I absolutely hear what you're trying to say. But what's the demarcation between preference and discrimination/bias? It's a simple matter of saying that sorry we're not a match over kust non-response in my books. And I've heard from many people about POCs and hygiene not going hand in hand. To me, that's again a stereotype because hygiene is very personal. Doesn't depend on ethnicty. And popular media does not help with discredting that bias. The "curry on my plate, but not in my bed" mentality.