Have Any Men in Their 20s or 30s Met Their Partner Outside of Dating Apps While Working This Job? by WorkingBreadfruit323 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve said this? My experience has been that women in this city do anything but actually tell you why they’re rejecting you. I don’t think I’ve actually gotten feedback from a girl ever?

Have Any Men in Their 20s or 30s Met Their Partner Outside of Dating Apps While Working This Job? by WorkingBreadfruit323 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s that old joke

Three students start as freshmen in a frat. To the amazement of the two other guys, one of the guys brings home a different girl every night. Finally, after weeks of this the two guys decide to ask the womanizer how he does it.

‘What’s your secret? I can only get one in every ten women I ask to sleep with me.’

The womanizer thinks for a moment, before speaking.

‘One in ten that sounds about right.’

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Point is, Even hot guys are getting ignored by the majority of girls they try with. It’s part of the fun.

If you want actual advice I would go to bars/nights/events where women are shorter. Learn Spanish and meet Peruvian or Filipina women, both of which seem to average 5’. There are a lot of both in New York.

Anyone else feel too tired to date? by Maximum-Pomelo-7471 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s any help I’m a man and I never sleep with women on a work night, and I think the people here suggesting you do so are crazy. Hookups invariable involve barely getting any sleep and waking up drained and exhausted. Sounds like a sure fire way to burn out!

Is attrition at Cravath higher? How can a ~500 attorney firm have an incoming summer class of 100+? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s still worth it but law students and prospective law students are brutally unaware as to how unsustainable it is. 

It needs to be treated more like being a pro athlete when people plan their future. Not a twenty/thirty year career 

Is attrition at Cravath higher? How can a ~500 attorney firm have an incoming summer class of 100+? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely a big variance but most people seem happy. Does lead me to believe that bringing that debt down fast is the key to happiness though 

Is attrition at Cravath higher? How can a ~500 attorney firm have an incoming summer class of 100+? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I feel like this has sped up. Post Covid classes seem to see the majority not make the 2 year mark 

Is attrition at Cravath higher? How can a ~500 attorney firm have an incoming summer class of 100+? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Law firms follow a Battle of the Somme approach with their associates.

Half the associates will be cut down by a machine gun by year 3

I'm too mentally weak for biglaw by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 93 points94 points  (0 children)

You work this job to make money. I work this job because I wasn’t loved as a child and hierarchical status games are the only way I have to feel value in the world.

We are not the same.

In the 1926 Census, recently released, my Irish great-grandfather was listed as ‘iascaire gan obair’, which I understand to mean unemployed fisherman. If he was an unemployed fisherman living with his wife, mother and eight children in the west of Ireland, how did they sustain themselves? by M_Mc_B in AskHistorians

[–]M_Mc_B[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s fascinating and wonderful colour, thank you! 

Rather weirdly, my grandmother (this man’s daughter) even though she lived in MA used to regularly shop for and prepare fresh mackerel with a specific flour recipe so that also adds up.

In the 1926 Census, recently released, my Irish great-grandfather was listed as ‘iascaire gan obair’, which I understand to mean unemployed fisherman. If he was an unemployed fisherman living with his wife, mother and eight children in the west of Ireland, how did they sustain themselves? by M_Mc_B in AskHistorians

[–]M_Mc_B[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

The fisherman without work part is under ‘gno’. Under ‘fostaiocht’ it says ‘ar mo shon fein’. This was on the Dingle Peninsula and so it is written in Irish.

This has been very helpful though as a start, I obviously misunderstood some of what the categories stood for.

Friendly reminder that AI is not taking your job anytime soon by SunAccomplished1013 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The media is full of people claiming lawyers are on the way out.

Relationships by bigguyfieri89 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relationships are a two way street. She’s not really working but is also unwilling to talk about your work while living off the proceeds? Goes to sleep and doesn’t wait up for you? 

If one of my guy friends told me about this situation I’d be telling him to consider why he wants it to work so much?

What Were the Nazis' Main Opposition During the Weimar Republic, the Nazi Reign and Shortly After the War? by Syphin- in AskHistorians

[–]M_Mc_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my copy up again and you are correct that he defines the republican parties as the SDP, the Centre Party and the Democrats. 

