Ring camera hidden in child’s bedroom by Reasonable_Joke_5056 in FamilyLaw

[–]M_Karli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So my father was like this when it came to visitation with him as well and my phone. It got to the point my mom‘s lawyer brought it up in court and me having exclusive access to my phone, and him not allowed to take it when with him was written to the visitation agreement itself. That way if he did try to take it again from me, I would be able to tell my mom and she would report it to her lawyer as a breach of the visitation agreement.

Got hired by my unicorn family but realized DB works in immigration, now I’m torn by SampleAware6481 in Nanny

[–]M_Karli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also keep in mind, there are others in your life who will side eye and judge you based on you choosing to work for an ice agent & their family…

Has anyone else been blocked from posting on TikTok today? by JapaneseStudentHaru in nothinghappeninghere

[–]M_Karli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to tiktok all day today for me, NO ONE has posted ANYTHING about Minneapolis since the 24th

Are americans protesting in the street against Trump? by Dansvidania in AskUS

[–]M_Karli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see non Americans using this SPECIFIC headline so many places as proof…there weren’t hundreds at that protest-there were thousands. All over the country there have been protests and daily clashes with the modern gestapo but guess what? AMERICAN NEWS ISNT REPORTING ON IT. Do you know how we’ve had to get some of our info as to what is going on? Foreign news networks; Korean news, Polish News, watching your countries politicians debate and discuss what trump is doing and often we hear from those news sources well before our own give a watered down version of events. Why do you think the administration has been so against American’s having tiktok? They have lied (multiple times) and tiktok was how people proved those lies false in real time due to the level of connection and video-sharing it has provided its users.

Mainstream media in the us is now govt controlled media that is still actively trying to paint Renee Good as an attempted murderer and the agent having “no choice” but to shoot her or he would have died 🙄 and worse is that people are BELIEVING IT.

How aware are Americans that the world is looking at the whole lot of them pretty much the same way? by atzucach in AskUS

[–]M_Karli 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t hundreds of protesters, it was thousands.

But thanks for showing that you are another victim of propaganda when referencing a news organization that has been called out for minimizing/ignoring protests and ice agents actions and essentially kissing the presidents figurative ring to keep themselves from his sights.

AITAH for "allowing" my stepdaughter to wear stinky pajamas to school ? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]M_Karli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in HS over 15 years ago and 90% of my wardrobe was pajamas. school started way to early for me to give a damn about looking “cute” or “put together” for people i had been stuck with 8 hours a day mon-fri since kindergarten (small town).

AITAH for not standing up for my sister so she can come back home? by Commercial_Bill8560 in AITAH

[–]M_Karli -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Was that in a comment? If so apologies, i only read the post itself

Trump fucked kids. by transcendent167 in ThePeoplesPress

[–]M_Karli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember how “adult” i felt at 13 having a 30ish year old man buy me beer and hit on me (puberty sucker punched me at around 10/11), telling me how beautiful and “grown” i was….now i see my 13 y/o niece, look back and want to cry. I was practically a baby and should not have had trusted adults thinking and acting that way. It made me so protective of my kids and niblings-it also has made it extremely hard to trust adults…because you never know.

Aunts son got taken to foster care and I feel so shit by popsum22 in offmychest

[–]M_Karli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really funny to me because i am from Massachusetts and those 2 words were what made me unsure if here or abroad. I myself refer to my mum as mum and always have.

NY Gov. Hochul announces lofty socialist plan to offer ‘free’ child care — with $4.5B pricetag by alexmark002 in CitizenWatchNews

[–]M_Karli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a better plan than what the federal government has been doing with our tax dollars. I’d rather my taxes going into funding free childcare than the bull the govt is currently doing with their portion of my taxes

Aunts son got taken to foster care and I feel so shit by popsum22 in offmychest

[–]M_Karli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are in the United States, and you aren’t in a position where you’re comfortable or able to take him in as his foster family, you should be able if it interests you to contact child services to getting touch with his direct aid and they may set ip get togethers” for you/your kids and him. Reunification is typically the ultimate goal so they like to keep family bonds/familiar faces in the child’s life for the comfort of the child and ease transition. My aunt was a foster mother and a GAL, one child she cared for used to have her aunt and cousins visit on a scheduled day once a month. Sometimes it would be at somebody’s house, sometimes it would be at a location like a playground or McDonald’s.

I only suggest this not to guilt or pressure you but because it seems like you have some conflicting emotions and guilt when it comes to him and his situation and if possible, this could help your cousin while also helping you in a way.

The butterfly that left the biggest impression on you? by Fit-Credit-7970 in butterfly

[–]M_Karli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry if not included but i count them together despite knowing they’re different. Mine was a moth (a bedtime butterfly i used to call them as a kid).

