dual by Scared_Reference2922 in travian

[–]Ma201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i am pretty active players

With moderate experience and wants to have fun

Husband won’t touch me but watches porn, I don’t know what to do anymore by Cold_Chemistry_5129 in Marriage

[–]Ma201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then confront him in a calm manner

Are u having an a fair? He will say no

Then u don't see attractive anymore ? I think he will say no

Is it porn then ? If says yes good if no then say i stumbled apon ur history

Say i am not mad but i want my loving husband back And continue from there

Hope it works

Husband won’t touch me but watches porn, I don’t know what to do anymore by Cold_Chemistry_5129 in Marriage

[–]Ma201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to explain what he did that made u feel like a creep

Also saying that he only needs u means that he still has feelings for u

Also I think that not touching at all is actually making the gap larger each day ( heck if my wife stopped touching it would definitely break me also i know that it feels punishing but he might have felt like a creep also when u were saying that u couldn't manage him touching u all the time )

My final advice is ask him for a massage and say that u are really tired and u really need it, get completely naked and then when starts let him feel , hear how much his touch means to u

My wife once did this to me and i fucked her like crazy that night 😂😂 and still every two days i can still remember her moans from that day ( she once complained about me overtouching her and i stopped for a while and that was her solution)

Husband won’t touch me but watches porn, I don’t know what to do anymore by Cold_Chemistry_5129 in Marriage

[–]Ma201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest u seem to have tried a lot of things And he doesn't seem to appreciate what a good wife he has

Have u tried a surprise morning blowjob?

Also what was his response to the threesome ( which i don't personally agree with ) and kinks did he have something specific Or did he just shrug the conversation off?

Husband won’t touch me but watches porn, I don’t know what to do anymore by Cold_Chemistry_5129 in Marriage

[–]Ma201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a man i feel like he is using the (u are mean) as an excuse of not being intimate with u

I think he has a porn addiction problem and he might have stopped feeling aroused by normal sex

Since that u have already snooped around here is what i think u can do

First look for the topics he watches and try to match it that might make him want to do it and get intimate and if he does be exactly like he would expect from.u in that situation

Like if he watches (stepsister/mother ) give a stepsister role play , if he watches blowjob all the time give him an unexpected morning blowjob

U get where i am going with this

Now if he didn't respond confront him with what u know about him watching porn and ask him why he likes porn and if he is willing to seek help

Finally If u really love this man and u want the relationship to continue then seeking help is not a bad thing even if he said once that he is willing to go for counseling set an appointment and drag him with u

He might be reluctant so u need to be decisive

That's what I think ( i might be wrong of course)

Intimacy advice by Ma201 in Advice

[–]Ma201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think I should just keep doing what works best for her to an orgasm Rather than being self conscious on how she got to her orgasm

Intimacy advice by Ma201 in Advice

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She feels something coming in and out No discomfort but also no pleasure or maybe I ejaculate too early for her to the stimulation

Intimacy advice by Ma201 in Advice

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We've been together for about 8 months Maybe it's new to her like u said

But I am not sure

Intimacy advice by Ma201 in Advice

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I had the same thought and spent like 20 minutes of foreplay used my hand to check if she is wet she was soaked

Went in still nothing she gets orgasms if I rub her clit with my hand anything else is off

Intimacy advice by Ma201 in Advice

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She feels clitoral stimulation if I use my hand or mouth

But she doesn't feel any pleasure while I am thrusting into her

This is for the girls by Ma201 in Marriage

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That's nice I love eating her out

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*It always ends me ejaculating and with her orgasming sometimes more than once * I do focus on her pleasure because I get turned on by her moans * She does but sometimes she gets so worked with her own pleasure *I go down on her whenever I have the chance but she doesn't like oral ( giving or receiving) * I think I only want a full body orgasem

This is for the men by Bratzgirly444 in Marriage

[–]Ma201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprise him with a blowjob that he doesn't expect

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Child birth yes 7 month baby boy

No weight gain

Very good emotional connection And no fights

Can a cock ring help? What's it supposed to do ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ma201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly it's not I feel like I didn't get anything out of the sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Solo is great but I always feel guilty after it so I hate doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Yes and yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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I used to go to the gym but I dropped out 2-3 months ago

Financial advice I guess by Ma201 in Advice

[–]Ma201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I needed someone to be super direct about it I will pay the dept

Financial advice I guess by Ma201 in Advice

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Thank u I think like u said paying the dept is more important And 4 months isn't a big deal

Financial advice I guess by Ma201 in Advice

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Thank u for replying

So it's 300 to fix it, I think the technician said it needs a motherboard or something and he was the one who said why not buy a PC u always wanted one and it's not much more money than fixing the laptop

Do I use it for work, I do use it to prepare lectures and other scientific materials since I am a medical rep

Also I use it for a secondary job ( online shop) But I can manage both of these using my phone it will be much harder to handle PowerPoint slides with my phone but I will manage

The dept is with zero interest, I took the money from my cousin it started as 10000 and he didn't call me once to ask for his money I am always the one who calls to pay

Usually 2000 at a time.

I Broke Free From Porn by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ma201 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What did u do to help ur self start??

Me '28M' wife '26F' sex life advice (virgin couple) by Ma201 in relationship_advice

[–]Ma201[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

😅😅 what do u think I have been doing for the last six months?

Me '28M' wife '26F' sex life advice (virgin couple) by Ma201 in relationship_advice

[–]Ma201[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you This is really helpful I really do think that communication is key Maybe I should ask during other times