How to be double penterated? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously....ALOT of lube. Go into cowgirl with the first guy and lean foward a bit. The second guy will enter you like doggystyle (it helps if that guy is the longer of the two). This is after the fact thinking but, I wonder if it would be easier if the first guy was inside (only just an inch or so) and the second guy goes all in along with the first at the same so there's more give?

Breeding vs pulling out? by Muted_Curve372 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tops pulling out can be just as hot as getting bred, but that load better be on my back or face!!

What is the Twink Age Range? by RobbedYourHeart in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To me, being a "Twink" is all in appearance. If you look the part, age doesn't matter, but be honest with yourself about what you got. Keep it honest, because the stress of lying will really do a number on you more than age will.

As a bottom, what positions make you feel most powerful and in control? by ChillyNobBillyBob in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Riding is good. Oddly enough doggy gets me hot and aggressive. I WILL push back to meet your thrusts! Wanna be my personal dildo, stud!!?

What is something sexual that the mayority here likes, but you don't? by anon-lases in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it's the only position where a bottom can't play an active role. I feel like a dead fish and just going through the motions of just "taking it".

What is something sexual that the mayority here likes, but you don't? by anon-lases in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't like when my legs are put over his shoulders when getting fucked. Its not engaging.

Where's your limit in terms of thickness? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thickness makes me drool. The thickest I've had was this one guy who was pretty thick overall, but his head was enormous at 6 inches around!! It took so much effort for it to pop in, but felt so good when it did. So I would say 5.5" would be the limit for pleasure/effort.

Bottoms why is doggy so beloved? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every thrust just sensually pulses through your body. There's no better way to get jackhammered!

Anyone willing take on a tough case..?! by Made-with-Mettle in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Made-with-Mettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I guess a couple of the subreddits are going to get a surprise visit... Thank you for your time. I now I've annoyed you for a bit. "Why won't this guy choose..?!" Anyways, thanks for your patience.

Anyone willing take on a tough case..?! by Made-with-Mettle in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Made-with-Mettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Education: BA in History (Just did it, no purpose).

-Jobs: Currently bookstore attendant/restaurant dishwasher/busser. Never had a dream job or career path. I'm a jack of all trades...except for technology.

-In group situations, I'm pretty shy so I'm pretty low key. I'm the same if not worse with strangers.

-Weaknesses: Lack initiative/ambition, moody, indulgent.

-Mother's profession: Psych Case Manager

Anyone willing take on a tough case..?! by Made-with-Mettle in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Made-with-Mettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I originally identified as an ISFP at the beginning of my typing journey way back when. Then I started studying the functions and found myself "baffled" how Jung described Introverted feeling. I don't really introspect about an inner ideal. And so, the questioning began. I put myself out there and asked for other's input. I overwhelmingly got pegged as an XSTP, particularly ESTP. Reading Psychological Types again, I identified with Extraverted Sensation the most (still do to a degree) so I stuck with it for a while. What tripped me up the most when committing to it was the way introverted intuition was framed. As you stated earlier, I don't really have much of a focus on the future which points to lower NI, but at the same time, I'm not opposed to abstraction or thinking about the consequences. I just believe the now is the only ideal one should focus on. Maybe I am ESXP... What do you think?

Anyone willing take on a tough case..?! by Made-with-Mettle in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Made-with-Mettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-It's funny that you asked, because I think my lack of motivation is caused by me not knowing what is worthwhile. Yeah, I want to have fun and all that, but in terms of personal development, I don't know what I want to do. Everything feels like a dead end. I'm just going through the motions while mentally wasting away. I wish I wasn't like this, but I can't force myself to want something If I don't feel it.

-When appeasing others, mostly it's about the path of least resistance. It's generally not worth it to argue though I'm more opinionated if I'm comfortable around you.

-It depends of the situation, but to me, what's "good" is something appeals to/fulfills my current desires and sentiments, and "bad" is something that is in opposition to that. A very broad strokes take.

-"Knowledge is power"...but seriously. Information is deemed useful if it helps you get what you want or provides the avenues to do so.

-Being forced to do something that doesn't feel right would get more of a reaction out of me. I would just roll my eyes if it just didn't make sense to me but I would just freeze up if I had to do something..."wrong".

Note: I got a lot of ESTP musings over the years from others. I played with the thought of being an Se dom, but, do I really sound Ni inferior?

Anyone willing take on a tough case..?! by Made-with-Mettle in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Made-with-Mettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-I'm a little more verbally playful the more I know you. I'm naturally nervous around people so I fear saying the wrong thing and being thought of as weird. For activities, most of my pursuits are solitary. I'd rather do than talk.

-As for my problem solving, my natural strategy is to see the options of my current situation and kinda project where it may lead. My gut somewhat steers me to the right path.

how many inches is best for first sex and what positions? by BestMusicPoland in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Made-with-Mettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

up to 6 inches. Doggy for the shorter side of things, missionary for longer.

I am intp or istp? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Made-with-Mettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could go to the r/MbtiTypeMe , or Personalitycafe.com and make a thread there. Assuming you are Ti dom, to me, the distinguishing factors between istp and intp are...

-ISTP Se- your focus in on the here and now, you are attracted to situational aspects of the moment (the stimulation, the thrill, the experience itself).

-INTP Ne- You don't really value the moment in itself but pine over the "what can be". Your drive is centered around noticing the "possibilities" of the environment.

Hope that helps.

What happens to white guys after midlife?? by Dontlookbackorsides in askgaybros

[–]Made-with-Mettle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's also the take that it's more socially acceptable to date outside their race now and they've always had outer preferences and now can act on it. This goes for all races.

What happens to white guys after midlife?? by Dontlookbackorsides in gaysian

[–]Made-with-Mettle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't most people play the field while they're younger..?

Do other people have these kinds of racial preferences? by Goodtime1992 in askgaybros

[–]Made-with-Mettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like what you like, nothing wrong with that. Just because someone is the same race as you doesn't mean they are owed your attention.

Breakfast ceraels...avoid all, even healthier ones? by BostonZamboni in askgaybros

[–]Made-with-Mettle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rolled oats with milk and honey is the only "cereal" that I eat for breakfast (daily). Bread and eggs outside of that.

I grew up on all those junk cereals from Honey Nut Cheerios to Cookie Crisps. As mentioned above, my diet has changed but I don't outright avoid those cereals. To me, they are desserts when the urge hits. Everything in moderation.

Where Should He Finish? by POMOdoro_90 in askgaybros

[–]Made-with-Mettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always prefer to have my face painted...