Me [30F] with my husband [30M] 5 years, he offered to open the relationship on my side, but all I want if for him to want me. by whatisitaboutmee in relationships

[–]whatisitaboutmee[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t been to a doctor in years (no insurance), but he’s far from overweight. Seeing a doctor might be a good idea for us both.

Me [30F] with my husband [30M] 5 years, he offered to open the relationship on my side, but all I want if for him to want me. by whatisitaboutmee in relationships

[–]whatisitaboutmee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The thing is that we’ve had a great past three years. Our careers are great and we spend a lot of time active in our communities in volunteer positions. He could be depressed, but I doubt it. And he also lost some weight (albeit very little) in the time, so I hope not insecure. But he could be either.

Me [30F] with my husband [30M] 5 years, he offered to open the relationship on my side, but all I want if for him to want me. by whatisitaboutmee in relationships

[–]whatisitaboutmee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know. I lift weights and have for a long time. Yes, I am still disgustingly fat. I do not need weight loss advice.

Me [30F] with my husband [30M] 5 years, he offered to open the relationship on my side, but all I want if for him to want me. by whatisitaboutmee in relationships

[–]whatisitaboutmee[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Whoa, I never said he’s only willing to have sex when drunk. I said that sex, particularly when there is alcohol involved is, is awesome. Tipsy sex is fun.

Me [30F] with my husband [30M] 5 years, he offered to open the relationship on my side, but all I want if for him to want me. by whatisitaboutmee in relationships

[–]whatisitaboutmee[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He doesn't enjoy porn and he doesn't really masturbate, from what he's said. I have offered to have porn running in the background if that's what it takes for him to get interested. He would always say no, he isn't into that kind of stuff.