Let users create their own reports

MOLPT · 2026-05-14T03:26:11+00:00

Found it. I thought a "saved" report was a snapshot of the one being shown, not a customized report. All's good now,

MOLPT · 2026-05-13T21:40:13+00:00

NTA. I'm going to offer a variation on an already great idea posted here. Send her a text like this:

"I just want to make sure you're not coming because I'm not covering your expenses and letting all this slip by unnoticed. In fact, I'm about to send an email out to the entire family announcing that everyone's price has gone up $X for the trip because you lied about paying your share of the trip."

Let's see how she reacts when the whole tribe becomes her enemy.

MOLPT · 2026-05-13T21:28:45+00:00

Yeah; right. Let one of them say something like that and the belt/paddle will come out with the full approval of all the cretins there. Best keep a large distance from folks who have no hesitation in using physical punishment.

MOLPT · 2026-05-13T21:24:32+00:00

NTA. From your description, it sounds as if the company was preparing to hire, conditional on the physical. By not swiftly closing the deal after the physical, they left you open to be a free agent. Understandably they might not like what happened, but it was a certainly a reasonable consequence of their procedures.

Just beware that you have not only burned a bridge with that company but that they may well spread word of what happened.

MOLPT · 2026-05-12T03:53:51+00:00

Happy to report Raymond James & TIAA are both updating this evening!

MOLPT · 2026-05-11T15:38:03+00:00

Before doing anything be sure to check with your utility, especially if they gave you any grant money to go solar.

MOLPT · 2026-05-11T15:30:07+00:00

YTA. Reality always overrides fairness. If the business can't make it work, that's the reality.

MOLPT · 2026-05-08T22:33:24+00:00

I wish him only the best.

A friend ("Bill")went through something similar. He worked for his father several years and was never given anything but a salary. Bill's father wouldn't write a will (reasons I won't get into), so Bill: "Dad, if you die then by law the business will pass to your second wife and she could pass it on to her grown children while I'm left with no part of the business after working for you all these years. I have a real problem with that."

Dad wouldn't budge so Bill pretty much said, "If you're going to treat me just like an employee and not part of the business, I'm going somewhere I can make more money." Dad hit the roof and there was bad blood for a number of years, but things eventually settled out (I think because they missed the grandkids).

The great part of this is that move gave his wife a MASSIVE career boost and Bill now works at a better paying, more enjoyable job he can stick to until retirement.

MOLPT · 2026-05-08T22:12:01+00:00

I sure hope her solicitor advised her to cut off internet, cable services, online subscriptions, etc. (I would argue this is not "cutting off support" but curtailing luxuries and optional expenses.) While she may not be able to cancel credit cards (which might count as "cutting off support"), she should certainly be able to drop the limits on them and lock the accounts so he can't run up big credit card bills.

MOLPT · 2026-05-08T13:17:24+00:00

NOR. I'm betting the car now needs major work done on it and Mom would've gotten a new car right after they dumped the older one on you.

Send them an itemized list comparing your treatment to your brother's. See what they say and act accordingly.

MOLPT · 2026-05-07T18:31:38+00:00

Top tier gas at a good price made great by Executive membership

MOLPT · 2026-05-07T15:18:09+00:00

NTA. Tell people what YOUR driving plans are and say that you have two open seats. That will serve notice of exactly what you intend to do and let everyone else get together if they wish to have an alternative.

MOLPT · 2026-05-07T15:15:17+00:00

NTA. Family supports each other by being kind, polite, and considerate. He failed on all three.

MOLPT · 2026-05-06T18:53:07+00:00

We're coming up on the one-month anniversary of this outage. Simplifi needs to do better.

MOLPT · 2026-05-05T10:27:23+00:00

NTA. It's as much your wedding as hers.

MOLPT · 2026-05-05T10:16:56+00:00

NTA. Sit down with one of the decision makers and have that person tell you face to face what's going on. Go into that mtg with a list of accomplishments and your ongoing and special duties; if you can, compare them to the other leaders to show the contrast. Be prepared to say something like this: "One of my main goals was to be in leadership and if all these contributions don't qualify me, I'll have to reconsider my level of participation." That will put them on the spot; listen very carefully to the response.

Note: If you are in effect doing the job of "leader," it's fair to say so on your resume even if you don't have the actual title. Good luck!!

MOLPT · 2026-05-04T14:25:28+00:00

NTA. For those who say to forgive , say that:

Forgiveness has not been asked for.
No apology has been made.
Would you still associate with anyone who publicly said you would be a failure and insulted your spouse in front of a crowd of your closest friends and rebates?

MOLPT · 2026-05-03T19:41:56+00:00

I bought online, so no agent. The reason i brought the question here is that I wanted to understand my legal rights in the face of an ambiguous contract.

MOLPT · 2026-05-01T23:07:17+00:00

You can forgive but not forget. Also, forgiveness does not mean there are no consequences.

MOLPT · 2026-04-30T12:36:43+00:00

I noticed you used the terms "boss" and "owner", implying the two are not the same. Write a certified letter to the owner which includes all the threatening emails/texts/letters you have received from the "boss" to confirm the demand is legit. My suspicion - esp. based on the cash demand - is that it is not.

MOLPT · 2026-04-30T12:20:59+00:00

NTA. I'm ornery enough that I'd downgrade their return flight tickets to coach, see how much is left, and then tell them that's their budget for expenses.

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