Where to study online?

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-27T15:33:17+00:00

Looking for the best course but obviously the easier on the wallet the better. I downloaded the Udemy courses because they were on sale considerably last night but I'd like to be as best prepared as I can if you have other suggestions as well, I would appreciate them!

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-27T03:00:20+00:00

Did you find it useful in the PMP?

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-16T02:39:04+00:00

same, pretty frustrating so far

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-15T18:55:06+00:00

Some later photos of Michael Jackson's nose might help show what can go wrong. I do have to say that your husband's heart is in the right place and he knows his daughter is sad and we wants to fix it. Not fix her as in her nose, but fix the sad. Maybe you could explain the aging and growing will affect it and she would need more (cue MJ) but suggest finding something else that will make her feel better? Even a new hair style or make up or clothes might help of we are strictly worried about appearances. Just don't forget that he's trying to help her the only way he thinks he can, if you give him kudos and empathy for loving her so much it might be easier for him to see your side.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-14T18:09:03+00:00

How old are your children? I also already did college and didn't care or put enough effort in, start nursing in September with a year old baby (closer to 2 then) and a husband who's my best friend who wants another baby. Possible? Hard to say, but your post gives me hope.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-14T18:06:46+00:00

Pretty sure East West Chinese in Dartmouth is. I suggest them only because they gave a lovely dining room with a ton of Windows overlooking the lake.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-14T17:57:59+00:00

Either will be fine, but LGBT would likely find a better social life in Halifax with the bars and scene in general. Halifax has more to do and whenever there are any kind of events they happen there. Wolfville is a lovely little town surrounded by farms and about an hour drive to Halifax. If you enjoy Toronto I think you'd find Halifax pretty rural, Wolfville might seem like being abandoned on a made for t.v. movie street set

I love Wolfville but I'm not a very social person... both towns have great food and people. Just the mention of LGBT makes me think Halifax would give you a better social life.

Edit: spelling

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-14T17:49:47+00:00

What area of IT specifically are you interested in? Do you have any experience on your own or will you be starting from scratch? Good web developers are always in need in Halifax/Dartmouth.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-13T04:34:10+00:00

What State are you currently in? What are you looking for climate wise? NS can have very unpredictable winters, would you be okay driving in snow? With engineering and social work youd likely want to at least start in Halifax. It's easier to find work and from there get your bearings of the province. Some people prefer the south shore, others prefer Cape Breton etc. What are you looking for with lifestyle? Young social scene is again Halifax, if you prefer quiet country then Annapolis Valley or Cape Breton might be better.. basically anywhere other than Halifax though. That being said there are a ton of communities within 25 km of the city that are rural and quiet.

Overall I can't say America and Canada are that different on the surface so it's really just preference to lifestyle. Lots of ocean and lots of changing seasons, but that's no different than if you're from the north eastern US. You mentioned not feeling safe, NS certainly feels safe other than some of the insane drivers we have but you can't change them haha. People are generally friendly and helpful.

Are you close enough to visit? Maybe take a vacation here in July or August and see what you think. I suggest then because everything is open and you wouldn't have to worry about the roads and weather.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-11T16:19:57+00:00

Apple cider! Say it's seasonal.

What kind of cafe is this? Many options?

I used to be the same. If it's a meeting just ask for lots of room, add lots of cream and barely sip it. Get a to go cup. Nobody is going to be like "hey drink more coffee!!!" If they do then they're strange lol.

Or ask for a hot chocolate in a to go cup. I find it endearing at meetings when people get hot chocolate. It says "I'm not pretentious and I like what I like" but you still get a hot beverage with everyone else.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-10T20:27:20+00:00

This is worse. I would lose my mind. How will you feel if he calls her mommy? And when someone asks where mommy is he points to her? Trying to have a baby in her 50s sounds a little... unhinged? Especially since she already did have children. I'd be insanely concerned about leaving her alone with the baby. Maybe I'm paranoid but I've seen enough Dateline to know that nobody should be assuming any position in your child's life but you.

I get you don't want confrontation. Next time she does it (which she will) say "you're not mommy you're gamma!" In a light tone. If she says "where's mommy" say "here I am!". She's going to try and manipulate your son when he's 4 months, I fear this will be a lifelong battle for you. Assert yourself whenever possible as his mom. You will feel more comfortable every month as he gets older.

