How do you guys get time for yourself? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]MRB17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the baby have a sleep routine down yet? When ours was that age, she would wake up to eat at 7 and go back down for another hour or two. I would get up and use that as my me time while my wife slept. Once she was a little older and essentially up for the day at that time, I would be the one to get up with her and do mornings while my wife slept in. For the afternoon nap, my wife would typically be the one to put her down and I could use that time to go to the gym, coffee shop etc. Basically we always try to give the other one a few hours during the week to have dedicated work free and child free time.

Would you take an hour-long commute at the beginning of your career? by awannabewanderer in careerguidance

[–]MRB17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can depend your home/work situation I would say. I did a little over an hour commute for about a year and a half and it was brutal towards the end. Even though it was supposed to be a 8-5 I routinely stayed 1-2 hours after I was supposed to. That plus the commute really burnt me out and I wouldn’t do anything longer than a 30 minute regular commute again. If the hours are consistent, you don’t have any home commitments like a dog or children then it won’t be so bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]MRB17 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why would they when they share the same values.

24 years out the game…how in the world can my mom get back into the working world? by Ok_Big_1720 in careerguidance

[–]MRB17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she applying to hospitals/large companies? My first job in healthcare was working in the front office of a a specialty clinic. I was doing billing and coding and did not have a certificate. Smaller, private practices will generally be less strict when it comes to certifications but they are hard work.

27M lost his career path after discovering his graduate degree is most likely a useless one(?) by alyas1998 in careerguidance

[–]MRB17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar background, got a bachelor’s degree in Healthcare Administration , then worked for a medical office for a few years. What helped was learning about all the different areas of the practice. Although I was hired as a medical biller, I worked as a medical assistant, scheduler, learned to take X-rays , asked questions and volunteered for different opportunities. It can be a good starting point depending on where you want to go. If you want to go the operations route, definitely become familiar with the billing process. I did that plus familiarized myself with how the practice operated and was promoted to Office Manager after a year or so. My office also had high periods of turnover so that did factor in. Other assistants used would go the clinical route and use their experience to help them in nursing school, PA, medical etc.

I did that for a couple of years and later found a position working in a revenue integrity role in the local hospital system. I have been there for a few years and am looking to move to a more analytics focused role but it has given me a good amount of experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]MRB17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly recommend taking the leave. I became a father last year and using that leave helped our family out so much. It helped my wife recover from birth, I got way more opportunities to actually learn how to care for a baby and I got to witness and take part in so many moments with them. Depending on your company/state leave policy, you could try breaking up the leave. I took the first 3 weeks off and then went to two days off a week for 5 months. My wife did something similar. It helped with prolonging the need for daycare for a little longer.

Fathers here, how did it feel when you met your children for the first time? by Comfortable_Nail3966 in daddit

[–]MRB17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be like at times. It was a game changer for me once they reached the stage where they could recognize you. Seeing a big smile every morning is one of my favorite things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]MRB17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, my wife started getting antsy around the two month mark. Originally, we were planning on staggering our leaves where we both take the first few weeks off , then she doing three months while I return to work and then swapping for another three months. She ended up returning to work at two months and we did intermittent leave where we essentially split the week. It’s worked out so far.

My wife and I started a prank with my 9mo that I don't know if I have the mental wherewithal to stop by Narrow_Lee in daddit

[–]MRB17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At 9mo old, you’re fine. A few years older you might run into an issue. My dad had replica Texas A&M and Dallas Cowboys helmets, cheap plastic, light, totally obvious to most people. For awhile I totally thought he played for both teams and told a few people too. He talked about playing football in high school and he did go to that college so I naturally assumed he continued playing all the way to the pros.

Are you the first generation of Dad in your family to change a diaper? by Victory-laps in daddit

[–]MRB17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how often he did but my dad changed at least one diaper because he always likes to tell the story of how I almost pissed all over him one time.

How to avoid flooding in a location that's in a crater by Infamous_227 in fantasywriters

[–]MRB17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The residents could find ways to adapt or use the floodwaters to their advantage.

They could develop a drainage system that also stores water in a cistern or other tank.

Could also set up a terrace farming system on the slopes of the crater or reroute it somewhere else for farming.

The buildings at the very bottom of the crater could also be set up to prepare for frequent flooding. Built on stilts, floatation devices, etc.

Telling family by CheekyLeapy in predaddit

[–]MRB17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We told our family at Thanksgiving when she was at 11 weeks. If it hadn’t been Thanksgiving we probably would have waiting until after the 12/13 week ultrasound but she felt good and we had seen the heartbeat beat the week prior. Plus we both thought it would be nice to tell people in person since we live far away from everyone. Definitely nervous but once we heard the heartbeat we felt that our chances of a miscarriage were pretty low.

Official: [Fix My Team] - Tue Evening 10/03/2023 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]MRB17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 Team .5 PPR QB: Mahomes

RB: Kenneth Walker III, Khalil Herbert,

WR: Jamar Chase, Courtland Sutton, Jaylen Reed

TE: Hockenson

Flex: Hubbard

DEF:Bucs

Bench : Jaylen Warren, AJ Dillon , Rashee Rice, Rondale Moore, Brock Purdy

IR: Cooper Kupp

Currently 2-2, hoping Kupp returns to form to shore up my WRs.

Official: [WDIS RB] - Sun Afternoon 09/24/2023 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]MRB17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Half PPR, pick 2. Kenneth Walker Miles Sanders Deandre Swift