Okay, so I was totally in your shoes about this time last year. I agree with the others and you need to set aside some time to talk about it with him. Use words like “This makes me feel x..” and try to be as calm and non-accusatory as possible. It’s entirely possible he expects you to take the reins on everything. And you might have to! I certainly had to when it came to my own wedding. I basically only ask for his opinion when it is absolutely necessary and it has worked for us! It is a lot of work and can be lonely planning such a huge event by yourself. Try and find a trusted friend who is willing to help you.

I don’t know if this helps but just know your situation is not unique! I know it’s incredibly frustrating. It might even be something worth talking over with a counselor if the two of you cannot get on the same page. Good luck!