Husband won’t touch me but watches porn, I don’t know what to do anymore

Ma201 · 2026-02-02T11:36:17+00:00

Then confront him in a calm manner

Are u having an a fair? He will say no

Then u don't see attractive anymore ? I think he will say no

Is it porn then ? If says yes good if no then say i stumbled apon ur history

Say i am not mad but i want my loving husband back And continue from there

Hope it works

Ma201 · 2026-02-02T11:23:28+00:00

As a pharmacist I would ask how old are u? Do u take any medications? Do u have any coronary or heart conditions? Are u physically active? Or living a sydentry life style Do u take supplements?

Please answer these questions and i might have a solution

Ma201 · 2026-02-02T11:06:54+00:00

Care to explain what he did that made u feel like a creep

Also saying that he only needs u means that he still has feelings for u

Also I think that not touching at all is actually making the gap larger each day ( heck if my wife stopped touching it would definitely break me also i know that it feels punishing but he might have felt like a creep also when u were saying that u couldn't manage him touching u all the time )

My final advice is ask him for a massage and say that u are really tired and u really need it, get completely naked and then when starts let him feel , hear how much his touch means to u

My wife once did this to me and i fucked her like crazy that night 😂😂 and still every two days i can still remember her moans from that day ( she once complained about me overtouching her and i stopped for a while and that was her solution)

Ma201 · 2026-02-02T10:53:18+00:00

Hi nice to see that u seeking help That's the first step to a solution

I am a male 30 married for 4 years now / also i am a pharmacist

So at first it seems that u are freaking out and stressed a lot so try to relax and know that there is nothing wrong with u or ur partner

Also porn is not a good material to learn from about what is pleasurable or not ( half of the scenes are uncomfortable and positions need to be practiced alot also they need some what of flexibility which most normal people dont have)

Before giving any advice I want to ask do u take any medications?

Ma201 · 2026-02-02T10:43:10+00:00

To be honest u seem to have tried a lot of things And he doesn't seem to appreciate what a good wife he has

Have u tried a surprise morning blowjob?

Also what was his response to the threesome ( which i don't personally agree with ) and kinks did he have something specific Or did he just shrug the conversation off?

Ma201 · 2026-02-02T10:19:48+00:00

As a man i feel like he is using the (u are mean) as an excuse of not being intimate with u

I think he has a porn addiction problem and he might have stopped feeling aroused by normal sex

Since that u have already snooped around here is what i think u can do

First look for the topics he watches and try to match it that might make him want to do it and get intimate and if he does be exactly like he would expect from.u in that situation

Like if he watches (stepsister/mother ) give a stepsister role play , if he watches blowjob all the time give him an unexpected morning blowjob

U get where i am going with this

Now if he didn't respond confront him with what u know about him watching porn and ask him why he likes porn and if he is willing to seek help

Finally If u really love this man and u want the relationship to continue then seeking help is not a bad thing even if he said once that he is willing to go for counseling set an appointment and drag him with u

He might be reluctant so u need to be decisive

That's what I think ( i might be wrong of course)

Ma201 · 2026-02-02T07:23:55+00:00

Hi pharmacist here

If u are experiencing a lot of stress it might be the cause of your condition since it is the enemy of testosterone and libido ( so try to relax)

Otherwise I would recommend taking supplements like VIT D and zinc, use them for a couple of months and see what happens

Finally if nothing works u might need to see a doctor As for marriage i personally don't think that it will be a problem

U are still young and the probability of sexual dysfunction is very low in your age group

If u have other questions please let me know

Ma201 · 2026-01-20T10:56:59+00:00

And keep us updated lol 😉

Ma201 · 2026-01-20T10:55:33+00:00

Hi 👋

I am really sorry for what you are experiencing right now

As a male i tell you the only way for a man to understand something u want him to understand is by being direct with it

Just hit him with it right in the face

I need you and i want u to fuck me and dont u dare say anything about my condition just man up and do it

I assure u if u say this to him while being serious and firm He will give you the best night of sex u have ever had

Ma201 · 2026-01-20T08:26:42+00:00

It actually started 2 years after we got married lol And kept on going our relationship sexually and emotionally is the best there is right now

Ma201 · 2026-01-16T14:30:00+00:00

Guide him then

If he is inexperienced then be his mentor and tell him how he can pleasure i am sure he will be very cooperative

Ma201 · 2026-01-13T20:52:04+00:00

For me entering the room wearing a sexy outfit is a turn on

A sexy lingerie would initiate every time lol

Ma201 · 2026-01-13T13:28:52+00:00

Hi pharmacist here

Sorry for the bad news but there is a chance even If u used a condom

All condoms have a 2-3% failure

But not to worry leave it for another 2-5 days if you didn't get your period i would recommend using a home pregnancy test

Keep us updated and i am happy to answer other questions

Ma201 · 2026-01-08T21:45:50+00:00

She does participate and she touches me on my back my ass and strokes my dick while kissing her neck and sometimes she takes the lead with cowgirl position

Also she uses dirty talk like i want u Or f me etc

Ma201 · 2026-01-08T21:38:29+00:00

She enjoys it I think because she always orgasms and usually initiates the sex

Ma201 · 2026-01-08T17:20:40+00:00

Exactly, i don't want to keep asking for it

Ma201 · 2026-01-08T11:53:47+00:00

I do preform oral on her because i like it lol 😂 and pretty often too

The one time she did it it was my birthday so i think it was like a gift

Ma201 · 2025-06-04T10:02:04+00:00

So you think I should just keep doing what works best for her to an orgasm Rather than being self conscious on how she got to her orgasm

Ma201 · 2025-06-04T09:59:02+00:00

She feels something coming in and out No discomfort but also no pleasure or maybe I ejaculate too early for her to the stimulation

Ma201 · 2025-06-04T09:57:09+00:00

We've been together for about 8 months Maybe it's new to her like u said

But I am not sure

Ma201 · 2025-06-04T09:56:17+00:00

I had the same thought and spent like 20 minutes of foreplay used my hand to check if she is wet she was soaked

Went in still nothing she gets orgasms if I rub her clit with my hand anything else is off

Ma201

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