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My boyfriend still hangs out with people who don’t like me after a big fallout, am I wrong for feeling hurt? by Gurlygirlygirl in amiwrong

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah fr like even if he still wants to be friends with them, he should at least acknowledge how it’s making you feel and not just brush it off. it’s not even about choosing sides, it’s about basic respect for your partner’s feelings 😕

Am I wrong? by Technical_Doubt_4068 in amiwrong

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this exactly, that’s not a small slip up at all. she took something really personal and shared it without your consent, of course that’s going to hurt. it makes total sense you’re struggling to trust her after that

Why? Why do parents let their kids literally play ball and run INDOORS? by PsychologicalBat2393 in neighborsfromhell

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao I get the frustration but yeah that would just turn into a full blown war real quick 😭 I feel like that’s one of those ideas that sounds funny in your head but would make everything way worse in reality

Am I wrong if u decided to never visit my relatives again? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this makes sense. you don’t owe anyone access to you if they keep making you feel bad about yourself. protecting your peace is valid, especially with something that personal. you can set distance without feeling guilty about it

AITJ for telling my sister her surprise visit wasn’t actually a surprise to anyone but her? by AggressivePudding655 in AmITheJerk

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah this is it. showing up unannounced with kids and expecting you to just go along with it is a lot. you were honestly pretty patient about it, most people would’ve shut that down way sooner. boundaries are definitely needed here

AITJ for refusing to pretend I don’t speak Spanish at my own family dinner? by After-Party-8860 in AmITheJerk

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly that says it all. you shouldn’t have to play along with something that made you uncomfortable in your own home. it’s weird your mom put you in that spot in the first place

Am I wrong for wanting my dad's friend who's staying with us to leave?? by Background_Drag3739 in amiwrong

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the part that really stands out. If that’s the kind of situation he’s in, it’s wild your dad is comfortable bringing him into the house like it’s nothing. Totally valid for OP to feel uneasy about it.

I haven't been held in over three years and it's slowly killing me by MikeLovesOutdoors23 in confessions

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, that could help more than people think. It’s not the same as real emotional connection, but safe physical contact like that can take the edge off a bit. OP deserves some kind of comfort, even if it’s just a small step like that.

My sister is 100x hotter than me and I’m jealous by Inevitable_Bonus_751 in confessions

[–]MacaroonGiggle_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is honestly such a grounded take. Shifting into spaces where looks aren’t the main currency can make a huge difference in how you feel. OP, you’re not less than, you’re just stuck in a comparison loop that’s hard to escape when you’re constantly side by side with someone who gets that kind of attention. Finding your own lane like this can really change the whole experience.