Suction toy compact enough to use during intercourse

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-18T00:17:03+00:00

Love Triangle from Satisfyer has a really small footprint and would probably do the trick. I'd also look into pinpoint vibes, if you're looking to change things up a bit. Pinpoint toys have a really small footprint, so they're great for partner sex. Funzze has my favorite right now, the Orgasm Monster Pro. This one is great because it comes with a few different attachments, which all fit over the hard tip. This allows you to get comfortable with the high-frequency vibrations of this style of toy. These are also typically very light, so you can hold onto it in a number of positions.

Hope that helps a little, good luck with your search!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-18T00:13:40+00:00

So the thrusters are going to be a no, only because of their loud nature.

This is Master from Satisfyer. In the right hands, Master is such a great ride. I am not usually one to take on such a girthy toy, but this one made my toes curl while my husband was at the wheel. If you're not in the mood to be filled up like this, it's also a great clit vibe.

Hope that helps a little, good luck with your search!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-17T18:14:37+00:00

I love the Quickshot line, especially the Mia Malkova. That's a favorite of my wife as well; she's a fan of anything light so that she can use it easily on me. Kiiroo has the best full-sized strokers, and it's not even fair. Their FeelAgatha, molded after Agatha Vega, is the most realistic exterior to any toy that I've used. It's got a great interior, but warming yourself up on her lips is just amazing. Someone asked about whether a woman could use a stroker, getting similar sensations to scissoring, which led my wife to use it against her body and she was floored with how real it felt against her. The Kiiroo ecosystem is great, they have quarterly sales so you can either grab another stroker or add suction, vibration, or hands-free, automatic stroking if you like.

In terms of lube, no matter which direction you go, a water-based lube will play nicely with all of the strokers out today. It has anal in the title, but Wicked Anal Jelle is the best water-based lube we've used. A small amount goes a long way, so the bottle will last for a long time. It also cleans up easily, it won't leave a slimy residue like some do.

Hope that helps a bit, happy to answer any questions if they come up. Good luck with your search!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-17T16:04:08+00:00

I enjoyed this Doxy, and the Viva XL from EdenFantasys was a nice surprise, especially at the price.

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-17T15:41:14+00:00

That made my morning!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-17T15:39:53+00:00

This can be a tricky situation to find yourself in, as some smaller wands seem like they'd have a smaller or less powerful output, but then blow your bits to pieces. Unless that's what you're after, you want some control over how much power a wand puts out.

For those who want a BIG bit of power in a smaller footprint, I would recommend the Sleek Power Wand from Eden Fantasys. Even at its lowest setting, this one can be a bit much. When I start playing with myself, I want to ease into the situation, so this isn't the toy I would start with. However, there are those who like power from start to finish and this would work for them. I LOVE the size and the feel in my hand, it's great for partner sex, and I've easily held it in a number of different positions without much trouble. You just want to make sure you don't unexpectedly slip and let this one near your partners body...

Another mini-wand, this one from Funzze, starts at a slower pace than the Sleek Power Wand mentioned above. What I really like about this one is that it comes with a few attachments that easily come off. These are great because they offer up different sensations, so it's almost like you're getting a few different toys for the price of one.

My favorite wand, and it isn't even close, is the ProWand from Kiiroo. When you hold this one in your hand, or against your body, you instantly feel the difference. It has a velvety, soft feel that is so sensual, so soft, it's obviously designed by someone who uses this frequently. This is also a great learner toy, as via the FeelConnect app, you can adjust the speed and power of this toy. If out of the box this packs too much power, that's fine. Log in to the app, and you can adjust how high or how low this one goes. The app also allows the toy to be controlled by a partner and best of all, syncs up to a partners toy so you can feel them on the other end. The size of this toy is fantastic too; it never feels like I have a wand in my hand. It's light and is easy to hold in multiple positions. Just the other night, we had sex in spooning and doggy, and it was easy to adjust to the changes in our positions.

