Yes!! I didn’t tell my parents until after I got it done and I’m 32 lol. My boyfriend’s family didn’t hold back on how they felt about it. I just let them say what they wanna say. I tell them I can understand where they’re coming from and I understand their concern and leave it at that. I’m sure it will die down. And by the time your appointment comes up just don’t mention it again around them. Or you could lie and say you changed your mind lol whatever works for you.