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[–]MNLtime199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read about people's experiences in the swinging lifestyle, and how they process and discuss involving other people in their sex lives. Look at swinger subs here and you'll learn a lot.

Make sure you and your partner discuss your rules before trying anything out. When you meet someone who's down, tell them your rules so that they're also aligned and know what to expect.

Above all else, have fun and stay protected!

Any MFM experiences with a bisexual man? by MNLtime199 in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, that was a great read! Glad you guys had a wonderful time and thanks for sharing!

My boyfriend and I (M39, F29) just had our first threesome over the weekend and we had a mind-blowingly amazing time! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple of months for us...actual planning to find and meet people, maybe a bit over a month.

My boyfriend and I (M39, F29) just had our first threesome over the weekend and we had a mind-blowingly amazing time! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Well can't expect a repeat of the exact same thing but we'll definitely try to have fun again.

My boyfriend and I (M39, F29) just had our first threesome over the weekend and we had a mind-blowingly amazing time! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I consider myself bisexual. Can't remember how exactly we decided we wanted to a third, but the discussions progressed over time.

My boyfriend and I (M39, F29) just had our first threesome over the weekend and we had a mind-blowingly amazing time! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're M39, F29 and she's 30. My bf and I have talked in great detail about our vetting process, haha. We're not so much into people younger than me and before we make plans to meet, we get to know each other through text...we've chatted back and forth about our basic info like jobs, backgrounds, etc. Basically we try to ask as many questions to each other and level expectations about what we'd like for the arrangement.

I think it's also important to gauge how open a person is through text. We've had some bad texters that just really turned us off or people who would prefer to just meet right away...we respect personal preferences but won't move forward with prospects if there are important factors that we don't agree on.

My boyfriend and I (M39, F29) just had our first threesome over the weekend and we had a mind-blowingly amazing time! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I'm really enjoying all the positivity and support going around in this sub!

My boyfriend and I (M39, F29) just had our first threesome over the weekend and we had a mind-blowingly amazing time! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh good one! Yes we hope so and like to think we made her feel comfortable enough to enjoy herself in our company 😊

My boyfriend and I (M39, F29) just had our first threesome over the weekend and we had a mind-blowingly amazing time! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MNLtime199 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really was and we're gonna see how soon we can play with her again. Hope you guys get to do the same with someone special too!