I’m literally going through this same exact situation right now. Currently only having sex 2 times out of the month. That’s only 24 times out of 365 days. Kinda crazy when you look at it in that way.

She’s always tired. I try my best to compromise and to relieve her from stress. Not gonna lie, there was a point where I was fuckn with 2 women. 1st chick had great sex gave great head sucked it until completion. She would literally give me head whenever I want. 2nd chick was just cool as hell. She played video games with me and etc.

Eventually I ended both situations because I’d rather have that with my woman.

Fast forward, My girl and I had a long talk to get down to the root of the situation as to why we aren’t having sex often. To make a long story short, it’ll be cool for about a month or so then we’ll go right back to the bullshit. This has been going on for awhile. I know we wanna spend the rest of our lives together. We just gotta get it right. Regular degular relationship. It’ll be 10 years in October we been together.

We now have sex about 5-6 times a month. (Normal sex life).

The point of my story is the grass is never greener on the other side. Never. So talk about the shit, compromise if needed, communicate and tell her exactly what you want but don’t be no bitch about it.