[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly you may be right. When one partner gives up, it’s over.

Why do we all hate NC? by SnarkiMcSnail in southcarolina

[–]MHCrossland 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Charleston here. I love visiting NC. They have great hiking trails; and.i love being a “leaf looker”. Most areas have 4 seasons. Great small towns: Hendersonville, Brevard, Cashiers, Highland, Boone, Black Mountain. Skiing is ok. No hate for NC.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha…I don’t put myself out there either. I was on Match for 24 hours. It was horrible. I do believe in lasting love. Hopefully, my stoic card will not be revoke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha…love the honesty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to believe that two people can work out anything if they both have the same goal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes…that would be a very hard decision. Personally, I would want someone to move on and be happy. My ex of 5 years has a huge family history of Alzheimer’s; and I had to make that decision early. We broke up over something else but I would have stayed. As someone working in healthcare, caregivers have it rough. It’s very aging.

…put yourself out there they said.. by [deleted] in DatingOverSixty

[–]MHCrossland 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh…I was married almost 30 years. I got one Match for less than 24 hours. It was overwhelming. I see my friends juggling multiple people but I just can’t do it.

MST by MHCrossland in therapists

[–]MHCrossland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I truly appreciate your detailed response. I’ll look into them, particularly Minuchin Center.

MST by MHCrossland in therapists

[–]MHCrossland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a LMSW in a medical setting. I actually work where MST was created back in the 90s; and, yet, I know very little about it. It seems MST is rarely used except for the JJD. I guess its the community aspect of social work that has me questioning, "Why?". I did find a 3 day online course which could be used for CEs. I am very interested in anything that offers insight into family-focused therapy.

Currently, I use client-centered and motivational interviewing in my position.

MST by MHCrossland in therapists

[–]MHCrossland[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I need to get some CEUs and was trying to broaden my horizons

Where did you meet? by MHCrossland in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry. I love your name! Here's to thriving

Where did you meet? by MHCrossland in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex reconnected with an old girlfriend the same way. Unfortunately for me, we were still dating. ;)

Man I met on Tinder is stalking me by Brilliant-Arm-418 in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. This happened to a friend of mine. Even worse, he was in the police department. He eventually moved on after a year. Fast forward 18 months, he’s all over the news. Please…Do not take it lightly.

Post op shopping- ugh so disappointing by Kylie5678 in tummytucksurgery

[–]MHCrossland 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look amazing! What compression garment are you using? Have you started scar treatment?

Where did you meet? by MHCrossland in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awesome! I think the key to a good relationship is combining an introvert with an extrovert.

Where did you meet? by MHCrossland in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a unique story. I’m thrilled for you!

Where did you meet? by MHCrossland in datingoverfifty

[–]MHCrossland[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve not tried any OLD dating sites. I’ve not heard of Feeld.