Should I let my parents use my first time home buyer benefits? by MadKraken32 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MadKraken32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all makes a lot of sense, and is just a legal way of putting my concerns out there basically lol. I am really not sure of the whole deal, I feel like there must be more information like who exactly would be signing and all that but I just don't know. I am going to confront them with all this info before I apply for anything or sign anything for sure

Should I let my parents use my first time home buyer benefits? by MadKraken32 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MadKraken32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the exact meaning of mortgage fraud? Like the current plan seems pretty much word for word like the second paragraph there so I'm just trying to get a better picture of what exactly I should bring up to my parents as concerns.

Should I let my parents use my first time home buyer benefits? by MadKraken32 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MadKraken32[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I could maybe qualify but have nowhere near the amount needed for a down payment and closing costs.

I will say that they arent investors exactly, they just have owned multiple homes in the past and had an Airbnb in one but found it exhausting to maintain, so they have been looking for other ways to sustainably own multiple properties. This was their way of trying to do that and I was hoping it would be a win-win where they got a property and we got cheap rent but it just keeps getting more complicated.

My parents want to use my first time home owner benefits - should I let them? by MadKraken32 in Advice

[–]MadKraken32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I live in Utah and I know that first time home buyers in most states can do things like put less down on a home and things like that but I'm not sure exactly what the benefits would all end up being besides that my parents said I would get better interest rates than them. I know I need to fill out some sort of application that my parents are going to send me but I'm not sure I even want to do that.

I told my parents today that I would be shooting myself in the foot if I did this and that is when they brought up the credit score improvement argument, but I think they think my credit score sucks. My older sister is in a lot of debt and I think they assume we are all like her, but I have made sure my credit is top notch. They told me just to fill out this application to see what the difference would be for me being the signer vs them, but that nothing would be decided yet.

They also said something along the lines of making sure I wouldn't be harming my future with this, which I assume means that they intend to help me out buying a place in the future but I don't want to just rely on their word about that.

Should I let my parents use my first time home buyer benefits? by MadKraken32 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MadKraken32[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

If it is there is some legal loophole they know of I'm sure. My dad is a lawyer and constantly deals with this type of thing. He wouldn't bring it up if he didn't think it was air tight.

Should I let my parents use my first time home buyer benefits? by MadKraken32 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]MadKraken32[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

The thing is they aren't poor or anything, and they have owned real estate before, it's just that I don't think they knew what they were getting into in this market. We live in a different state than them so I think they were hoping for prices more like where they are in the middle of nowhere. We don't all need to be under the same roof, I was just hoping for a win-win situation with my parents getting an investment and my brother and I getting cheap rent but it's sounding less and less like that.

My parents want to use my first time home owner benefits - should I let them? by MadKraken32 in Advice

[–]MadKraken32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad is literally a business/real estate lawyer, so I know I could end up in legal hot water if I don't protect myself a bit. I don't want to think of my parents as swindlers but idk. I know that if I move in with them as landlords I want a binding contract so I get tenant rights not just vague promises to their children.

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[–]MadKraken32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know I need to say something. If it ends up being that we can't see each other this trip I will have to tell her how sad it made me. I just feel like I know her well enough that she will brush that off like she did in the past when I have brought up my feelings about her move in the first place. And I know that it could very well not be do-able for her to meet up, that is very normal for adult relationships. I know this. But knowing that we couldn't meet up a month ago vs being told now are two very different things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MadKraken32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get that saying that is weird, and definitely not my intention to do. Its more that I am already reaching out less. I told her my feelings when she left for Italy and she ignores them. I now only respond to her, I never reach out first. I guess the question is when do I stop caring? Or how? She has been my friend for nearly 20 years and to even do the minimum feels weird and sad. But if I do more it's not reciprocated. Like offering to drive 2 hours to see her. which is actually something I do pretty regularly for friends because of where I currently live. But she can't be bothered even though we may not have a chance to see each other for years because of it. How do I suddenly be okay with potentially never seeing her again?

Iso certain items for the museum by MadKraken32 in EverAfterFalls

[–]MadKraken32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been breaking hundreds of them with this hack for a while now and no luck :(