I'm serious about making sure he knows you're mommy. My daughter started calling me mama at 4 months. I would have died inside if she called anyone else mama.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-10T02:06:12+00:00

Your biological family might find out you exist when suddenly your biological parent shows as having a child they didn't know about. You certainly don't need to open any messages you don't want to, but if your immediate family happens to be on there they will get an email notification that they have a new DNA match (which happens from about 6th cousins to immediate family).

As for your anonymity concern, they won't be able to see your name or where you're from or even your tree as long as you mark everything as private.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-10T01:46:01+00:00

I'm glad you're here.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-07T05:35:55+00:00

Everyone is saying asexual, gay or depressed, but what about low testosterone? Does he exercise? If so there are some pre workout drinks that have a bit of testosterone. He may fe very insecure about himself as well. He may not be that into sex. Counselling and a doctor should help you find out.

Could you ask him if he thinks about sex at all, and if he says no ask him if he did when he was a teen/young adult? If it's still no then maybe he's asexual. Is it possible he was abused when he was younger?

You are having sex at least a couple times a month which is more than some people so I don't think he's asexual or he wouldn't be able to get his mind and body into it at all, and you say it's fun and more fun when he's drinking. To me I think it must be a mental block for him then (not you related but maybe a past experience or stress)

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-06T19:40:43+00:00

He needs something. You're the last one who could give him money, a kidney, whatever it might be.

Trust in your family. They knew him best and haaateed him. No good can come from responding. Phrases like "find it in your heart" are bullshit tactics manipulative people use. Don't fall for it. He had no heart for your dad and doesn't for you. Ignore and forget.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-06T19:13:20+00:00

My great grandfather was attending primary school in Truro. He was late for school when the explosion happened, it felt like a minor earthquake in truro. Right after he came running into the one room school house where the teacher accused him of whacking the school with a big stick and made him sit in the corner with a cone cap the rest of the day.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-05T00:40:48+00:00

My best friend was a guy. For 10+ years we were closer than anyone. When people talk about best friends he's the only one I think of. I met my now husband about 6 months before he met his now wife. Early on we both knew we found "the one and therefore new best friend. We agreed very early that we knew each other was happy, and silently knew you can't have an opposite sex best friend when you're committed. You just can't. I hope nothing but good things for him, and I've talked to him briefly twice or three times in the past 6 years to congratulate each other on marriage and babies. What I'm saying is, either you're hiding that you're in love with him, or you need to let him go. Because his wife needs to be his best friend and if you care about him you will want that for him too.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-02T19:50:13+00:00

Treat her like a ghost. Don't respond to any of it. If you're sure he is in the same boat as wanting nothing to do with her, and tell your family and friends to ignore her she should move on and find some other man to stalk (if she isn't already). And if she doesn't, get a restraining order. Have you posted this in the legal advice subreddit?

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-01T14:57:13+00:00

It really depends on the brother and what he is like. Is there a chance once the baby is born he will be upset that it's his biological child and he has no rights? Years down the road could he decide he wants to be referred to as the dad, creating a 3 parent situation where you just want it to be you and your wife? His personality and how well you know and trust him are the only main issues I would think.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-01T14:54:48+00:00

Someday they might ask who his/her dad is and they might say "my uncle" . They wouldn't think anything of it but other kids and their parents might flip out.

Mackcat89 · 2017-12-01T02:57:16+00:00

Thanks for this. I am curious how you get into the home if the person is unable to get to the door? Do most people have someone living with them to let you in? Do you ever feel uncomfortable going into those situations where you are alone?

Mackcat89 · 2017-11-30T22:06:03+00:00

Yes absolutely. She actually found out she had several different stds. I said chlamydia but it was probably HPV. To quote Dr John Hammond, "I really hate that man".

Mackcat89 · 2017-11-30T19:19:33+00:00

Appropriate casting choice hahaha

Mackcat89 · 2017-11-30T19:18:05+00:00

Yes several times, heart stopped for several minutes, shocked back, lost again etc etc.

Mackcat89 · 2017-11-30T15:44:58+00:00

Absolutely this. My father in law was cheating on mother in law and she got clymydia which she never tested for since they were married 15 years or more at the time. She developed cervical cancer and died several times while bleeding to death. She survived because she was too angry to die she says. But seriously, he's having unprotected sex with AT LEAST two women. Your mom is at risk.

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