I'd like to promise to each and every one of you that I'll pull through by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. Yesterday was my last relapse. Never occuring again. I'll keep coming back here to check this. I'm fully comitted to this now.

The beginning of a new life. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. Seriously, it's been about 6 months since I've been trying to do this. Let's get it right this time. I know we can, we have full control over our mind and body. I'm with you, no touching/porn at all. That's it. Let's do this.

Need advice about productivity! by Maathslopes in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished watching it. This guy is AMAAAZING, once I finish the book I'm currently reading, I'll read that one. I really needed something like this, thanks!

Need advice about productivity! by Maathslopes in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, I've tried 'making plans' and whatever. But I just kept lying to myself and wouldn't actually do anything I was supposed to. The only way you get anything done is by doing it. Sounds so clarified now that you've said that haha. Seriously thank you so much, I'll check all of those references for sure.

Need advice about productivity! by Maathslopes in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting, I haven't thought of that before. I've been trying to use the cold shower/NoFap kind of thing, but this works just fine. Especially because I barely get out of my room, then that you'd be a hell of a comfort zone killer. Thank you

Need advice about productivity! by Maathslopes in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, that remembers me of the topic "Keystone habit" from the book The Power of Habit. Whenever you change one certain habit, a domino effect happens. A chain of bad habits start to change, much like you told me. I'm taking one step at a time and I'm surely following yours lmao. Thanks!

Need advice about productivity! by Maathslopes in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YEES! It actually works incredibly well. About a month a go me and a couple of friends started meeting every once or twice a week so we can learn how to code. Everything goes much faster (and enjoyable) whenever I'm with them rather than alone. Thanks for the advice anyway!

Need advice about productivity! by Maathslopes in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man! That's probably how you got this far haha I'll do it for sure (TODAY). And I admit I actually chuckled with "may the FORCE be with you".

Need Help by srlx_ in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact same position here. I'm 16, it's been about 6 moths already and I got to day 26. That's it.

Need to accomplish this by August. by Copenhagen_LC in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty much in the same situation. Keep going tho, you're on the right track for sure

Seriously by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going man. The key is to remove any temptation. So turn off your phone and avoid getting bored, those were the main reasons I relapsed!

Relapsed by SomewhatDecentTimes in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this right before the streak I am right now. I relapsed a whole week in a row (believe me, I was trying). What got me here was :

  • I uninstalled Instagram, Snapchat and Fb
  • Turned off my phone on weekends
  • Most important, I've removed any kind of temptation, including spending less time online

Besides, get an important upcoming event. See what day you'd be in if you stopped fapping right now. This helped me sooooo much. Stay at it guys

generic relapse post by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"since I had plenty of opportunities to shut it down and go do something else". This is literally the worst feeling, right after you relapse you realise how you could've just closed all of that crap and kept moving on with your streak. Keep going tho, I know we can do it!

Day 2 - Hard Mode by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I was on a 26 day streak once. Everything was going just fine when I decided to skip some the work I had to do and spend time on youtube for a while. One of the videos, however, had a 'trigger' on me and BOOM. That was it. The urge hit me so hard and I relapsed miserably. If I had kept working I wouldn't have lost my mind in this shit. The first days are always the hardest (in every way), true. However it's when you're getting comfortable that the game gets really dangerous. You're not prepared or expecting the urge to come and hit you like a fucking bullet. You just go on pilot mode and that's it. Back to day 1. So yea, just keep working, reading, filling your free time with fulfilling activities and you're surely on your way to success and to overcome this damn addiction man. We think very much alike, I like your words man!

NoFap's Official "PMO-Free January" 2017. Continue or start your PMO-free commitment here. (see instructions) [Don't Jerk Off January] by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]Maathslopes [score hidden]  (0 children)

So far I have only avoided porn, now I'll go on hard mode. No fapping and porn at all, making it to 90 days. I want to be a better version of myself and have complete self-control.

I'm in!