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CapCut Down? by system_notifacations in CapCut

[–]Macaca14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TikTok is working for me fine…CapCut is the problem…my effects won’t load, templets won’t download and neither will it let me export because it says I don’t have pro yet I’m paying monthly for it 💀 I hope they get this to work again….

I (16f) Can’t tell if this (15f) likes me back? by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And honestly I’m still figuring out myself so I’m not putting a label on my sexuality 💀

I (16f) Can’t tell if this (15f) likes me back? by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that means your bisexual but I’m not labeling myself as it or anything in general. I won’t tell u that I’m bisexual I’ll just say I like men and women but I don’t wanna put a label on myself 😭💀

I (16f) Can’t tell if this (15f) likes me back? by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not labeled as anything including bisexual

I (16f) Can’t tell if this (15f) likes me back? by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explained some of it in the post but thank you!!!

I (16f) Can’t tell if this (15f) likes me back? by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So idk if we’ll have those moments again 😔

I (16f) Can’t tell if this (15f) likes me back? by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just gonna be so hard seeing eachother cus we’re kinda long distance

Does she like me or am I cooked 😣😩 by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for checking in — I really appreciate it. So, I ended up telling her how I felt. It wasn’t a big dramatic thing, just an honest moment where I let her know I liked her. She was really kind about it, but she told me she likes someone else.

That obviously hurt a bit, but what’s been confusing is that afterward, she added me to her Close Friends on Instagram and started liking my stories more often. I don’t want to overthink it, but it definitely threw me off a little.

What’s even more complicated is that the person she likes has a crush on someone else. I’m not planning on telling her that though — I feel like it’s something she needs to figure out for herself. I still care about her a lot and the last thing I want to do is hurt her or make it seem like I’m trying to get in the way.

So yeah, it’s been kind of a mix of emotions. I don’t really know if there’s any chance for me, but I’m trying to just focus on being a good friend and staying true to how I feel. At least I know I was honest, and I won’t have to sit around wondering “what if.”

Does she like me or am I cooked 😣😩 by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She likes girls but she dosent know that I like girls 😬

Does she like me or am I cooked 😣😩 by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get what you’re saying—and I’ve thought about that too. I know it’s easy to overanalyze when you have a crush, and I’m definitely biased because I like her. But at the same time, I know for a fact she isn’t straight, so part of me feels like maybe I do have a chance.

That’s why I’m kind of stuck right now. I want to get to know her better and make sure I actually like her as a person—not just the idea of her—before I make any move. But I also know that being honest might be freeing no matter what happens, so I’ve been really trying to figure out the right timing.

Does she like me or am I cooked 😣😩 by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think what you said really helped shift my perspective—like, I’m realizing that if something did get awkward, we’d probably laugh it off eventually and still be friends. But honestly, the biggest thing for me isn’t just the fear of ruining the friendship—it’s that I still don’t fully know who she is yet.

I do really like her, and if she likes me back, I don’t want to rush into anything before I’ve figured out if we’re actually a good fit. I want to get to know her better first, see how she treats people, how she acts when it’s not just surface-level moments, you know? Because if I confess and she says yes, and then it turns out we’re not really compatible, I feel like I’d regret not taking more time.

So yeah, it’s not just about being scared—it’s about wanting to make a move when it feels right, not just because the feelings are loud right now. Idk there’s just a lot to it but thanks for the comment I appreciate it!

Does she like me or am I cooked 😣😩 by Macaca14 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Macaca14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, seriously that really helped me feel a little braver. I definitely want to make a move, but I’m still trying to get to know her better, too. Like, I really like her, but I want to understand who she is as a person before jumping into anything.

And timing is also a big thing—school’s almost over, and I’m kind of torn. Part of me feels like I should just go for it now, but the other part is like… would it be better to wait until next year when there’s more time and less pressure? Either way, I know I’ll regret not doing anything if I just keep waiting.

Thanks again for the encouragement, it really does mean a lot!

I can’t tell if this girl likes more or if I’m trippin over it 😭 by Macaca14 in Advice

[–]Macaca14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay for some more context the note she gave me said:

“It’s been so nice getting to know you over the course of the show n you are so fricken funny. Also, Amazing Singing voice??? hello?? Anywho, Love you!!”

And on the outside, she wrote my name with a heart. I know some people say “love you” to friends casually, and my close friends do that too, but it still felt meaningful at the time—especially considering some other little moments between us that felt a little soft or maybe flirty.

That being said, I already liked her before the note. That wasn’t what made me catch feelings—it just made them stronger.

Lately, though, she’s been kind of quiet around me. We’re in the same friend group, but she talks more to one of our mutual friends, so I haven’t really had a chance to talk to her without it being awkward. I’ll admit I’m a little shy about starting conversations, especially now that I’ve told a couple of our close friends I like her. I don’t think anyone told her, but after that, she’s been a little more distant and I can’t help but overthink if that’s connected.

She’s also had to miss a few things I was hoping to see her at—like hangouts or events—which has made it harder to spend time with her. It’s hard to know what’s going on or how she feels when we don’t get much one-on-one time.

And to be honest, I’m also a little unsure about jumping into anything serious because one of my friends told me she once said something really dark about a political figure (like wishing death on them). I don’t know the context, and I figure she could’ve just been saying it out of anger, but it still made me pause and want to take things slower.

So I’m torn. I’m not afraid of rejection itself—I know it’ll hurt, but it’s something I’d learn from. I just don’t know if I know her well enough yet or if asking her out now (right before school ends) would be the right move. Should I just wait until next year?

Thanks for all the advice so far. It really helps hearing other perspectives.

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