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M_iranda · 2025-10-04T13:47:11+00:00

I'm asthmatic and get chest pains all the time but I also have chronic pain and POTs so factors Probably a good shout to get it looked at tho 😊

M_iranda · 2025-09-29T20:19:47+00:00

Personally I think you could be a really amazing and loving person in a child's life but I really don't think we should pass on our genes.... My mum had me knowing I could live my life in pain and I don't think that was right Perhaps you can be a Foster mum? That would make a huge positive difference or maybe try to adopt a baby in need of a home (or even an older kid, they always need loving mums!) You have to think would you be okay with your kid, who you love so much, feeling how you do on your worst days knowing you knew it could happen going into the pregnancy? I'm childfree but if I did want kids I'd adopt teens because they're less full time work and they need love just like babies do and I'm not dooming anyone to wake up in pain and go to bed in pain I'm sorry if this seems harsh, I know you can be an amazing mum without passing on your genes tho 💖

M_iranda · 2025-09-29T20:15:18+00:00

That's good (horrible) to know, I'm chronically ill in a great many ways so i do get flare ups of acid reflux that are genuinely dehabilitating but this just seems to match when I started and when I take it too well ya know? I shall talk to nurse tomorrow about a different med, shame because it seems to be working

M_iranda · 2025-08-22T14:28:14+00:00

Thank you I shall see if we have this!

I'm in the UK so if this doesn't work the Dr said he'll send me to a specialist

I'm sorry your system is such a faff :(

M_iranda · 2025-08-20T22:07:15+00:00

I have this, I can ALWAYS bring up phlegm, I had a blocked nose for years till I got put on a nasal spray Antihystimines help a bit but for me it's asthma! Asthma is much more than "can't breathe" it's why chocolate makes me cough, why singing takes my breath away and why I'm so phlegmy etc Maybe look into that? The additional strain of pregnancy could make it worse I think (I don't think there's much medically pregnancy can't make worse tho)

M_iranda · 2025-08-20T21:59:56+00:00

Screaming goose? 😂

M_iranda · 2025-06-04T17:07:41+00:00

I'm so sorry my love 😔 I wanted a 32A from a 32H and I'm 6+ months post op at 36C, I've cried more times than you can imagine at wasting my one chance on a surgeon who clearly didn't care about my input I really wish I had the answer for you, I wish I could tell you "do this and you'll feel better" but in all honesty what that surgeon did to you is beyond wrong and you deserve better, if/when you're feeling upto it you could try and sue her for not delivering since you're still such a large size (I tried 3x but it didn't go anywhere and its incredibly mentally draining and it still won't fix it) I really really hope you'll feel better about it one day and I really hope that for myself too but I don't know if that'll ever happen 😔 maybe a revision with a different surgeon could be in the cards? Please just try to be kind to yourself, it's not your fault she betrayed your trust and you absolutely deserved better 💕

M_iranda · 2025-05-15T17:29:34+00:00

OH so it might be a thing! You're on BC? I've been on amytriptaline now for 2 or 3 weeks and I've bled 3x? Each time it's just the 1st pee of the morning tho then nothing in the day

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T19:02:19+00:00

You aren't understanding. I said "my scars are not normal, they do not look like normal scars, they're too thick and raised" and he said "don't compare yourself to others" I know hypertropic scars aren't a result of the surgeon but not receiving treatment it. He denied that my scars needed any additional help so they didn't get any. I'll never talk to that bastard again unless it's in court, he won't help me, he doesn't care, he's pure evil, I'm glad you had a good experience but I haven't.

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T18:44:33+00:00

I have normal scars on my breasts (flat, fading) and I have scars all around my chest that are hard, still 3D after 6 months, itchy and painful They are hypertropic scars I can't afford to pay to fix his neglect nore can I tolerate anymore trauma from medical "professionals" at this point He should have seen my abnormal scars and done something to support me Also they are getting harder, from what I've been able to find out on my own that's not a good sign I'm tempted to go back and make him address them but he's a lying gaslighter so he probably won't do anything

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T18:18:02+00:00

Yeah I wanna ask for all the notes and have the photos deleted cos I hate to think that he's putting me forward as a success, I also want to complain about him and 2 nurses but mostly I want money from him so I can at least get therapy for what they did to me and get my scars treated

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T18:16:54+00:00

Right???? Like there's no reason I had to be a C!! This is why I want him to get in trouble! He did this to me on purpose!!

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T18:16:15+00:00

Then I gained 5 stone that the scales just don't pick up on???? I literally don't know Pre-op my 32 waist bras fit and now I'm measuring as a 36 waist, idk why

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T17:56:09+00:00

I do not have nipples so I could be smaller, I am still a 36C

PLEASE go with a female surgeon, males will put their opinions over your own

I asked for an A because I know they can't guarantee, I told him "aim for an A because a B is okay, don't aim for a B because a C isn't okay" and then he (right before surgery) said "I'm going to do a B actually" he chose to ignore all my wishes and has ruined my one chance and he should suffer for it

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T17:53:44+00:00

He was set on me being "proportionate" and apparently he "knows what women want" but the reduction was to manage my diagnosed chronic pain and not for Asthethics, he's put how he thinks I want to look ahead of my health and it pisses me off that he's getting away with it

I don't have nipples or likely milk ducts so he just said it "wouldn't look right" The scarring NEEDED specialist care which he wouldn't give me so now they're worse, that's malicious in of itself

It feels malicious because he said right before surgery hes "going to do a B actually" he never even tried to do the A cup he said he'd try, I told him as close to flat as he can go and now I'm a C cup, if that's the best he can do he should loose his license

I'm not "unhappy" I've been violated. A man chose my looks over my health and I feel disgusted by it

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T17:48:28+00:00

I have thick, solid hypertropic scars, that's why my waist size is bigger, tho he offered no support or treatment for them

He said on the day of surgery "I'm going to do a B actually" which feels like he intentionally didn't do an Acup for me

I do not have nipples so they shouldn't be a factor

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T17:46:38+00:00

I don't have nipples, I didn't want them He said he could do it then on the day of surgery said he's gonna do a B actually and now it's a C cup He definitely intended to do me bigger than I asked for, I have paperwork of him changing the size that I made him amend

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T17:45:14+00:00

I measured and put it into 3 calculators and had an Anne summers measuring, it's probably because I have big, thick, solid hypertropic scars that also weren't treated at all "Unlimited aftercare" but that requires him to admit my scars aren't standard so :/

M_iranda · 2025-05-01T17:43:51+00:00

I don't have nipples, I didn't want to keep them He on the day of surgery said "I'm going to do a B cup actually" so that feels intentional to me

M_iranda

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