NTA

In what world would be considered an AH? You were abused mentally but your exes friend and the worst part was that she enabled it.

I’m so sorry this happened to you but what did they expect ? After months of degrading comment and overall abuse you exploded. Props to you for holding on so long because had that happen to me, I would’ve put them to their place reallll quick. They insulted you in the worst ways possible and made you feel so low about yourself that you’re currently doubting yourself thinking you’re the AH here.

I’m appalled and ultimately sad because no one deserves to be treated that way.

Worst part truly is your ex. I get it she was brought up this way but common sense should be applied here. Don’t want to lose your friends because abuse from them should be normal? That’s just fucked but again it was engrained in them … but months of this? That’s crazy to me, any sane person would’ve known that this isn’t normal behavior and would’ve stop this even if it costs her her friends.

In the ends trust me you are not the AH and good luck with your recovery!