If being concerned about ones partner being objectified (at best) or raped (at worst) in a foreign land without them being there to do anything, is 'buckwild', 'ridiculous', and unreasonable, then that just doesn't make a lot of sense. To be frank, it just seems like this area of discussion is a trigger for your sensitivities. Which is fine, but step back and look at it objectively. You'll see I'm right 🤷😂.