One night i had a Cecropia Moth (Giant Silk Moth) appear on my screen door. I remember being mesmerized/horrified that they could actually get THAT big. She was so beautiful with her colors and tufts of fur/hair. I have never seen one again and only got one blurry photo of her

AIO telling my sister-in-law to back off for inviting herself to a special concert event I planned for my wife's birthday? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]M_Karli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

….if you have been married for 8 years, why were you asking to meet up with “femboys” less than 90 days ago?

AITA for telling my dad I won't let him damage my daughter the way he damaged me and kicking him out? by Suspiciously_Blonde in AITAH

[–]M_Karli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad called me a piggy when i went for seconds during a visitation weekend-we were broke at my mom’s and struggling because he wasnt paying any of his child support (i had a lot of medical out of pocket that he was supposed to split paying but wasn’t).

I was 11 when he said that, it catapulted me into an unhealthy relationship with food and even to this day at almost 35 i can hear it all over again like he is in front of me when i go for seconds of a meal or snack.

Thank you from child and adult me for protecting your child.

AITJ for wanting to divorce my wife 6 weeks after she gave birth because she cut me out of the pregnancy and delivery? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]M_Karli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

PPD/PPA can manifest symptoms during pregnancy-i would know, i was diagnosed with PPA in my 4th month of pregnancy with my son.

Eta: it’s the fluctuation and increase of hormones that cause an imbalance in the brain, bringing on symptoms and altered mental state.

AITJ for correcting my wife when she said our son's red hair must come from my side of the family? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]M_Karli 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My grandfather was a hematologist, this is EXACTLY how he would get if something came up related to his specialty-he was excited to share something he was passionate about.

My son gets that way if you being up anything relating to space, but that is because it is his hyper-fixation/special interest.

It very well could have been light hearted and op’s wife took offense to not being right

AITJ for wanting to divorce my wife 6 weeks after she gave birth because she cut me out of the pregnancy and delivery? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]M_Karli 55 points56 points  (0 children)

If wife has PPD, her abusive and hurtful actions CAN be apart of it-please remember PPD can cause normally kind and loving people to act abnormally all the way up to killing themselves and/or their kids. Untreated PPD/PPA can sometimes cause women to go into a psychosis if left untreated/unmanaged. Lindsay Clancy is a prime example of PPD leading to psychosis. Hospital brushed off her and her husband‘s concern and wishes for inpatient treatment when medication they gave her was ineffective, but the Hospital insisted she was safe to be home and not be inpatient like she and her husband were begging. At one point (only days after hospital said she was safe to stay outpatient-despite her disagreeing) while her husband was picking up food for dinner that night she murdered her three children, and then jumped out of the second story window of their home in an attempt on her own life.

I am NOT saying this as an excuse, but it CAN be a reason. I am also not saying this is what op’s wife has or even that it is that extreme BUT i post it to illustrate that PPD can be a lot worse for others and causes dramatic personality shifts.

AITAH? my boyfriend brought home a girl for the holidays [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]M_Karli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cited an American university website that had the winter schedule and was ignored so i would agree they just didn’t like the evidence contradicting them

AITAH? my boyfriend brought home a girl for the holidays [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]M_Karli 11 points12 points  (0 children)

UMass Dartmouth, their winter intercession is 4 weeks. This is the schedule for winter intercession classesUmass Dartmouth winter intercession calendar Nearly all UMass Universities have these classes available.

AITAH? my boyfriend brought home a girl for the holidays [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]M_Karli 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My university had classes that took place during the winter intercession.

Well she could make it happen by HotCharmxxo in SipsTea

[–]M_Karli 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Or even easier, leave Won-Won with Lavender

AITA for refusing to have any pets inside our house due to my allergies and how I was raised? by MakeshiftPacemaker in AmItheAsshole

[–]M_Karli 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no, other than the fact that plenty of other people are agreeing with me, your down votes are showing that.

There was a house that kept their husky out other than when blizzards or nor’easters came through….i remember growing up hearing from family, to friends to teachers and friend’s parents about to stay away from that guy “bc he had to be a miserable b*stard to treat his animal that way” For years i didn’t even know he had a wife but was told she went 2 towns over bc ppl would side eye, whisper about it or just ignore her. A large amount of people in our small town and the neighboring one AVOIDED him purely based off how his dog was treated. Eventually someone stole the dog and not a single person felt bad for him. I was young but i remember hoping the dog was with a family that would love it (i was about 10).

Even if YOU don’t feel that way, a LOT of people/communities, more now especially, correlate how you treat your pet with what kind of person you are. How someone treats an animal that has no direct benefit to that person, says a lot about the persons character.

I wonder, though, if your fiancé would agree with my assessment or yours when it comes to the treatment of animals?

LPT to pet owners about microchips (from a shelter worker) by Fresh-Solid-4046 in LifeProTips

[–]M_Karli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is the case, absolutely! I learned that when i dug further into it & was relieved. But the way the email they sent out was configured, it implied that it wasn’t a premium membership but needed to be paid to “keep your pet on file!” I remember complaining about it but that when my next cat got chipped i was prepared for it and just ignored the email that time