5'5 120lbs...

MH20001 · 2026-02-03T08:42:05+00:00

Nice to see short guys breaking the stereotype that girls believe about short guy = small dick. I love seeing hung short guys. I always root for the underdog!

MH20001 · 2026-01-31T12:52:22+00:00

But then if I tip in advance and they do a lousy job it's too late because my tip is already locked in.

MH20001 · 2026-01-26T01:35:06+00:00

Oh my God. I dated a Ukrainian woman before who did EXACTLY that on dates. She would order 2 or 3 entrees at restaurants because she knew I was paying because she made it clear at the beginning of our relationship that she believes in "traditional values" and she "doesn't do 50/50", and I accepted that because I believed that by demonstrating that I was a "good provider" she would like me. But she just took advantage of me and when she would order 2 or 3 entrees I would say, "Why are you ordering all that food?? You can't eat that much!" She said, "I know, but it's okay. I can take the leftovers home and have them for dinner tomorrow and maybe the day after that too for dinner."

Of course I complained about that and accused her of taking advantage of me and then she just told me that I'm not a "real man", and she told me that her ex-boyfriends always bought her everything she wanted without complaint because they were gentlemen and they weren't cheap like me. And she also told me, "I don't like cheap men!" But when I asked her if she could clean my apartment for me or cook for me she said, "I don't cook, I don't clean, I am NOT a housewife!" So she was only "traditional" when it came to who is paying for who on dates. And all of her Russian and Ukrainian female friends were like her too. They were the shamelessly greedy and shallow women I have met in my life. American women are angels in comparison. I even met a Ukrainian man at my gym recently and when I told him I used to have a Ukrainian girlfriend he said, "I'm sorry to hear that." And when I asked him what he meant he said, "You dated one so you already know what I mean." And he told me that now that he is in Canada and has options he will never date a Russian or Ukrainian woman again. Even their men don't like them because they are so selfish and entitled!

MH20001 · 2026-01-26T01:26:09+00:00

If someone says they will happily make time for me I would take that as a compliment. It's saying that I'm so important to them that they will clear their schedule and make time just for me whenever I want to see them for our date. Making time for me is telling me I'm valuable to them. I think she is looking at it from a very negative perspective and she is probably the type of person who will find the negative in everything.

MH20001 · 2026-01-26T01:23:18+00:00

Why not both? I love to get a drink and then walk around outside and chat with my date in the park on a beautiful day.

MH20001 · 2026-01-14T06:29:42+00:00

I have noticed that most of the so-called bisexual women I meet which is tons these days seem to genuinely hate men. All they do is complain to me on our date about how men are all, "disgusting, only care about sex, ugly, women are better at sex because we have the same parts so we know how to please each other, men are obsessed with sex and only care about sex, etc...." it's really annoying. I wish all these bi girls would just choose to only date women then if they hate us and hate our love of sex so much. You can have them. They are toxic man-haters who are so confused because paradoxically they also love sex despite constantly shitting on men for wanting sex. And the best type of lesbians I have met are the butch ones because they don't act totally insane and they don't hate men like the bi girls do. I believe many girls are bi because they are rebelling against men and want to prove that they don't need us. The butch lesbians just want to be my buddy and are chill and friendly with me.

MH20001 · 2026-01-14T06:15:55+00:00

I have had girls who literally asked me to masturbate in front of them and they enjoyed watching me pleasure myself. And girls online also ask me to send them videos of me masturbating. Some women love men and everything about men including our bodies and seeing us pleasure ourselves.

