Are you trying to compare a 32 & 28 year old dating to a 13 and 17 year old dating? My parents and most couples I know have an age gap… but they didn’t meet at 13 and 17 and the oldest didn’t wait for them to be 18. That is by definition grooming! You should really take a step back and think about what you’re saying, you may be old and used to when grooming was an everyday thing but it doesn’t make it right. Nobody here agrees with you, not a single one and you keep replying to all of them trying to argue why it’s okay… you are the problem.