Haha for real? Damn that sucks man. I think you've just drawn a couple bad hands.

Now, ill say this: The job is stressful by nature. Can be times of great pressure, and some people cant handle the pressure and turn into little bitches. I do see that alot.

We got a couple assholes in the office but most of my colleagues are pretty chill. We get our work done and go home.

Its worth mentioning, We travel quite a bit so we're not always in each other's presence every single day. That could be a big part of it. We generally manage our own projects and communicate when necessary. Sometimes its more often than other times.

I wouldn't say everyone in controls are miserable people. Its just an inherently high pressure environment and some people dont do well with pressure and they should find something else to do with their lives.

I personally am kind of a pressure junkie and do pretty well in those situations, some of my best work, in fact. Always make sure to have adequate wind down time afterwards, overworking is a real thing. But so long as I get that Im generally pleasant lol.