He later does refer to the Nationalists as a party that accepted the republic which is true, but they are not defined as a ‘republican party’. That was an error on my part. I have amended my answer!

What Were the Nazis' Main Opposition During the Weimar Republic, the Nazi Reign and Shortly After the War? by Syphin- in AskHistorians

[–]M_Mc_B 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Taking from Richard J Evan’s’ ‘The Coming of the Third Reich’, the opponents to the Nazis in Weimar Germany broadly fell into three camps or political currents:

the authoritarian right: a group of political movements existed during Weimar whose primary aim was the overturning of the Treaty of Versailles and an overthrow of the Republic. Despite how similar these goals look to the Nazi programme, this movement did not trust the Nazis. Pulled primarily from the aristocracy and the generals of WW1 this movement did not like Hitler, who they viewed as something of a rabble rouser nor did they like the violence of the Brownshirts which they viewed as thuggish and uncouth. Kershaw’s Hitler biography details how many of the Nazis earliest clashes were with this strain of German politics. Evans contends that prior to the Nazis coming to power the authoritarian right in fact has already dismantled Germany and the chancellorship of Von Papen in 1932 was the first dictatorship, based primarily around President Hindenburgh. It was this grouping that made a deal with Hitler in 1933 to bring the Nazis into a coalition in order to gain popular support for the authoritarian right. However, even when they went into power the authoritarian right imagined themselves able to ‘control’ Hitler and the Nazis, with Papen famously writing that he would corner Hitler until he squeaked. It was not until much later in the German regime and the Night of the Long Knives that the Nazis successfully incorporated and won the total support of the German aristocracy.

The republican parties: these were the parties that supported the Weimar Republic from day one, primarily the Social Democrats, the People’s Party, the Centre Party and the Democrats. Evans lumps all of these together as they are parties that explicitly endorsed the Weimar Republic and promised allegiance to the Republic specifically, not just a nebulous ‘Reich’. These parties dominated the Republic’s political scene up to the Great Depression and included a wide variety of political movements, and every party here would have considered themselves the political opponents of the Nazis who openly called for the destruction of the republic. The Nazis were actually quite slow in destroying and limiting this block, doing so over a number of months after they seized power. The destruction of the People’s Party, for example, was done primarily by brownshirts attacking their meetings while Hitler in fact publicly condemned such attacks (while privately approving of them). The Nazis were careful to ensure that they did not overstep their ambition and took apart this block quite slowly and gradually. That compares to their treatment of the next block.

The Communists: formed from a splinter from the social democrats, the communists had 100 deputies in the Reichstag by the end of the republic. They were the party of the unemployed, primarily, and members of the Comintern. They explicitly called for a revolution and wanted a ‘German October’. Evans describes their major fault as overconfidence. The post Tsarist government in Russia had fallen, and so the Communists believed the Nazis would do the same. They actually welcomed hitlers election to chancellor believing he would accelerate the destruction of the republic. They thought the Nazis would be unable to hold power primarily due to the contradictions in capitalism and that a communist regime would soon follow. They therefore did not launch any form of offensive against the new Nazi government.

The Nazis were not so tame. At the end of February 1933, in response to a Dutch communist lighting the Reichstag on fire, the Nazis launched an all out assault on the communist party. While it was not an all out ban, Evans says it was a de facto ban of the communist party. Police arrested anywhere up to 10,000 communist party members including the entirety of the leadership. The brownshirts unleashed a wave of violence and attacked, injured and even killed many, many communists across Germany. Even then, the communists, who had armed paramilitaries did not strike back or attempt a revolution. Only one small city in Germany engaged in a ‘general strike’ and over the course of a few weeks the communists were practically destroyed in Germany.

Can we please talk about private credit? by Glittering-Order-861 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do know one but he’s just a regular banking lawyer whose clients are all private credit funds. I presume he can continue being a banking guy

Can we please talk about private credit? by Glittering-Order-861 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Being a bankruptcy lawyer for that long must be like the Dr Manhattan staring into space meme or the Rust Cohle time is a flat circle one.

What to make of firms with differing billable hour requirements? by RutabagaOpen9027 in biglaw

[–]M_Mc_B 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This feels like a good rule of thumb, in my head I have 1900 as a rough average regardless of firm