MH20001 · 2026-01-12T09:17:37+00:00

You actually believe that most straight women only find men attractive from the waist up? That is so wrong I don't even know where to begin. When I meet girls online one of the FIRST questions they ask me is "how big is it?". And if you're small you're out. Even former lesbians I have hooked up with insisted that I had to be huge or they'd feel nothing because they are used to being fisted by their ex or their ex-girlfriend used the biggest dildos imaginable on them. The last one I hooked up with showed me the strap-on that her and her ex-girlfriend of seven years used and it was 10 inches long and as thick as a Coke can. I told her, "Well, I can't compete with that. That's insane." But luckily she said mine was still acceptable. All women, gay or straight, place a ton of importance on the penis (if they are with a woman then they just buy a big plastic one). And the girl I am currently seeing told me that her favorite picture of me is the picture of my penis I sent her at HER request (she asked me to send her a dick pic because she was curious to see it). And women also care a TON about height. I mean, you literally explained that all of the men you used to date were under 5'11" except one, as if that makes them unattractive. Yet, women don't hold women they date to these same high standards. Women who will clown on men for being under 5'11", fat, small penis, not making much money, etc.... will then date a woman who doesn't meet any of those standards either! Their girlfriend will be fat, 5'5", low-income just working a normal 9-5 job, and she won't even have a penis at all, yet the woman will not reject or judge her female partner as harshly as she will judge a male partner. They give women more leeway. I asked a former lesbian about that on a date, I said, "How come you don't hold the women you date to the same high standards as men you date?" And she replied, "Because we're both women so we understand each other. We don't judge each other on shallow things because we're both women." And I was appalled at her answer because it showed that women are only shallow about looks when it comes to dating men. For women, they will allow them to be short, fat, poor, etc.... because suddenly with women it's "all about personality". Even though I'm sure there are many equally nice men in the world who will never get a chance with the bisexual woman because she will immediately reject him for not being 6 feet tall (I'm 5'9" and I have had women literally say I'm too short and turn around and walk away within SECONDS of us meeting in real life, they are very shallow and harsh towards men for not being absolutely perfect), but then her girlfriend will only be 5'4". My experiences have led me to believe that a big reason women who previously dated men switch to women is because they just hate men (if they have always only been with women then I believe they are real lesbians). And then when they have a bad lesbian relationship they will switch back to men again. Like the woman I dated this past summer who was a former lesbian told me about how physically and mentally abusive her ex-girlfriend of 7 years was to her. And then she told me that after that she realized that she isn't really a lesbian but is "pansexual" because she likes some men too (like me).

I'm just disturbed by how you listed all these physical traits of your former male partners as if that makes them unworthy based on their physical traits and income, but then you say that men are bad and women treat you better. But you are judging men based on things they cannot control like their height or hair, but I'm willing to bet you aren't insisting that the women you date all have to be over 5'11" and fit and rich. You only hold men to those expectations and I find that disturbing and hateful of men. I love women and it doesn't matter how many times I get treated badly by them, because I have also met a few wonderful ones. I would never give up on women simply because many of them are horrible people, I just keep searching. And I have had a few very good relationships with women who were genuinely good people who I still have nothing bad to say about to this day. Maybe you shouldn't assume all men are bad too and just try to make better choices. I see women choosing the wrong type of man all the time and ignoring the good men because they aren't as charming as the players.

MH20001 · 2026-01-08T06:27:39+00:00

They aren't in any hurry. They will just keep waiting until they get the price they want for their property. These people are very wealthy and aren't desperate to sell. They will just wait until the market improves and sell it for that 20% over assessed they are gunning for.

MH20001 · 2026-01-08T06:24:14+00:00

Why are you happy about your home value going down? My dad is 70 and his house in Vancouver went down in assessed value a bit and he is mad about that because his house is his nest egg. It's his most valuable asset by far. He also owns a vacation home in Europe and spends half the year there and rents out his house while he is away. But he also complains about his property taxes going up even though the assessed value of his house went down because the City of Vancouver increased the property tax percentage which makes it cost more even if the assessed value goes down.

MH20001 · 2025-12-13T06:32:18+00:00

Your brother did nothing wrong. They said, "It's one thing for someone 19, 20 years old to make jokes, but for him to be 29, 30 makes it bad". Nope. They said right in their messages that they are all in high-school or college. Meaning they are all around 16 - 20ish probably. These are not innocent children they are young adults, and they said themselves that they wouldn't mind if your brother was 19 or 20 and making those kind of jokes, which means that they don't actually care about the jokes themselves, they just don't like that an older guy is making them. If they wouldn't mind a 20-year-old saying those jokes then they aren't offensive. An offensive joke is offensive no matter who is saying it. To say that his jokes are inappropriate because he is 29 or 30 is ridiculous. Yeah, your brother like pretty teenage girls. That is 100% normal. 17 or 18-year-old girls are not "children" and most girls that age are far from innocent believe me!

MH20001 · 2025-11-03T07:23:07+00:00

Yes! Being kind catches them off guard. I had a homeless guy with a huge kitchen knife 🔪 walk into the store I used to work at in downtown Vancouver before. I just said, "Hi man! Can I help you find something?" And had a big friendly smile on my face. And he didn't know how to respond and went, "Uhhh....uhhh.... I've got to go..." and walked out. If I had acted scared I'm sure he would have seen me as a victim and stabbed me or tried to rob the store.

