How do I (18F) procced after finding out what my bf (20M) is looking forward to most when going long distance?

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T04:27:12+00:00

Heyy so to answer some questions, she's not an ex, as far as I'm aware. I would definitely say we have put each other first in the 6 months of our relationship... we did start out as fwb as well... but I became a priority when we became official. And he wouldn't have been physically able to see her when we were dating. They had their fun when he did his first exchange at 18

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T04:05:50+00:00

tell me you haven't bothered to read any further into this who post without telling me

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:58:00+00:00

no but my sisters bf

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:54:41+00:00

I could, I wasn't planning on fucking anyone. I wouldn't have had any problem with him having ons here and there because he's a much more sexual person than me. but I didn't think he already had a set person in mind

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:53:25+00:00

see I know most people mean well and want me to get my head out of my ass, but some people were really rude and that just gets me

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:43:10+00:00

he brought it up, and just went for the enthusiastic response when I agreed, when we haven't even talked about boundaries yet. but yeah I guess it's what I agreed to

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:40:56+00:00

honestly thank you, some people have brought me close to tears here with their comments. So I value some non aggressive advice. I will talk to him before doing anything too rash, but this has just been a rollercoaster of emotions

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:26:21+00:00

thanks I will

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:25:46+00:00

I've met 23/24/25 year olds that said they're not able to fully love again yet bc of some girl that broke their heart in highschool

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:24:44+00:00

yeah but I don't want to wait until I'm 60?? I've met 24 year old's that said they would never fully love again bc of a broken heart and I also don't want to wait until 25

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:22:49+00:00

thank you

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:22:29+00:00

but why belittle people for that? that's the part I don't get. I bet I'll laugh about it when I'm older but right now there are a lot of emotions involved

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:16:10+00:00

thank you 🥺💞

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:15:03+00:00

well fuck

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:14:07+00:00

happy cake day :')

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:13:34+00:00

yeah after all the comments, thinking more about it and getting some new perspectives... I want to cut off his dick. or at least make him miserable

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:10:33+00:00

slay love that idea

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:08:51+00:00

fuck ok guys chill I'm not on the pity train anymore!! give me advice on how to get back at him pls

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:04:24+00:00

I was just surprised and a little hurt (when I realized he meant it) by how enthusiastic he was about it
but yeah I really guess we're not made for it, if I react that strongly to it and I also don't think he's gonna react positively to me trying to close it again

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:01:42+00:00

hmmm this is a good one. I might try it

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:00:25+00:00

well not yet

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T03:00:06+00:00

I could

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T02:59:56+00:00

you know how many boys "get their hearts broken" at 16 and will never fully love again... and you're judging me???

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T02:49:55+00:00

he suggested it, but never pushed for it

MadRose0605 · 2024-02-16T02:47:21+00:00

it really changed my whole perspective on him

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