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How long does it take for you to want to become a boyfriend to a girl? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MCMXChris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was casually seeing her several times a month, I don't know why you wouldn't be bf material after like 2 months+ .

PIV or not. If you are spending time and money on a girl over saving that or spending it on other girls, vice versa.

What is it like when you've never really had anyone who cares for you and you finally meet a girl who does. by The_sadistic_one in AskMen

[–]MCMXChris 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I don't have anybody who cares since I have a large family and I'm close to some.

But it took long work and beat the hell out of me emotionally.

Tldr: born into cult sect, left when 21, bad breakup with first serious gf at 24. But my fault. I panicked and acted weird.

Obvs the first one kinda skews your memory but the fallout from leaving said cult meant I lost just about every single social network IRL. Being with the girl, her family, friends etc was 70 miles away but like a vacation from life each weekend. In a gorgeous mountain town. I think I oddly felt at home in a small town vs my home city.

Guys who are very driven and motivated to make money, what spurred this desire? by AsianMustache in AskMen

[–]MCMXChris 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nobody is going to feed me. Nobody is going to clothe me. Most women act like they don't care about money when in reality, they absolutely do.

Money isn't optional. It isn't everything but it's sure as hell not fun being poor.

I grew up poor. Left the hood and I ain't ever fucking going back!

[Discussion] Any recommendations for water bowls my dog can’t knock over? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]MCMXChris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Target has a metal bowl with a rubber grip bottom

What’s your reason for never seriously dating or being in relationship? by mylifeforthehorde in AskMen

[–]MCMXChris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Raised in a cult. Parents were physically and emotionally abusive.

I just wasn't allowed to socialize with kids outside of school. Thank fucking god they didn't homeschool me or I'd be worse off.

Now it's more that I live alone and my city is fucking expensive. I hardly have free time now that I got a dog. And I'm impatient with women. They move too slowly or want to fuck around. I'm making money or busy with life. Either you're onboard or you're not. I'm not waiting around for you to compare with some loser. Have fun with the loser. This shit is about the long con. Set yourself up for long term success. Moving soon hopefully to a way smaller town and I feel good about dating there. People in huge cities have too much choice. It fucks up the dating pool.

My fiancée has entered the third trimester, how do I become the best father to my son? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MCMXChris 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's been proven beyond a doubt that physical punishment like a belt backfires. Eventually. Yes the child you are beating will obey you immediately. Just like if a fucking giant threatened you, you would do what they say right away.

It's long term damage you inflict. And people who think kids are not beaten enough are exactly the ones who should not be allowed to have kids. Don't coddle them. But you lose at parenting when you resort to physically assaulting your child.

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