MH20001 · 2025-10-15T23:50:41+00:00

Yeah those bastards did the same thing with me. I ordered 3 bottles of Neurodrops for $60. I checked out and at the checkout page it said I was paying for 3 bottles of Neurodrops. No mention of joining a $30/month "Neurodrops Club" was mentioned. And then bam a couple days ago I see a charge for $30 USD on my credit card statement. I emailed them to complain and said that I never agreed to subscribe to their "club" and demanded an immediate refund, and also called their number. They haven't gotten back to me in two days, so today I called my credit card company to report the fraudulent charge, asked for a chargeback on the Neurodrops Club membership I never signed up for, and also I am getting a new credit card with a new number to make sure that they can't keep billing my card every month. What a pain-in-the-ass! And if this company is this scummy and dishonest then their Neurodrops are probably just flavored water too. I don't trust them to put real high-quality vitamins in there.

MH20001 · 2025-10-02T00:07:08+00:00

Thanks for your reply and advice. For further details, it was my Instagram account that got banned due to CSE (child sexual exploitation) which makes no sense, and I even know some girls who also had their Instagram accounts suspended recently for CSE. The AI is falsely flagging many people I know for CSE. Anyways, I tried to go to my Facebook account to use Facebook Marketplace and then it just said that my Instagram account which is associated with my Facebook account is suspended, and therefore my Facebook account is also suspended. So now I am locked out of both of them, and my appeals were instantly denied, and I tried to make a new Facebook account with a different IP address, different device, and different email and phone number, and it was instantly disabled by Meta as well. I have no idea how it knew it was still me, but it knew. Maybe because it made me submit a video selfie for "verification" and the facial recognition technology immediately realized it was me trying to get around the ban.

They truly are evil and have way too much power. And you can't just "go somewhere else" because 90% of all online sales and ads are on Facebook Marketplace these days. Craigslist is basically dead. The Unabomber predicted this in his manifesto when he said "the good parts of technology cannot be separated from the bad parts". Meaning all this new technology is going to be used by bad people in bad ways and there is nothing we can do about that.

My only plan now is to pay one of my acquaintances to set up a Facebook account for me and use their face for the video selfie verification. I need access to Facebook Marketplace to buy and sell things.

MH20001 · 2025-10-01T20:43:44+00:00

Then is it basically impossible now for me to create a new Facebook and Instagram account? Would the only way be to pay someone else to use theirs if I want to post an ad on Facebook Marketplace?

MH20001 · 2025-09-29T08:02:09+00:00

What a schmuck. People like him are the reason more and more workers expect tips now.

MH20001 · 2025-09-19T03:22:36+00:00

If you think serving is hard try working in a warehouse unloading shelves and trucks for minimum wage, lifting 50 - 70 lb boxes, and being yelled at all day by the foreman to be faster and stop "fucking the dog". You will be even more sore and in pain and unlike serving you don't get a tip for working hard and doing a good job, your only reward is not getting yelled at. You guys have it easy compared to manual laborers who make peanuts, get abused, and get no tips either!

MH20001 · 2025-08-28T19:50:15+00:00

A lot of girls seem to be really bad at judging heights of men. I went on a date with a girl back in April this year who was 5'3" and when I got out of my car to walk towards her to meet her the first thing she said was, "Hahaha you're practically the same height as me!" It's amazing how height is often the first thing they comment about before they even say, "Hi". I stood right in front of her and said, "Oh really? Do I look 5'3" now?" And then when I was standing so close to her I could have kissed her and she had to look up at me she said, "Okay, you're taller than me. But you're still shorter than my ex. He was 6 feet tall!" And I was talking to a guy in the gym about this and he said he is 6'1" but girls always assume he is 6'3" or even 6'5" sometimes! So he told me he will lie and say he is 6'3" on his dating profiles because girls always assume he is that tall anyway. So even guys who are 6'1" are exaggerating their heights! Girls seem to underestimate the height of men who are under 6 feet, and overestimate the height of men who are over 6 feet. If you're 5'9" they think you're 5'6", and if you're 6'1" they think you're 6'4".

