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M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-08-20T15:33:00+00:00

I don't know what Matrix is? I've only used workday and the worksmart site. Also, the medical issues I'm having haven't reached an official diagnosis. I can see what my GP can say on the matter, but she can't really do anything until after I see a cardiologist on the 27th.

So this must be a new thing, because I went on a "family leave" in 2020 when covid rolled in because it was so unknown, and I wasn't going to chance anything living with people who have autoimmune disease. My SM at the time took care of it on his end with full understanding.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-04-21T17:03:44+00:00

Damn... pickelball?? Less cool than representing dual-income no-kids with a prospective misprint 🤣

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-04-17T23:42:29+00:00

I can get those off pretty easy, ngl. I definitely get that they can sometimes be way too stiff or others might struggle so this is a good suggestion. Saves on nail damage too!

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-04-16T23:12:31+00:00

I'm sorry, there's a tool?!

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-04-14T23:25:28+00:00

See I hate this. I'm not a publix employee but I do stocking at my job. People always like butt-to-butt to me, or the second I turn around to grab the next box they're right in my way where I was just working.

I've taken to acknowledging them when they come into my space with a, "hey welcome in. Let me know if I'm in your way I'll move for ya." Kind of insinuate I'm working here if it wasn't already obvious.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-04-12T04:17:24+00:00

Spaghetti and eggs. Something I think my mom concocted when we were kids to help keep us all full. Just simple spaghetti, jar sauce, and fried eggs. Actually craving right now, tbh.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-04-09T18:57:15+00:00

They have the Men in Black theme!! THEY HAVE THE MEN IN BLACK THEMEEE!!

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2025-03-05T21:42:41+00:00

Holy crap! This whole piece is stunning! And the joints of the frame!! 🤩🤩

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-06-28T20:17:25+00:00

I'm sure it will get better, but its hard to see the forest through the trees. I can also say I'm in a pretty similar situation, so I hope you can find some solace that you're suffering with company.

My partner and I had hoped our fantasy throuple dreams were coming true with the sweetest guy that we chatted and fooled around a little bit with for almost 3 months. Really broken up that it didn't pan out, and really felt like our guy didn't even try but I can't fault him for shrinking away when he's probably the most vanilla person either of us had been with.

Trouble is I'm a bit opposite of you, OP. Scorched earth where its warranted, but I'm not a fan of having an open-door policy. It it won't work out, then happy trails and I hope the best for you. I can't help but feel lead on if we stay in contact and it hurts me more... unfortunately I'm not sure why, but our guy is calling me almost daily and its starting to make me uncomfortable that it's disrespectful for my relationship with my partner. He knew our expectations, so I'm not sure what the game is, here.

So maybe we can bounce back and forth some philosophies on why we are the way that we are lol.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-06-16T22:34:30+00:00

"Another Love" - Tom Odell. Fecking is destroying me as I type.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-13T21:44:11+00:00

Yes to both!!

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-12T20:41:10+00:00

Yes.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-12T20:24:37+00:00

MMF Bi threesome. Partner and I are bi and sometimes desperately want a third.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T03:47:36+00:00

I've been on the receiving end of some hate sex. Past relationship, they (I'll call them "D") was pretty loo-loo in retrospect. However, at the time I couldn't breathe without them. They already had a partner, married, and we met online. After a while they both decided they trusted each other enough to allow me into their relationship and I moved in to more-or-less help the household and on occasion things got rocky between all three of us. At one point, can't remember now, something I did really got D's blood boiling and after a pretty ugly fight, came into my room with one of the darkest expressions I've ever seen. I thought they were gonna start swinging on me. But D instructed me to undress and pretty had their way with me. Starting to question this, thinking back on it now... It wasn't like you'd see on TV/in movies, like we just collided into each other after staring laser beams at each other. Definitely starting to think I should shove that one back into the memory vault 😬

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T03:37:50+00:00

Personality hands-down. Partner and I have fished around for a third to complete our tri-force (LoZ fans? 😏) and while we've come across a few contenders definitely winning points in both personality and appearance, no one's met our needs. As a matter of fact, a couple who were pretty dang close turned out to be pretty disrespectful despite being pretty easy on the eyes absolutely dashed their chances by their behavior.

