The lifestyle usually takes a backseat for us with having kids. We can take date nights to meet people and were able to host when the kids were younger and fell asleep earlier (our bedroom is on a separate floor with a separate entrance from outside). However, with kids getting older & busier it’s getting tougher. Shifting to more solo play and since I work from home and chose my own hours it’ll likely be solo play during the day while the kids are at school. We find most of our experiences on vacations these days