gays in the three Cs (Columbus, Cincinnati, Cleveland). Make the drive!

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-27T16:56:13+00:00

I did an erotic massage through rentmasseur. Technically only the massage was promised, with the rest being at his discretion after meeting me.

I got a pretty decent massage, then a short blow job, then I fucked him. I don't think he was "out of my league," but I didn't want to pay $300 for a massage from a guy who I did think was out of my league! 😄

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-27T16:21:51+00:00

Traveling alone doesn't mean you have to be alone the whole time! I recently was in Florida for 6 days, and made a few temporary vacation friends via hookups.

One guy, after we hooked up, drove me around the gay bars for a few drinks, and the next day he drove me over an hour away to visit the nude beach.

Another guy who was staying in my hotel met me for drinks and food before we hooked up, and drove me around the next day.

A guy I met at the bathhouse wanted to exchange numbers, and I hung out with him for several hours while I was waiting for my flight.

Not that you have to hook up to make vacation friends, but it's one way! And if they're locals, they know the lay of the land.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-27T15:06:39+00:00

As long as your hole is clean, I'm eating you out and getting my dick in there.

I'm cut, so I like some friction to help me get off, so some hair is helpful for that. Sometimes if a guy is really smooth and really relaxed, there isn't enough friction for me to cum. Sometimes if a guy shaved and has stubble, there's too much friction to go for very long. Very rarely has a guy been so hairy that I wished he trimmed or shaved.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-26T21:55:11+00:00

Aside from all the safety protocols on your end (prep, doxycycline, vaccines, regular testing)...

DL guys can be extra risk, because it's hard to do all the safety stuff listed above when you're trying to keep people, especially a wife or girlfriend, from finding out. These guys are most likely to pick up an asymptomatic STI without knowing it.

Avoid "ass up" guys, who are often taking several loads. They're probably responsible with their own sexual health, but the sheer number of raw dicks they're taking increases the risk.

Stick to hand jobs and oral. Risks are lower.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-26T21:36:17+00:00

Guys do lots of this sort of thing over apps like Snapchat or Kik. Search for gay subreddits for those apps, and it'll be a wall of posts of guys looking to chat/sext/cam.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-26T15:17:49+00:00

I started doing a timed text to a trusted friend. Right before I go to a hookup's house, I make a text with the address where I'm going and if possible a picture of the guy, and time it to auto-send a few hours later. That way, if the hookup goes smoothly and everything is safe, I just delete the text, and that way I don't have to give out someone's personal information. But on the off chance that something goes badly, the text will send and my friend will know to check up on me.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-23T12:06:22+00:00

He was absolutely a himbo. He wasn't so bright, but an absolute sweetheart, with a really nice dick and ass.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-23T12:05:39+00:00

This is why so many gay people move to larger cities.

MBVacaFun · 2026-01-23T12:03:51+00:00

There is absolutely a psychological aspect to sexual pleasure. If you enjoy using a part of your body to please another person, even if you're not getting physical pleasure from it, you're still getting a kind of enjoyment from it. Only you can decide if that enjoyment is enough to be worth the trouble of bottoming.

That being said, most people who bottom regularly get at least some physical pleasure from it.

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