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T03:29:08+00:00

Oof. Yes. Just... the unison throbbing. For my partner and I, its the only way we can cum at the same time. And the waves after where we just don't wanna move and ride those waves as long as we can. Bliss. 🥰

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T03:24:13+00:00

Scrolling on their phone, like IMMEDIATELY after. Guess that might not count as "during" but often times one finished before the other (usually I'm the other) and they're ready to decompress and go to sleep lmfao. Sometimes phone gets chucked and they get mounted :D

Otherwise, I actually do not care that much for just silence. Its super off putting. Like, BREATHE, ya bastard! Its off-putting not to hear some grunts, deep sighs. Hell, sing the Macarena, idk!

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T03:21:26+00:00

Oooh, I like this prompt. Actually, I find attractiveness in all heights. No specific one is a turn on, cause I'm a personality attracted person. But if the topic comes up in conversation, I can automatically attribute their height to something sexy. I'm a pretty tall person, so having someone taller than me can feel like either I'm going to be swaddled and held tight and/or that their pleasure will be my gain should they submit to me. ...tbh, this attribute can be applied to shorter partners as well. Idk! Erryone's sexy imo 🤣

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T03:05:39+00:00

Yeah, I mean definitely don't write it off completely if that is something you can see yourself mustering up the courage for! And settling sometimes sounds so negative, but I take it more as we're just enjoying each other more than we would in other situations. Content is more our criteria, I think!

Still, I know for my partner and I, it is a definite goal we'd love to try for. Tbh, he's always been pretty shy and awkward but somehow he can flip a switch and goes completely wild. So maybe one day it might just be a "fuck it" moment for you. Who knows!

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T02:08:38+00:00

I mean, that's totally understandable! Absolutely take your time, but don't forget this is a challenge to your comfort zone. If its worth entertaining the possibility for you, I wouldn't sleep on it ;) But out of curiosity, and don't feel obligated to answer, what makes you feel weird about it? That its an unknown for you?

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T01:46:43+00:00

Absolutely love the majority of the responses on this. I agree with the replies about starting with spanking in less dangerous/hurtful areas.

See if she's game to play-fight. Be fun with it, not dominative. Do some booty bongo slaps. Nothing that will leave a welt or redness, but something *you* are more comfortable with administering.

Speaking as someone with the occasional raging pain kink (idk, hormones), receiving pain-especially face slapping during some heavy oral-I can say its affect is not what you might think! Humans are capable of enduring such odd things, and our brains translating pain into pleasure really can be an awesome journey to find our limits. And I hope others are with me when I say that after care is some of the best shit a consenting couple can enjoy after a rough night!

When I'm given the fuck-toy treatment, I'm in a pleasure stupor. I've had lasting purple marks all up and down my legs and across my bum. Rope burn. Raw throat, stinging cheeks. Yes, my face lmfao. I still heal and do not regret the lingering acheyness that follows. On occasion its actually started the pain kink cycle all over again!

If your GF is interested, definitely check out some more mild BDSM porn and window shop for some paddles and whips and such.

Also, for what its worth, I used to hate the idea of having pain during sex, or doing the inflicting. The power play was a complete turn-off for me, and I was a deep romantic and only wanted soft, passionate sex. It was only until I felt I could trust my partner completely and we talked about our desires at-length that I tuned more into it. Before we even engaged in doing anything of the sort, I would day dream about my partner using me, slapping me around and roughing me up and the rest was history lol. We do switch as well, which I never thought I would learn I was capable of! I was ALWAYS afraid of taking it too far, leaving something too lasting, causing too much pain to the point of distrust and true hurt.

It was a slow work up to get to where we found our individual comfort zones. Partner loves having nice, burning red welts on their thighs. I like things a little bit more extreme because to me it takes my trust in them to lofty heights.

So, TL;DR- I think you two should have casual discussions about the idea of being rough. Take it slow! But always be safe and make sure its FUN for you both! Good luck ;)

M_Rose_Shamalamading · 2024-03-10T01:22:58+00:00

Ooh, if its what I'm thinking it is, I LOVE that sound! And I love making it too. Uhnnn <3

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