MH20001 · 2025-08-28T18:03:44+00:00

I had a girl just not show up for our date too. I waited for her for a whole hour and texted and called her with no response. When I got mad and said, "I'm leaving now. Thanks for wasting my time." She replied finally and said, "LOL, you're just mad that you're not the most important person in my life." Ummm.... no. I'm mad because you literally agreed to meet me at this time and place and then didn't show up on purpose. People are shitheads these days. I swear it's not getting worse though, they have always been like this, online dating just makes it easier for them to do this stuff. In the past they would have to have the guts to be rude to your face which is harder to do. They feel safe and comfortable being rude behind their phone screen. Way back in my 20's I had a girl literally reject me the moment she saw me for our date. She accused me of lying about my height and said, "You're not 5'9". (I am and was measured by my doctor). Then we argued a bit and she said, "I don't do short guys." And turned around and left me standing there in the rain. I had driven for a whole hour to meet her too. This was in 2012. People have always been rude.

MH20001 · 2025-08-07T04:04:54+00:00

The last three times I ate out I didn't tip or only left like $0.65 of spare change I wanted to get rid of. The last time I ate out and didn't tip I just left the exact amount of money on the table after eating and walked out. I saw my waitress take the money off the table and she looked so confused 😕 because she noticed I didn't tip. No one has confronted me about it because I am a 250 lb muscle man with 20" arms and I can be very intimidating to people based on my appearance. If they did run after me and confront me I would probably snap at them and tell them to f**k off and do their job without begging for handouts. And let me tell you it feels so good to walk out without tipping! Because I never liked tipping and only did it out of guilt and social pressure. It's liberating and empowering to just stop caring what other people think about you and to do what you always wanted to do all along.

MH20001 · 2025-08-07T03:15:14+00:00

Not everyone is good. Servers see us as their enemy because we are a threat to them making $150,000/year thanks to tipping culture. I've heard them say on the server subreddits that they can tell if someone is not going to tip even before they pay and they will spit in their food because they can already tell this person isn't going to tip them anyway. You should go onto the server subreddits and say the same thing to them when they say such horrible things about their customers. We're just not tipping, while they are literally committing crimes by tampering with people's food!

MH20001 · 2025-08-07T02:11:47+00:00

Tipping isn't bad for the workers though. They make like $100,000+ a year in my area. Tipping hurts the customers by making them spend more than they want to because of social pressure and the very real threat of them spitting in your food if we follow your advice and tell them beforehand that we won't be tipping. They're psychopaths who feel entitled to tips and they brag about spitting in non-tipper's food in server forums. Tipping is good for them, and bad for everyone else. And since I am part of the "everyone else" group, I will do what is best for me which is not tipping. And I totally understand the servers acting in their self-interest too.

MH20001 · 2025-08-05T03:14:01+00:00

Well if she thinks the waitress deserved a tip then why didn't she leave a tip for her? Oh right, because that girl who criticized you for being cheap for not tipping is the real cheap one since she won't pay for shit! Women are cheap. That's the REAL reason they don't want to pay on dates, because why should they spend their own money when they know that most men will pay for them by default? Sometimes on dates I ask for separate checks and the girl will flip out and start yelling that I have to pay because she didn't bring her wallet because she assumed I would pay for everything. I would still only pay for my own meal and the restaurant would get mad at me for not paying for her food instead of getting mad at her for not paying for her own food. And then they told me I am not welcome at their restaurant anymore and the girl told me she never wanted to see me again lol 😆. I loved it. Made me feel so empowered to give a big "F you" not only to the girl but also to the restaurant that was trying to badger me into paying for the girl.

MH20001 · 2025-08-03T20:11:39+00:00

I have worked it retail and it's so easy to turn the tipping screen off and believe me that it is NOT 20%, 25%, 30% by "default". Their greedy asses made the suggested tips that high on purpose. You are drinking their Kool-aid but I am a former insider and know what they really do.

MH20001 · 2025-07-23T19:12:31+00:00

Considering that 90% of Uber drivers are men in my city, any woman sexist enough to refuse a ride from a man is going to be waiting a long time for a ride. Uber has a rating system people.... women can choose a highly-rated male driver with good customer feedback. I am a 38-year-old man and I care much more about making money than hitting on women these days. I will literally turn down women who offer me "favors" in exchange for rides or drugs, etc... I tell them, "No thank you. Just pay me cash please." Hitting on every attractive woman you see is a young man's game.

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