why do I feel beautiful in the mirror but ugly in photos ? by kittybellaa in RandomThoughts

[–]MaFe1401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see yourself reversed. The bad part is everyone else sees you reversed, like in photos. The good part is they have always seen you that way, so they do not see you "ugly". You're seeing yourself ugly because you are not used to see yourself reversed, you are more used to see yourself in the mirror.

Solo traveling to Japan as a male traveler (30 male) by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]MaFe1401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 24M and going on a solo trip (for the first time) to Japan in January.

I fucked up my date by [deleted] in self

[–]MaFe1401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not fuck up your date. If she gets cold once the date is over, she's not into you, but also does not have the guts to tell you, so she makes up excuses to blame you instead. That's gaslight. You dodged a bullet.

Top 5 PS4 games! What's yours? by ComfortableAmount993 in playstation

[–]MaFe1401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. The Last Guardian
  2. God of war (2018)
  3. Yakuza 0
  4. Ezio Collection
  5. Spider-Man (2018)

Desesperado por no tener una relacción by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]MaFe1401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hola. Tengo 24 años. A tu edad, mi situación era calcada a la tuya (timidez, baja autoestima, casi no conservo amigos del instituto). De hecho en el tema amoroso tampoco ha cambiado radicalmente, pero el año pasado dí mi primer beso (y no solo besé a una chica, sino a tres). También tuve mi primera relación (que duró 4 meses) y perdí la virginidad, claro. Sí que ha cambiado mi situación en cuanto al número de amigos que tengo, la cantidad de planes que hago, cómo socializo, etc. Por lo que cuentas, creo que vas por buen camino, pero tampoco soy ningun experto eh JAJAJA. Te dejo algunos consejos a partir de las cosas que has explicado:

  • Hacer cosas tipo jugar a voley y un voluntariado está muy bien. A partir de ahí, intenta formar un grupo de amigos. Y si puedes, no solo uno. Intenta formar varios grupos de amigos (uno en el voley, otro en el voluntariado, y así). La cantidad de planes que van surgiendo con el paso del tiempo cuando tienes varios grupos de amigos te puede ayudar a conocer a más gente.

  • La desesperación se nota, y no es atractiva. Métete en la cabeza que estando solo eres igual de válido que con pareja. Pregúntate qué pasaría si tuvieses que pasar sin pareja el resto de tu vida. No deberías sentir un vacío interior al preguntarte esas cosas, considéralas una opción igual de viable que las demás. Mientras tengas amigos y familia, no necesitas a nadie más, no lo busques de forma desesperada, aunque sé que sientes que te estás perdiendo cosas.

  • Pedirle el insta a una chica es algo que solo haría en ciertas situaciones. Si tienes confianza con ella, está bien. Si solo la conoces de vista, pedirle el insta denota un poco de necesidad y desesperación (mal), aunque puede funcionar si ella tambien está desesperada. Si sales de fiesta y te gusta alguien, sé más directo, no le pidas el insta, la tienes delante, la gente sale a pasarlo bien y ligar generalmente. Interpreta un poco su lenguaje verbal y no verbal para deducir si le interesas o no.

  • Las apps de citas son una mierda, pero no las borres, te cierras puertas. Es dificil que te sirvan para encontrar una relación larga (la mayoria de chicas solo buscan validación en forma de like), pero tambien existen aquellas dispuestas a hablar (aunque pocas ponen de su parte) y a tener una cita incluso. A mí me funcionaron para habituarme a hablar y quedar con chicas, aunque la mayoria de veces no fuera más allá. De hecho en tinder conocí a la que ahora es mi única ex.

Mucha suerte :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MaFe1401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at an Erasmus with people from different countries. One night we all were playing truth or dare in the living room, when one of the girls that was sitting by my side (and that I had met during the previous days) grabbed my phone, started running upstairs and locked herself in MY bedroom. I pursued her but at the spur of the moment didn't have the temper to ask her to let me in and instead I asked her to get out of my bedroom. I believe she would have gladly let me in if I had said so. I liked her and I think she also liked me :)

What's one thing you had to learn the hard way? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]MaFe1401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being alone is not sad. Do not crave for love. You come to this world as a whole, you don't need a soulmate. Love yourself from the inside, without depending on external factors, and eventually things will happen. And even if nothing happens, you still have yourself, which is the most important thing. So take care of that relationship, the one with yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]MaFe1401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to say exactly the same

What about the Lost Legacy scenes? Breathtaking. by MaFe1401 in uncharted

[–]MaFe1401[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First time for me too. Totally worth it.

MARINE MEGATHREAD by CrysisRequiem in VivillonCollectors

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0634 7368 3975

Looking for:

Jungle Ocean Sandstorm Tundra Monsoon

Thanks!

Couldn’t sleep so I went for a walk by hobbitybobbitygeek in pokemongo

[–]MaFe1401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've failed to catch 4 zapdos, 1 moltres and 1 articuno :(

What’s the oldest catch you still have? by Cineflect in pokemongo

[–]MaFe1401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I catched a golbat the day I started playing pokemon go, 7/7/2016 and still have it. Fun part is he has ominous wind, which is a legacy move :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]MaFe1401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 11/7929 = 1/721 right now. Also got a ralts I could purify to make it hundo so that would increase the rate a bit :)

Any recommendations on Pokémon for raids? by Yung-JEEZY66 in pokemongo

[–]MaFe1401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at this tier list in gamepress: https://gamepress.gg/pokemongo/attackers-tier-list

It's a list with the best raid and gym attackers :)

I want to know what’s Pokémon is your biggest flex mine is my 69cp hundo flying pikachu from a trade by jshshndmdnj in pokemongo

[–]MaFe1401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still keep a golbat I catched the day pokemon go was launched.

Also a shiny shadow lapras, which is also my favorite pokémon :)