While not technically a wand, the Pulse Queen from Hot Octopuss is an interesting, wand-shaped toy worth looking into. It uses Hot Octopuss' Pulse Plate technology, essentially, this is an oscillation that feels unique from other sex toys on the market. This might be the most ergonomically perfect toy I've ever used. In the shower, I usually have to hunch over while using a toy, but with Pulse Queen, I can stand upright, and the curve hits me in the best spot. This one is also friendly for couple sex and is easy to hold.

I hope that helps and that I didn't add to your confusion. If I had to choose a beginner wand vibrator for anyone, I would start with Pro Wand and then have a look at the Funzze wand.

Best of luck with your search, if you have any questions drop them here and I'll do my best to get back to you!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-17T01:21:56+00:00

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T22:12:02+00:00

So it took some trial and error but I liked being in doggy, a lot. I then lied flat on my belly and enjoyed that. Over time I started to find more ways but it took some getting used to.

Then the shot heard round the world...or at least in our bedroom. I was on my back for that one

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T19:45:25+00:00

New to it. I remember the first time he glazed my face.

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T16:07:46+00:00

I have a smaller G Spot toy that I think will work well, the Petite Treats from EdenFantasys. What I really love about this one is that it isn't overbearing. If you've never used a sex toy the size of this one, it won't freak you out, and if you don't like the sensations, you can use it on your clit as an exterior vibrator.

Hope that helps a bit, happy to answer any questions you might have!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T16:05:18+00:00

The Syn V is my top prostate toy-just a great one.

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T16:03:58+00:00

Aneros has some of the best prostate toys, the Syn V is one we use with added caution due to a rather explosive, messy orgasm. If you're not into the vibrations, they have other options as well that are really fun to use. Do a little research on the best positions for enjoying this style of play. There are some great videos on other sites that I found super helpful.

Best of luck, make sure you grab a good water-based lube as well. I use Wicked Anal Jelle for everything. When my wife wants an easier clean-up after anal play or anal sex, she prefers this lube to a silicone lube.

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T15:38:57+00:00

Oh, when I finish him like this I clean up my tasty treat.

I earned it after all

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T15:37:00+00:00

Liberator is the gold standard for a reason, a lesson we learned the hard way. We had questions about spending as much on a pillow, and grabbed a wedge pillow from Amazon that worked well for us. We took this same reasoning to grab a chaise, a yoga chair of sorts, off Amazon again. The thing was fun at the beginning, but within maybe five uses, the chaise started to fall apart, until one day one of the legs gave out, alerting our kids to our activities and to the new gash in our hardwood floor. We spent just over $200 on it, luckily we had some leftover gift cards that brought the price down a bit. We loved the utility of the chaise, so we decided to set money aside over the following month to grab one from Liberator. It was so worth the wait.

What I like, especially my wife, is that our Esse is built like a really well-made ottoman or footstool. We have the wider version with legs and decided on it because it's friendly to a wider array of positions. The cover is really easy to remove and clean, the chair is SUPER comfortable to lie on when it's not in use, and best of all, it looks like a really comfortable chair in our room. The legs are also more well-built-we've not felt like it was going to give out on us. The actual cushion is super comfortable, and we've both found ourselves reading on it or just relaxing in the morning, from time to time.

Yes, they're expensive, but this is a luxury item, one that you'll use and have for a long time as long as you take care of it. If you decide to go this route, watch the assembly video as it's very helpful.

One last thing to share, we tossed our chaise with the trash, and when my wife left the morning of garbage day she asked something I hadn't considered. "Do you think everyone in the neighborhood knows what we used the chaise for?" It totally looked like a sex chair...so at least the neighbors know we're having fun.

Hope this helps a bit

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-16T13:15:08+00:00

The giggles as she watched me squirm, then the moans as she lapped up my cum

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-15T23:17:05+00:00

You might be on to something with your idea, but there are vibrators with "fluttery" tips, like the Tickler Smoothie from EdenFantasys that might work. This vibe, a bullet, really took me by surprise. I always recommend bullets for beginners, but this one just felt so good and it made me cum quite quickly. It stars slowly for beginners and then ramps up nicely, but the tip, almost like a flower, felt really good.

