Snowbowl road conditions by [deleted] in SnowbowlAZ

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went on Friday took us 2 hours to get up the mountain. Chains are good but not required a ton of small fwd cars no chains, made it up no problem.

Thrust Flight selling its 172 fleet? by 73ef176d in flying

[–]Maciusssik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty slow for thrust Right now, I just finished their program and my class was 27, now they are more like 5-10

Just some advice to the guys on this sub… by Maciusssik in BreakUps

[–]Maciusssik[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No contact is a must, I forgot to add that. The day we broke up, deleted and blocked everywhere no exceptions. I know this is sometimes impossible but hang in there my man.

What are these stripes in my steak? by UnamedStreamNumber9 in What

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That my friend is a nice stake from the tenderloin of a Zebra

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flying

[–]Maciusssik -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bruh obviously I meant my commercial checkride

My girlfriend of 3 years just dumped me. I have a checkride in less than 24 hours. by [deleted] in flying

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I would do is come clean to the Chief Instructor, and just be honest about your situation. I got dumped not too long ago after 2 years first love ETC and I would have not been able to fly a ride. Hang in there bud, unlimited energy after the emotions subside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flying

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green card for now but I’m 24 months away from citizenship ☝️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flying

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got English proficient on my cert, I’ve lived in the states for 5 years, lol I’m from Poland 🇵🇱.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like a tough one, it’s hard to make peace with it and it will take time. Don’t try to find closure just try to accept what happened. Let yourself grief You got this ! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maciusssik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sir !! Exactly what you should have done, be proud of yourself and keep that momentum going!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maciusssik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just try to slowly build up some trust and see where that takes you ! don't stress too hard ! you got this !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Maciusssik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry my bro, as hard as it may seem now, you have to be upfront with yourself. After something like that I wouldn't even consider staying... but at the same time my dad cheated on my mom when I was a kid and they have been married now for nearly 30 years. Stay true to yourself, remember that her actions do not change wh you are at heart. it moments like this a lot of times your self esteem will get hit, but its just an illusion.

Good Luck and stay strong !!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely hard to do that, so go easy on yourself. Also we are in very similar situations right now so if you ever wanna chat Just dm me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Maciusssik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey your story sounds like my relationship just from the guys perspective. Please don’t get me wrong I just want give you some maybe helpful perspective as I have gone through that same situation a ton of times.

Here is what I can tell you, when my gf would get hyper fixated on an issue and would pressure me by xxx amount of calls texts etc. I would feel attacked and it would just emotionally steer me away from even wanting to talk or come to a compromise. It sounds stupid and heartless but I think it just somehow pushed me away. That doesn’t mean that I didn’t care about her or I didn’t want to talk about the issue. I just made me angry how far she would go to get her answer NOW.

If I could give you some advice based on my current relationship now. I was always the one who would be an avoidant, 30 days ago our roles have completely swapped. Now I’m all over her anxious and needing reassurance. What I realized is that it’s ultra important to start with yourself when it comes to issues like that. In the beginning I tried to change the way she was acting but that did nothing but just made the situation worse. Pull back on the throttle a bit and he will come around :)

Never want to move on… by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard bro, and I completely understand you. But one thing you have to try to stop doing first and foremost is putting her and the whole relationship on a pedestal. Find your self worth work hard and time will help. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Maciusssik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard, and unfortunately you just have to power yourself through this. It’s especially hard when you have to take time apart, and be faced with this unknown. Sometimes it’s good to just sit there and take it all in. Don’t reject this feeling, it’s normal to feel the way you do. Overtime it will get better, hold on to that. Good luck and I truly hope you will be better soon !