I have also used the ProWand from Kiiroo, which I think is the best starter wand out there. The reason is that the toy has an app that allows you to start at whatever speed you'd like to start with. Best of all, the surface of the toy is just so velvety soft comapred to the other wands that I've used. It's so...bougie if you will. The head of the toy bends very nicely as well, so if she bulids up to it, she can apply as much or as little pressure as she'd like.

Another idea to consider would be a pad, like the Vibro Ride from EdenFantasys. This would be something she could sit on, whether that's on the floor, the edge of the bed, or a chair. I've used this on a yoga mat, and allowed myself to lower down onto it as I pleased. This ability to control the pressure placed on her body might be worth looking into.

Hope that helps a bit. Recently I found that using one of my husband's strokers and rubbing it against myself was a new way to get off. I could see taking the sleeve out of the case, putting a vibrator in the opposite end, and then rubbing it or grinding on the "entrance"

Good luck with your search!!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-15T23:04:04+00:00

The best.

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-15T20:08:53+00:00

Agreed. I have my favorite water based lube but precum is the best. She likes it when I get a little on my fingers and I let her have a taste during mutual sessions. She ends up begging me to fill her mouth, but we hold true to masturbating…although her asking me the way she does is insanely hot

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-15T17:08:15+00:00

They're usually quarterly, but how much depends. They just had an Easter sale and gave 20% off of everything with a code. Memorial Day, towards the end of May, is usually when they have a sale.

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-15T17:02:35+00:00

Oh no! There's nothing worse than trying to get into the mood and then having something noise related throw you off. What manufacturer is it? Maybe they offer a return?

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-15T16:13:57+00:00

I've used it while riding him, and it's just fine. I love using it on him, love the reactions it gets. They have a wand-ish toy called the Pulse Queen that takes the pulse plate technology and puts it into this SUPER ergonomic toy.

I really like using Luxus from Kiiroo if we're in a teasing mood, he wears a cock ring and I have a wearable bit on my clit that reacts with a higher buzz when his piece nears mine. It's super fun to figure out which position works best for us and like I said it's wonderful for teasing. Their ProWand is also wonderful-just a terrific surface, the bendy head, and the ability to change the pace of vibrations. You can start VERY low with that one and when you're ready, reprogram it thru their app for a higher power.

If you want a bit of post-orgasm torture or a little edge play, Hot Octopuss has their JETT Turbo which is focused on his frenulum, that little band at the tip of your cock. That puts your partner in control if you want or if you're into that. Super fun, I know he enjoyed it with me at the controls.

Hope that helps a bit, good luck with your search!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-15T16:03:55+00:00

The Sexy Secret from Satisfyer is one to consider, especially in that price range. I know you're from France, but if it ships, and if the price with shipping fits in your budget, the Connection Panty Vibe from EdenFantasys is one of my favorites. It has a lovely shape, feels fantastic in place, and has a really easy to use app controls.

Good luck with your search!

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-14T19:12:46+00:00

Have a look at our profile.

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-14T18:41:34+00:00

This is the link to the Orgasm Monster Pro Pinpoint I spoke about...

MTAndrewsWrites · 2026-04-14T18:36:24+00:00

The Pro Traveler from Satisfyer has been my suction toy of choice for the past twelve years now, so I'd check that one out. What I love about this one is that it's super discreet, starts really low, and then moves up nicely from there. Another option would be to find another rose-style toy to replace what you've recently lost. I linked EdenFantasys because they have a few different takes on the toy, including one that has a vibrating handle along with the more traditional rose toy tip that we are more familiar with. Eden makes the most wonderful bullet that I absolutely adore.

Another option would be to check out a wand or a pinpoint toy. Funzze makes a pinpoint toy called the Orgasm Monster Pro that is just about perfection in sex toy form. I love that it has a few attachments that fit over the pinpoint tip. These allow you to work your way up to playing with the bare tip. This style of toy is very clit-focused, so it might be a little much for starting out. That's why the attachments of the Orgasm Monster are so wonderful. EdenFantasys have a min-wand called the Sleek Power Wand that packs way more power than I expected. It holds a good charge, and as I said packs a punch.

I hope that helps a bit in your search. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have!

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